Dream of GF

[lovesexfun]

One day in a sudden moment my GF started talking about her dreams and I also started sharing. One of her dream caught my total attention in which she is in a hotel room, standing naked in front of 4 old men, lying on bed,looking at her and smiling and she is smiling back.
This is what she remembers of that dream and left me in a wondering state.
Is it just a Dream or some indication?
Is it a reality depicted as a Dream?
Shall I ask for more details or not ?
Why old if its a Dream?

 

[Feshta]

I guess it depends what you really want.

If you are turned on by the idea ask her if it was a dream she’d want to act on. Maybe suggest some role play and go from there

 

[Justfantasies]

One day in a sudden moment my GF started talking about her dreams and I also started sharing. One of her dream caught my total attention in which she is in a hotel room, standing naked in front of 4 old men, lying on bed,looking at her and smiling and she is smiling back.
This is what she remembers of that dream and left me in a wondering state.
Is it just a Dream or some indication?
Is it a reality depicted as a Dream?
Shall I ask for more details or not ?
Why old if its a Dream?

Maybe she is preparing you for a little confession?


How old were the guys?

 

[lovesexfun]

I guess it depends what you really want.

If you are turned on by the idea ask her if it was a dream she’d want to act on. Maybe suggest some role play and go from there

It kinda turned me ON and as I mentioned my concentration was to the max. I asked her if she would like to make that dream come true but she didn't say anything.

 

[lovesexfun]

hmm confession it means it had already happened ?
She mentioned old but no age she told i am guessing more than 50.

 

[ThinkWrite]

Could be really fun to role play it with her if she’d be open to it.

Blindfold her and set the scene for her with the four men watching...

 

[lovesexfun]

Could be really fun to role play it with her if she’d be open to it.

Blindfold her and set the scene for her with the four men watching...

never thought of this but good idea after her consent for sure

 

[Vitriolhack]

It kinda turned me ON and as I mentioned my concentration was to the max. I asked her if she would like to make that dream come true but she didn't say anything.

Well, you get points for wanting to expand her sexual exploration and yours. Proceed carefully in a non judgemental way.

Depending on her upbringing, she may not have yet fully realized that she is excited by such a thought.

Dreams are often a representation of our latent desires. In the dream things happen because our “guard” is down and not subject to everyday pressure and social norm.

If you want that to happen for her, I would suggest, if I may, you letting her know, at the right time, that the dream she had, the more you thought about it, the more it turned you on!

Clearly, that seems to be the case, since you did not bring up the fact that you felt betrayed or any king of disgust about it.

Basically, make her feel like it’s ok for her to talk about it. Don’t force the issue, in the sense that would rush her into a situation her conscious self has not yet caught up with her unconscious side.

It may be that she feels guilty about it. Hopefully, she will open up to you. This is a very sensitive subject even for couples that have been together for more than 20years.

Of course it could also just be a dream and she wants nothing else then push it out of her mind.

Hope this helps,

V.

 

[screwher]

The question here is did the dream arouse HER? What's depicted in dreams are symbols of something else. Also, when was the last time she had sex? Erotic dreams can also be a release valve for built up tension.

 

[Jada59]

Dreams can have meanings or not. Only she would know.

 

[lovesexfun]

Well, you get points for wanting to expand her sexual exploration and yours. Proceed carefully in a non judgemental way.

Depending on her upbringing, she may not have yet fully realized that she is excited by such a thought.

Dreams are often a representation of our latent desires. In the dream things happen because our “guard” is down and not subject to everyday pressure and social norm.

If you want that to happen for her, I would suggest, if I may, you letting her know, at the right time, that the dream she had, the more you thought about it, the more it turned you on!

Clearly, that seems to be the case, since you did not bring up the fact that you felt betrayed or any king of disgust about it.

Basically, make her feel like it’s ok for her to talk about it. Don’t force the issue, in the sense that would rush her into a situation her conscious self has not yet caught up with her unconscious side.

It may be that she feels guilty about it. Hopefully, she will open up to you. This is a very sensitive subject even for couples that have been together for more than 20years.

Of course it could also just be a dream and she wants nothing else then push it out of her mind.

Hope this helps,

V.

I will let her decide what he wants for that dream.

 

[lovesexfun]

The question here is did the dream arouse HER? What's depicted in dreams are symbols of something else. Also, when was the last time she had sex? Erotic dreams can also be a release valve for built up tension.

i guess she was aroused by the fact and thought of it that's why she shared with me otherwise she would have let it go.

 

[lovesexfun]

Dreams can have meanings or not. Only she would know.

agree

 

[lovesexfun]

dreams are meant to be true and individual have to do it.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

agree

she isn't necessarily the only one who would know if anything in the dream
means anything---, first of all people aren't usually the best at interpreting their own dreams... something about not seeing the forest bcuz of all the trees.