DP with just one guy

[kimbernee]

The BF wants to try DP which has long been a fantasy for me but I'm not getting a second guy I'm going to have to make do with him and toys. How's the best way to make it work? When I've used vibrators or dildos in either hole in the past they've tended to require at least one hand to keep them in. He prefers doggie and we both like it hard, so there never seem to be any hands free. Advice on toys, positions, etc. for how we simulate this without an extra body?

 

[soccrstar]

you can always use a strap-on dildo

 

[yogiforlife]

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You could always use a one of those strap ons that you stick or attach to something, that way you stradle it while ur boyfriend penetrates you.

 

[rthnck]

lots of choices but here are two that you could try

http://www.adameve.com/Vibrators/An...n-stinger-Vibrators-1001.aspx?f=1&itemtype=30

http://www.adameve.com/mens-adult-s...rator-cockring-mens-adult-sex-toys-12049.aspx

 

[SweetErika]

Off the top of my head:

- In doggy, support yourself with your forearm to distribute the weight and avoid tiring so quickly. You can also put a shoulder and head down on the bed, while holding the toy with one hand. Pillows might help you find your most comfortable position.

- Use a butt plug with a flared base. It might take a bit of practice, but you should be able to hold it in with your muscles for the duration of sex, giving you two free hands. Worst case, he'll have to push it back in every now and then. There are vibrating and standard plugs in all sizes, if you don't have one that will work.

 

[robincr]

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[kimbernee]

Great ideas, everyone, especially robincr. Thanks. Has anyone tried that DP cock ring? It seems like it would put a lot of pressure on his cock to get any kind of good thrusting going.

 

[The Gimp]

I've pulled this off a couple of different ways, and the key is lots of foreplay and lots of lube. Once I was performing oral on my girlfriend while teasing her with a dildo in her ass. When she was about to cum I climbed on top of her. With a dick in the pussy and a toy in the ass she had quite an impressive orgasm. It was good for me too because I could actually feel the toy in her ass.
Another more extreme version of the same story involved me putting a nice sized dildo in her pussy, and when she was at the peak of her orgasm I pulled off a DP with a toy and a dick in the pussy.
99% of the time I stick to traditional sex but every so often I throw in a circus act to spice up things

 

[SubNebGuy]

use a butt plug
lay on your stomach, pillow under hips to help arch your butt up
he should be able to thrust and his waist will hold the plug in place, probably even making it thrust a little too.

works with my wife

 

[rthnck]

Great ideas, everyone, especially robincr. Thanks. Has anyone tried that DP cock ring? It seems like it would put a lot of pressure on his cock to get any kind of good thrusting going.

Well I suggested it and I have tried it. The pro is you get what you want. The con is that depending on the size of your bf's cock you may have to do some trimming with a razor. The toy is gear toward average/small size so if you are lucky enough to have an above average partner you'll need that razor. It's easy to do and you'll get a custom fit. The other benefit is the cockring will keep him hard as steel. Enjoy the pounding...

 

[NaughtyEyes]

I've been wondering the same thing, glad you posted this. We've had fun with plugs and beads etc but the DP cock ring spiked my interest Now I'm disappointed that I cant find one, anyone with a link?

 

[rthnck]

the link is in my post above....

 

[NaughtyEyes]

I'm not slow I swear

 

[Baz62]

Have tryed this a few times on her knees with a butt plug or toy in her bum while I have pussy and also her lay on her back with a toy in her pussy while I have her ass slips out sometimes but worth it for sure.

 

[Ezzy]

The con is that depending on the size of your bf's cock you may have to do some trimming with a razor. The toy is gear toward average/small size so if you are lucky enough to have an above average partner you'll need that razor. It's easy to do and you'll get a custom fit.

Seems a little extreme to make your over sized bf under go penile surgery?

 

[albertaboy]

We've done it with a vibrating egg/bullet in her ass with me in her pussy. It feels pretty cool, the vibrations through the walls of her vagina is a really neat sensation.

 

[luvitlong]

Great ideas, everyone, especially robincr. Thanks. Has anyone tried that DP cock ring? It seems like it would put a lot of pressure on his cock to get any kind of good thrusting going.

ive got the one in the second pic , its pretty good for penetration and , not bad for size .

my oh says its pretty comfortable and enjoys the vibrations .

so its fun for all

 

[Dreamliner]

We've done it with a vibrating egg/bullet in her ass with me in her pussy. It feels pretty cool, the vibrations through the walls of her vagina is a really neat sensation.

We did this on one occassion...nearly lost the damn egg further up her...it took a while to extract and would be very cautious using this toy again for this.

We have used a dildo that is shaped like a cock, it is supposedly the "cock" of some porn star, with balls attached...so this holds nicely against her when we are either spooned or during doggy; the dildo in her ass and me nestled in the warmth of her vagina.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Master will give me the dildo to put in my ass/pussy and then he'll use my other hole himself. His neat trick is to growl 'let that thing drop out and I'll stop fucking you.'

It's been foolproof so far.

We do use buttplugs with flared ends and I can second the posters who suggested spooning and having the girl on top with a dildo in her pussy and cock in her ass.

I'd love to have two men one day but it's definitely not going to happen anytime soon. Master has no interest in MFM so it's a limit of mine by extension.

 

[fenghuang]

I'd love to have two men one day but it's definitely not going to happen anytime soon. Master has no interest in MFM so it's a limit of mine by extension.

Would he entertain the idea of him fucking one of your holes and a woman with a strapon fucking the other?

 

[cubbies]

My wife and I do this everytime we have sex. She didn't care for me in her ass while fucking a dildo, but she is HOOKED on two in the chamber.

 

[dakotagirl]

http://www.adameve.com/mens-adult-s...rator-cockring-mens-adult-sex-toys-12049.aspx

I second this one. Hubby and I have it and it is great

 

[Colton_White]

@those who are enthusiastically advancing

The OP [thread starter] had asked this q? on 09-27-2007.
and She hasn't posted any feed back here since before January.
so looks like she already found the answer, since a long time.

 

[kimbernee]

No, we've never tried any of these options unfortunately. He got conservative on me and it's all I can do now to get a regular ass-fucking once a month. I enjoy the posts though.

 

[fullofspunk]

No, we've never tried any of these options unfortunately. He got conservative on me and it's all I can do now to get a regular ass-fucking once a month. I enjoy the posts though.

Too bad, I'd love to be with someone more adventerous