Double headed Dildo (please help)

[Glistening Girl]

Hello everyone

This is my first post in this forum. However, I do lurk in here a lot and could use some advice from those more experienced then me.

I'm married and we are involved in a swinging relationship with another couple. It is mainly about us two women.

Anyway, she purchased a double headed dildo this week and we are going to their home tonight to try it out.

We are all new to this lifestyle and neither have tried doing this sort of dildo before. So, my question is for those that have. What positions do you find work best. Is is as good as it looks in pictures? How was your first experience with using a double dong?

Any advice or suggestions will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

 

[TrojanMan77]

i dont have expirience with that but u can tell us how it goes

 

[Sheharazad]

Best (or at least, easiest) position is both of you face-up, but propped up so you can easily see the other woman. Legs do need to be completely spread (if you're not naturally limber, best to do a few pre-coital stretches here). It is a bit finicky, so take your time, and make a game of it.

Good luck, have fun, and let us know how it goes!

-Sheharazad

 

[Glistening Girl]

Thanks for the reply Sheharazad That sounds like a great position! I will tell her when I see her about it.


TrojanMan I will be sure to post a reply after the big event for the curious.

 

[Jayzzzy]

My hubby (bi) and I also enjoy the double dong - me lying on my back with the dildo in my wet pussy (holding my legs together) and him sitting on top sliding his tight hole onto the other end of the dildo.....wow..I need to get home quick.....

 

[REALKEWL]

Wow Jayzzy... that sounds like what me and my girlfriend like to do with our DD. Also I love it when we are both on our knees, butt-to-butt... this way it goes in way deeper! :-D

 

[Lightning]

When we use ours, we typically lie on our backs, and feed it first into me, then into her. It's great for when we grind our asses together, giving each of us pleasure. Although, our current DD is only about 12" long, and usually one of us gets the "short end of the stick", so to speak.

We've been looking to get a longer one, and possibly one of the ones that bends so that we can get more creative. Good luck, and enjoy!

 

[Etoile]

Wait, am I the only person here who prefers a strap-on type double dildo?! I've seen the tubular kind that's being described here (Daddy even has one or two in eir mystical toy chest) but I've never used one.

My wife and I have two different styles, an old-school boomerang style (I simply cannot find a picture online, it's a greater bend than even this "boomerang" dildo, it's basically a V shape), and also the Nexus Jr.

And at Daddy's house we keep the full-size Nexus...yeah, I'm a size queen!

Good info on double dildos:
http://www.sextoyspro.com/double-dongs.shtml

 

[JennyRocks]

I love double dildo fun. Ass to ass, not anally, in the pussy, just both faces other directions is fantastic....but tough.

A third person helping with a hand on the dildo's middle helps.

 

[Glistening Girl]

Thanks to everyone for their comments and the links were great Etoile!

Alrighty, hubby and I went over last night and had our fun with my girl friend and her man. The double dildo was a huge hit!!!

We did it first on our knees which was hard until the guys took turns moving it in and out. Then we flipped to our backs which I found to work much better. The dildo was two feet long with the wonderful veins all over it. Us girls used our vibes on our clits as we grinded and fucked the double dong.

Very hot night and can't wait to do it again. Unless we go with the strap on next time.

 

[Etoile]

The dildo was two feet long with the wonderful veins all over it.

Very hot night and can't wait to do it again. Unless we go with the strap on next time.

Wow...it's funny how people prefer different things. This past weekend I was supposed to be fucked up the ass with a big veiny dildo, and I just did not like it. I don't know if it's from lacking experience with the real thing (are they really supposed to be that veiny?!) but I just prefer dildos without veins. Then again, I also prefer non-realistic dildos...I do NOT need mine to look like a real dick, in fact I prefer it to be pretty colors and have all kinds of weird bumps and twists! (The bumps are typically much larger than veins, so it's not the same feeling.)

If you're going to use a strap-on with a harness, I highly recommend the Nexus. It's silicone, so it's on the expensive side, but it is WELL worth it. Much better than my old-style boomerang. I haven't actually tried the Feeldoe, though (it's also called the Divining Rod), so that might be good too.

 

[JennyRocks]

Then again, I also prefer non-realistic dildos...I do NOT need mine to look like a real dick, in fact I prefer it to be pretty colors and have all kinds of weird bumps and twists!

You took the words right out of my keyboard!

only thing I can add now is that I like to give names to my funny looking toys...and No I don't ever talk to them , but they all have different personalities.

 

[Lightning]

Etoile: Until I got on here, I didn't even know about the Nexus. Now, we're looking to get that as our next toy. That way my wife can enjoy it, while I'm receiving. Once we can save up the the dildo AND the harness, I'm sure much fun will be had. Thank you for the heads up, and I can't wait to try it.

GlisteningGirl: I'm glad you had fun with your DD. I can personally attest that a strapon is a fun way to enjoy an evening as well, but then again, I'm a biased male that wishes I always had a woman with a strapon around. I'm also a male slut.

Good luck on your next endeavor!

 

[Lightning]

You took the words right out of my keyboard!

only thing I can add now is that I like to give names to my funny looking toys...and No I don't ever talk to them , but they all have different personalities.

We have names for all of ours too. No, we don't talk to them, but it makes it easier to determine what we're in the mood for by calling them by name. For example, our DD is called *snort*, Bert & Ernie.

I can say that we at least have fun with our bedroom experiences.

 

[Etoile]

Etoile: Until I got on here, I didn't even know about the Nexus. Now, we're looking to get that as our next toy. That way my wife can enjoy it, while I'm receiving. Once we can save up the the dildo AND the harness, I'm sure much fun will be had. Thank you for the heads up, and I can't wait to try it.

Woo, I'm glad to hear you're getting one! They really are awesome, much more fun for the woman than a regular (non-double) dildo.

 

[uptoplay2]

wait....

double entry...... odd to have it happen on this thread....

 

[uptoplay2]

wait.... Etoile allowed that feeldoe might be ok?

I haven't tried either..... but maybe within the year....?????
Mr. Happy's report elsewhere praised the feeldoe because you can easily change to different positions and there's no harness to worry about. To stop and fiddle with.... though I'm sure that a harness would be fun to get ready the first 50-100 times.
The feeldoe is also apparently flexible.... and yet still rigid ????? Mr. Happy reported that it can be bent so a woman can use both heads on herself, but not as flexible as the long doubleheaded ones that need a to be held for two people.....
Not that I'd care...... if she was happy. I'd just rather she didn't have to worry..... just like I don't have to when I'm doing her.

 

[Etoile]

Re: wait.... Etoile allowed that feeldoe might be ok?

I haven't tried either..... but maybe within the year....?????
Mr. Happy's report elsewhere praised the feeldoe because you can easily change to different positions and there's no harness to worry about. To stop and fiddle with.... though I'm sure that a harness would be fun to get ready the first 50-100 times.
The feeldoe is also apparently flexible.... and yet still rigid ????? Mr. Happy reported that it can be bent so a woman can use both heads on herself, but not as flexible as the long doubleheaded ones that need a to be held for two people.....
Not that I'd care...... if she was happy. I'd just rather she didn't have to worry..... just like I don't have to when I'm doing her.

Okay, I'm pretty damn confused here.

First of all, it is a big misconception that a harness requires fiddling with. The first time you use it, you put it on, you adjust the straps, and you're ready to go. The second time...you put it on, and you're ready to go. I guess if more than one person is sharing a harness then they will need to adjust it, but my wife and I each have our own and we just slip them right on.

I've seen citations elsewhere that indicate the Feeldoe is much better when used with a harness. As for "rigid and flexible" that just sounds weird. Where are you getting this information, uptoplay2?

Oh, and I just cannot picture a woman using both ends of the Feeldoe on herself. Not with any depth of penetration from the long end, anyway.

 

[kalalau]

Hi, strap-on experts:

Please help!! Can either the feeldoe or the nexus be used without a harness? With this type of dildo, which is the best way to use it.....with or without a harness? Which is the better dildo? Why?

I'd really appreciate some tutoring here...

Thanks!!

 

[look_no_panties]

Hello everyone

This is my first post in this forum. However, I do lurk in here a lot and could use some advice from those more experienced then me.

I'm married and we are involved in a swinging relationship with another couple. It is mainly about us two women.

Anyway, she purchased a double headed dildo this week and we are going to their home tonight to try it out.

We are all new to this lifestyle and neither have tried doing this sort of dildo before. So, my question is for those that have. What positions do you find work best. Is is as good as it looks in pictures? How was your first experience with using a double dong?

Any advice or suggestions will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Lucky girl! I wish i was a fly on the wall. My best experiences with double headed dildos have involved myself and my lover on all fours with our bottoms touching. Then we insert the dildo into our pussies and fuck away. It's great to have the dildo inside you and the asses banging together. Have fun and let us know what happened!

 

[Etoile]

Hi, strap-on experts:

Please help!! Can either the feeldoe or the nexus be used without a harness? With this type of dildo, which is the best way to use it.....with or without a harness? Which is the better dildo? Why?

I'd really appreciate some tutoring here...

Thanks!!

Hi kalalau,

As you'll see from some of the discussion in this thread, there are Feeldoe fans and Nexus fans out there. It's really a matter of personal preference. They're both high quality products, so the "better dildo" is kind of subjective.

I personally would say the best way to use them is with a harness. I have never found a harness limiting in any way, and I would think that using them without a harness would be distracting...you'd have to focus so much on holding them in that you couldn't really go to town.

 

[LindaL]

I've got to try a "feeldoe"!

We've tried the double dildo a few times, but unless there's a third party like hubby to help out, it is NOT worth it for us!

 

[Etoile]

LindaL, you might want to try one that's boomerang-shaped rather than just one long dildo. Those are much more fun for just two.

 

[kalalau]

I personally would say the best way to use them is with a harness.

Thank you so much, Etoile, for your advice.

Forgive my ignorance on this issue, but in regard to the nexus and the feeldoe, am I correct in saying that one end would be inserted into my partner's pussy, and the other end would go into my butt?

Right or wrong, this sounds so GOOD!!

Thanks again......

 

[Etoile]

Oh, you're a guy who wants to wear them? They probably wouldn't work with a harness for you, then, I'm sorry. There are harnesses made for men (like this one) but they are not for use with double dildos.

However, your wife could wear one end in her pussy and fuck you with the other...that's really what they're mostly designed for, to be worn by a woman

You might be able to get away with using the Feeldoe as you've described, but I think the Nexus would be at a very awkward angle for any thrusting!