Dont shave it all off.

[joe217713]

So as a 40 yo male I find that I truly love a non shaved woman. Shaving her legs is great, but just a trim or nothing at all down below is such a turn on. After looking at all these woman on this site and other it amazes me how many even of my age are fully shaved.

Are there any other men or women out there that still prefer or don't fully shave?

My wife just trims herself and I find it such a hug turn on. I feel weird talking to other guys about it, feel like I would be the strange dude in the group.

 

[pointless]

i don't really care. you shouldn't either. also, telling people what to do with their own bodies isn't exactly the best way to make friends.

 

[MelissaBaby]

So as a 40 yo male I find that I truly love a non shaved woman. Shaving her legs is great, but just a trim or nothing at all down below is such a turn on. After looking at all these woman on this site and other it amazes me how many even of my age are fully shaved.

Are there any other men or women out there that still prefer or don't fully shave?

My wife just trims herself and I find it such a hug turn on. I feel weird talking to other guys about it, feel like I would be the strange dude in the group.

It's a little bit disconcerting that you talk to other guys about your wife's twat, but at least you feel weird about it.

 

[joe217713]

Not always guys, sometime other friends that are female.

 

[MelissaBaby]

Not always guys, sometime other friends that are female.

Just out of curiosity, do you think she ever discusses your dick with her male friends?

 

[cleaver]

Just out of curiosity, do you think she ever discusses your dick with her male friends?

probably...
i mean? wtf?

unless she is chaste, the subject, no doubt, has been brought up...
perhaps somewhat hesitantly, but...
if he feels comfortable discussing her "twat"
she is likely to be of the same mindframe...
certainly it comes up with 'the girls'...

and... it has come up in talk with men friends/confidantes...

grow up!

 

[coachdb18]

Just out of curiosity, do you think she ever discusses your dick with her male friends?

Women do in fact discuss guys dicks with each other, having been privy to hearing at least one such conversation about myself during a visit to a German Sauna. The three who spoke to each other thought I only spoke German, so their conversation (in English) was interesting to hear, to say the least. Discuss with their male friends? Probably a few do, but I'm pretty sure they're making mental comparisons if nothing else.

 

[MelissaBaby]

probably...
i mean? wtf?

unless she is chaste, the subject, no doubt, has been brought up...
perhaps somewhat hesitantly, but...
if he feels comfortable discussing her "twat"
she is likely to be of the same mindframe...
certainly it comes up with 'the girls'...

and... it has come up in talk with men friends/confidantes...

grow up!

I need to grow up because I have never talked about a boyfriends penis with male friends? That's the line you want to go with?

 

[MelissaBaby]

Women do in fact discuss guys dicks with each other, having been privy to hearing at least one such conversation about myself during a visit to a German Sauna. The three who spoke to each other thought I only spoke German, so their conversation (in English) was interesting to hear, to say the least. Discuss with their male friends? Probably a few do, but I'm pretty sure they're making mental comparisons if nothing else.

I asked about women having such discussions with men, so you thought you'd explain to me about what women talk about with women? Thanks!

 

[IrezumiKiss]

I need to grow up because I have never talked about a boyfriends penis with male friends? That's the line you want to go with?

I asked about women having such discussions with men, so you thought you'd explain to me about what women talk about with women? Thanks!

Obviously you've been doing this woman-ing thing wrong, Melissa.

 

[MelissaBaby]

Obviously you've been doing this woman-ing thing wrong, Melissa.

I guess so. By the way, did I mention that my boyfriend has a really nice cock?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[coachdb18]

I asked about women having such discussions with men, so you thought you'd explain to me about what women talk about with women? Thanks!

I addressed both. You seem pretty angry about it, and definitely seem like you want to determine not just what you consider to be 'right', but also what other people should do that fits your definition of 'right'. Maybe you just need to take a deep breath... sex and twats are not forbidden subjects to many others.

 

[pointless]

I asked about women having such discussions with men, so you thought you'd explain to me about what women talk about with women? Thanks!

hey, douchebags gotta humblebrag somehow, yo.

 

[MelissaBaby]

I addressed both. You seem pretty angry about it, and definitely seem like you want to determine not just what you consider to be 'right', but also what other people should do that fits your definition of 'right'. Maybe you just need to take a deep breath... sex and twats are not forbidden subjects to many others.

im not the least bit angry, I found the whole thing amusing. But I'd like to thank you for explaining my feelings to me.

Now, with a big smile on my face, go fuck yourself.

 

[MelissaBaby]

hey, douchebags gotta humblebrag somehow, yo.

I wish he'd been here when we were discussing menstruation the other day, so we could all know how we feel about it.

 

[coachdb18]

im not the least bit angry, I found the whole thing amusing. But I'd like to thank you for explaining my feelings to me.

Now, with a big smile on my face, go fuck yourself.

Not to prolong this, but generally when I tell someone to 'go fuck yourself', it's anger. Your imitation of the thought police is what I'd call 'amusing'.

 

[MelissaBaby]

Honestly I don't talk that much about penises with my friends. They get a broad grin from me is the subject arises and a sort of smug smile. But they all adore my husband enough as it is.

The smug smile says it all.

 

[MelissaBaby]

Not to prolong this, but generally when I tell someone to 'go fuck yourself', it's anger.

When I tell them that, it's because I wish they'd go fuck themselves.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

I guess so. By the way, did I mention that my boyfriend has a really nice cock?

This kinda begs the next question since this thread is bending this way, so to speak...are you, as a woman, more inclined to talk about the cocks and peens you know about when they're lovely and amazing, or when they're crappy and lackluster?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[MelissaBaby]

This kinda begs the next question since this thread is bending this way, so to speak...are you, as a woman, more inclined to talk about the cocks and peens you know about when they're lovely and amazing, or when they're crappy and lackluster?

If a guy really...comes up short...I am not going to rub salt in the wounds by throwing shade about it. I think most of the penile discussions I've had with other women have been more generic, and not about particular men. And I'm apparently some sort of freak who doesn't call up my male friends to talk about it. Maybe I need more gay friends?

 

[coachdb18]

But as nauseam in the wrong setting they are a little puerile. Forbidden is not the same as requisite.

I have never felt the need to know about friends partners' genitals unless they had something like testicular cancer, when they did indeed become quite a subject. Also circumcision has been an issue a few times as in Europe it's less common now but many of my friends are in marriages or relationships where ONE would do it as standard for religious reasons so discussion about it tends to be big then.

MelissaBaby went out of her way to be EXTREMELY judgmental when she told him

It's a little bit disconcerting that you talk to other guys about your wife's twat, but at least you feel weird about it.

I'd think the typical Lit poster would feel like she just threw a bucket of ice water on us all.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[coachdb18]

In fetish and sexuality yes; the rule there is to be non judgmental and I think the unspoken rule is to slightly suspend disbelief.

Here I think it can be socially responsible to call people on stuff.

i doubt any gb poster would win an award for our courtesy or delivery though.

I guess that gets to the heart of my question, who determines what is socially acceptable here? There are moderators who establish 'the rules', and I don't see in any way these have been violated. Or do we now have a vigilante group who ride the threads shutting down the 'socially unacceptable posts'?