Primalex
Literotica Guru
- Joined
- Jul 14, 2007
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Let's start with the tidbits about myself:
I'm 31, indepedent, well-educated and dominant male being, with true German heritage (grey short hair, green eyes though, not that you get any wrong ideas). I speak fluent English and German and if desired, can fake a German accent. I've been in the army and am still reservist, have made a degree as Master of Computer Science (surprise, surprise) and earn my living by commanding stubborn computers.
I've been pursueing the D/s lifestyle for several years now, have had two D/s based real life relationships and both woman are still in contact with me and on good terms. The same is true for three online relationships.
I have one real life relationship and one both online and real life fuck toy at the moment. If required as testimony that everything is true, I can get you in contact with the girls. As I feel that I'm not fully 'utilized' currently though, I consider accepting another female submissive. Real life is an option, but not a requirement or primary goal.
Now to some things you should be aware of, if you consider contacting me. Some might be obvious for you, some might be unacceptable for you, but this is my list of things I want you to know and which are more or less (you can give it a try nevertheless) non-negotiatable (the rest will be dealt privately):
1) You will be a special and unique person for me, but you will have to share me. I'm not lonely or desperate. I make this ad because I enjoy to 'explore the richness of the human nature'.
2) Do not attempt to blackmail me.
I've learned that there are a lot of women out there, who think they can use this "I have the right to leave" thingie (or other things) to blackmail a wannabe-dominant to make him obey her wishes. Don't try this with me. If you like to control, look for one of the dozens desperate guys, who will do anything just to be able to jerk off. If you ever try to blackmail me, you will be dumped instantly (unless our relationship has evolved so far that you deserve another chance - and unless you do this just so I have a reason to punish you..but better don't go this way then).
3) I set the rules.
Not the Literotica BDSM Cafe, the Association of Submissives of America, the Savior or anyone else. I set the rules, you comment them, if I see it fit, I will change them. That's it.
4) You will not receive any orders that will threaten the integrity of your home, workplace, relationships or other parts of your real life that deserve special protection. The relationship between us stays between us. Everything else IS fair game though.
5) You will give up control of your sex life sooner or later. Precautions will be made to handle Rule 4), but that's it.
6) You will not be a faceless person, neither will I be.
I don't deal with virtual beings, I deal only with humans with a face. Ideally, your application will contain a picture already, but it's fine if you want to contact me first to see if I'm worth the hassle.
7) I'm not easy to please.
If you look for an uncomplicated way to get off, I'm most likely not your best choice, but you can give it a shot.
8) Extraordinary expenses will be covered by me.
9) I don't bite just after the very first PM. Feel free to contact me, I'm even able to answer if your PM is not at all about D/s or this ad.
10) Having read 'Stranger in a strange land' by Robert Heinlein grants you an additional bonus.
11) I also love Terry Pratchett. You can insult my mother, my sister or my guinea pigs, but don't ya dare say anything against Mr. Pratchett. Grok'ed?
12) I have other things to attend to now unfortunately, so I will not be able to respond before tomorrow.
Have a nice evening.
PrimaLex
I'm 31, indepedent, well-educated and dominant male being, with true German heritage (grey short hair, green eyes though, not that you get any wrong ideas). I speak fluent English and German and if desired, can fake a German accent. I've been in the army and am still reservist, have made a degree as Master of Computer Science (surprise, surprise) and earn my living by commanding stubborn computers.
I've been pursueing the D/s lifestyle for several years now, have had two D/s based real life relationships and both woman are still in contact with me and on good terms. The same is true for three online relationships.
I have one real life relationship and one both online and real life fuck toy at the moment. If required as testimony that everything is true, I can get you in contact with the girls. As I feel that I'm not fully 'utilized' currently though, I consider accepting another female submissive. Real life is an option, but not a requirement or primary goal.
Now to some things you should be aware of, if you consider contacting me. Some might be obvious for you, some might be unacceptable for you, but this is my list of things I want you to know and which are more or less (you can give it a try nevertheless) non-negotiatable (the rest will be dealt privately):
1) You will be a special and unique person for me, but you will have to share me. I'm not lonely or desperate. I make this ad because I enjoy to 'explore the richness of the human nature'.
2) Do not attempt to blackmail me.
I've learned that there are a lot of women out there, who think they can use this "I have the right to leave" thingie (or other things) to blackmail a wannabe-dominant to make him obey her wishes. Don't try this with me. If you like to control, look for one of the dozens desperate guys, who will do anything just to be able to jerk off. If you ever try to blackmail me, you will be dumped instantly (unless our relationship has evolved so far that you deserve another chance - and unless you do this just so I have a reason to punish you..but better don't go this way then).
3) I set the rules.
Not the Literotica BDSM Cafe, the Association of Submissives of America, the Savior or anyone else. I set the rules, you comment them, if I see it fit, I will change them. That's it.
4) You will not receive any orders that will threaten the integrity of your home, workplace, relationships or other parts of your real life that deserve special protection. The relationship between us stays between us. Everything else IS fair game though.
5) You will give up control of your sex life sooner or later. Precautions will be made to handle Rule 4), but that's it.
6) You will not be a faceless person, neither will I be.
I don't deal with virtual beings, I deal only with humans with a face. Ideally, your application will contain a picture already, but it's fine if you want to contact me first to see if I'm worth the hassle.
7) I'm not easy to please.
If you look for an uncomplicated way to get off, I'm most likely not your best choice, but you can give it a shot.
8) Extraordinary expenses will be covered by me.
9) I don't bite just after the very first PM. Feel free to contact me, I'm even able to answer if your PM is not at all about D/s or this ad.
10) Having read 'Stranger in a strange land' by Robert Heinlein grants you an additional bonus.
11) I also love Terry Pratchett. You can insult my mother, my sister or my guinea pigs, but don't ya dare say anything against Mr. Pratchett. Grok'ed?
12) I have other things to attend to now unfortunately, so I will not be able to respond before tomorrow.
Have a nice evening.
PrimaLex
