Don't laugh ladies-I've got a short tongue

[berk1234]

Here is my problem. I hope someone has some tips to make me better. I have a short tongue; like really short. It barely reaches out of my mouth by about a 1/4 inch. I LOVE performing oral sex on my wife though. Love it as much as I love her blowing me and that is ALOT. I find it to be one of the greatest expressions of love to give of yourself to your partner without getting anything in return. My problem is that she doesn't like oral sex and I think it is because of my short tongue. She's never been with someone else so she can't compare it to anything. It seems like I have to jam my face into her pussy so hard to get my tongue on her that even a freshly shaved face scratches her. I can't reach her cli, let alone lock inside her, without risking being too rough. I use my fingers on occasion too, but it still seems like she is not getting all that she can get out of it, at least compared to some of the women here. Any tips or thoughts? I love doing it much that I feel I'm missing out on the joy of doing it because she doesn't like it. But more so because I wish I couldake her feel as good as I feel when she has me wrapped on her lips.

 

[sunandshadow]

My brother had a minor surgery to have the bit of skin on the bottom of his tongue cut, which had a side effect that he could stick his tongue out further. Or, permanent hair removal via laser or electrolysis makes for permanently smooth skin.

 

[jjdd]

When you give her oral, try using your lips more. Hands or toys are good too. Short of some type of surgery, you will probably have to learn to work with what you got.

Also, talk to you wife about what types of sensations she enjoys the most. Although I am not one of them, I hear there are some women who don't really enjoy oral sex. Maybe she is one of them. But, I think communication is more crucial than having a longer tongue. It's obvious that you care about your wife and her enjoyment so that is an awesome start. Good luck!

 

[missgiter]

To be honest, I am not overly fond of receiving oral, myself. I love giving it.. Nothing better. Maybe just reciprocate in a way that works better for her. I tend to like things a bit rougher, and there is just only so much a tongue can do Perhaps se your teeth a little? Try spreading her open with your hands... And use a toy! It's ok if your tongue isn't doing something. Get down there, lavish her pussy with attention and she'll appreciate it.

 

[jen_litgirl]

Make a night of exploring. I love it when my husband tells me he wants to try something new. Tell her you want to spend some time on her orally and you want her to tell you what works. Make a night of it. My two cents.

 

[SkylarFalling]

Don't worry about it

If it helps at all, my guy has exactly the same problem. I don't really care because he pleases me in so many other ways, and I've been with him for years. I've never had anybody else, so I have nothing to miss.
It's obvious you care for her. If you want to go for surgery or something then I can hardly see your wife minding, but if you're as lovely a husband as you sound I don't think she'll be bothered if you never do. Just please her in other ways, and if she wants you to then do what you can orally. Personally I think fingering is just magical anyways

 

[MasterJere]

Ive got a short tongue as well and what i do is focus on the clit while fingering. i suck and lick the clit while driving my fingers in and out fast and hard. most girls ive dated usualy cum two and three times every time from this, even the ones who usually only cum once

 

[wicked woman]

Is she complaining? Sure you're not putting your love of oral on her? All sorts of women prefer a myriad of things over receiving oral. Perhaps your wife is one of these people and it's got nothing to do with you being self conscious about your tongue.

If she's not complaining stop worrying about it.

 

[sporksporkspork]

It could be from your short tongue, but I doubt it. I have the same problem as you, and while it makes going down uncomfortable for me, she digs it well enough.

If your wife doesn't like receiving oral, it's entirely possible she just doesn't like receiving oral. Some women just aren't into that.

 

[temp256]

You can actually stretch your tongue a little bit with some exercises. Simply stick out your tongue as far as you can, hold it, then reach as far back in your mouth as you can and hold. Do this a couple dozen times a day. You should feel a small burning sensation on the underside of your tongue, similar to any other exercise.

I've been doing this for years, and as a result I have a longer, stronger, and more flexible tongue. I can reach all the way to my chin, or even back into my nasal cavity.