Doms, subs please reply?

[TigerClaw]

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[Guest]

Re: D/s

My questions are:

Subs; Same question, how do you find the limits. Some of the intrique is the not knowing how hard he is going to spank you, etc. What do you feel when you are being punished physially and emotionally.

Can you definen what D/s is to you and whether it is full time or part time in your life.

Sub here... I feel that I have been submissive basically all my life, and I have been active in the D/s lifestyle for at least 5 years now. To me, D/s and BDSM is a sharing of great knowledge between two people. It is a power exchange. It is a never ending learning process for both the Dom and the sub.

For me, personally, I got into the pain aspect slowly. I have only attempted this with one man...and I trusted him greatly. He is also the only Dom I have actually served thus far in my life. From day one I had a safe word (which was Soyhat(sp?) which is German for stop). I have been spanked, paddled, whipped with a cat-o-nine tails, worn nipple/clit clamps, and have had candle wax on my body. Also, I have enjoyed all of it. I've only used my safe word once with that man, and that was my first ever attempt at being fisted (which I now love too).

If you have more questions, feel free to post here or e-mail me.

~Tiggs~