Doms/subs Just What ARE You Looking For?

[ima6uldv8]

I know we all have different definitions of the relationships we'd like to have. Since I've just had a taste of BDSM to know I want more, I'd like to know what everyone else likes. I know it's a very broad area. With my present situation I know I want this type of relationship but I don't what I'm looking for and how I'll ever find a loving Master. So, let's hear from you.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

*grins*

What I'm looking for? Post #1 here:
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=475075

 

[DarkSteven]

I'm looking for a relationship with D/s as an element in it.

I consider the natural role of a husband/father to be a Dominant role. Caring, in control, looking out for the best for his wife and children. Obviously, in person, not some cyber relationship, although I've had those.

A kinky paterfamilias, in essence.

 

[littleone77]

I'll tell you what I have, how about that?

I am a sub btw...

I am only able to be in a Daddy Dom relationship. Took me a while to figure that out but its easy now that I know it. I like pain and domination quite a bit so I am very very careful of who I trust enough to *hurt* me. Kink wise there is very little I am not interested in.

I use to be one of those die hard feminisit types. Now I am not so much. I want to be controlled, both in everyday life and in play. Domestic discipline if you will. I am not sure if this makes sense or not, but I want to be submissive to Him, not only in play but in daily life. I'm allowed to have my say yes but ult. Daddy gets the last word.

Life is ever so much easier that way.

 

[kinkitome]

I'm looking for a relationship with D/s as an element in it.

I consider the natural role of a husband/father to be a Dominant role. Caring, in control, looking out for the best for his wife and children. Obviously, in person, not some cyber relationship, although I've had those.

A kinky paterfamilias, in essence.

Works for me

Not making judgement on those who do or even dont, but my ideal is that of a relationship that is based on not just a strict D/s scenario but where input is always asked and encouraged ie the bonds are flexible yet accepting that the final decision will rest with me. I am aware that most D/s relationships will have similar rules but I am speaking more of those that dont even have flexibility

 

[El_Cazador999]

I'll tell you what I have, how about that?

I'm allowed to have my say yes but ult. Daddy gets the last word.

Life is ever so much easier that way.

I'm not sure that's entirely true.

 

[littleone77]

I'm not sure that's entirely true.

*gentle kisses* You know it is Daddy. Jeesh. Well, in everything minus Toby Keith of course.

 

[Auraka6669]

I know we all have different definitions of the relationships we'd like to have. Since I've just had a taste of BDSM to know I want more, I'd like to know what everyone else likes. I know it's a very broad area. With my present situation I know I want this type of relationship but I don't what I'm looking for and how I'll ever find a loving Master. So, let's hear from you.

You've seen my ad. So there is that.

For you I'd say how about looking at the issue from another angle. What do you want out of a vanilla relationship? Most of the qualities will be similar, then you can modify to mold the man (or woman) that you would happily submit to. Once you have a clear image, when they walk past you. You'll be able to spot them clear as day.

Interestingly enough, the girl I have fallen for may not like BDSM. And that is more than ok for me... because in the end, I went about it as I described above and I have a feeling she just might like it. Interesting how that all works out.