Dommes/Dom - What is your biggest turn on?

[Telafio]

What's THE most erotic thing your sub performs for you that really leaves you totally sated?

 

[MissTaken]

Well, it may not include sexually satiation, but when he showers me and pampers me, takes care of my nails and skin, it is a special feeling for both of us. These are probably my favorite non sexual activities.


Sexually? Taking him impulsively and aggressively tends to drain me.

I rather enjoy being spontaneous and knowing he is here to meet my needs whenever I wish..

 

[Telafio]

Sounds like heaven Miss Taken.

Could it get any better?

 

[NCShin]

I guess being a visual creature, the 2 things that come to mind are both based on how she looks doing them.

The first is her in bondage. The ropes wrapped around her, the look in her eye after her hands being tied behind her back. Just wonderful. I could just look for hours

The second is more sexual, but that is her lips wrapped around my cock with her eyes looking up at me. Highly highly arousing for me to see that.

 

[SweetDommes]

I have to pick just one??? *sigh* OK then ...

Probably when we have him tied down so that he can't move, and he starts begging us in his cute little whisper, unable to speak outloud as we tease and torment him ...

 

[NemoAlia]

her lips wrapped around my cock with her eyes looking up at me.

What is it about having her look up at you that turns you on? I always feel plain silly (and like I'm overstepping myself) to stare at someone when I'm on my knees.

 

[Shadowsdream]

his honest deep need for slavery. his whimpers when I am edge training him and the final scream when I force him to come while still in chastity.

 

[NCShin]

well, damn...to explain without erm...anyway...

her head facing straight, her eyes gazing upward as she tries to get the last inch or so into her mouth. Feeling the head hitting the back of her throat her eyes almost pleading to allow her to back off.

A lot of it is purely visual. Us guys like visual things (thus the popularity of porn)

I think it CAN be so many things rolled into one. I don't think her giving me head is submissive in itself, but I think the way it's done can make it submissive.

Especially when she's tied (as described in my above post) and she has little or no control over how deeply she takes me. As I guide her head and her eyes look up, maybe she's wondering if or when i'll let her up, or maybe she's hoping i don't. She used to gag some and I'd get to feel her convulse around me. She doesn't do that anymore, but i can see in her eyes her holding it back. Then I let her back off and she can breath easier and I can see the thankfullness and relief in her eyes.

I think that's about the best I can do to explain it. Does that help any?

 

[Telafio]

his honest deep need for slavery. his whimpers when I am edge training him and the final scream when I force him to come while still in chastity.

I am only geussing what edge training is. But it sounds really hot to me.

You paint a very vivid picture. Much like NC shin.

I love the look on my partners face when I steal a glimpse whilst servicing her pussy.

It gladdens my heart to see her in rapture.

 

[Netzach]

This has happened once or twice....after a long and arduous discussion/argument, around and around and around....after feeling out every nook and cranny and possible outcome...

when an hour goes by...

and he comes back into the room and says

"I'll do what you want to, how you want it, Ma'am."

That gives me special tingles. It's really hard for him, which makes it that much better.

 

[Telafio]

This has happened once or twice....after a long and arduous discussion/argument, around and around and around....after feeling out every nook and cranny and possible outcome...

when an hour goes by...

and he comes back into the room and says

"I'll do what you want to, how you want it, Ma'am."

That gives me special tingles. It's really hard for him, which makes it that much better.

I think I know what you are talking about, but this happens in many aspects of everyday debates with a partner. Unless they are born under Tauras of course.

 

[MastrJ]

Two things just totally turn me on with a submissive.

1. Her on her knees in front of me with her hands tied behind her back while I feed her my cock and she looks up into my eyes. Seeing the pleasure in her eyes just sends me in the stratosphere with pleasure.

2. Fucking her from behind, while she's tied down and hearing her beg for permission to cum. The desperation in her voice as she wants to feel the orgasm is like music to my ears. It only gets better as I hear her cum when I give her permission.

 

[Telafio]

Sounds like a well contented Dom. Not too forget your sub either. It seems she has found heaven on earth.

 

[MastrJ]

Sounds like a well contented Dom. Not too forget your sub either. It seems she has found heaven on earth.

That would be true is she was still my sub.

 

[WriterDom]

Sounds turn me on. Like when she is sucking my cock and I unexpectedly slap her ass. The little cock filled moan.

 

[DarkLadyOfDeath]

It's not so much what I'm doing but to whom I'm doing it to. I find the most delight in haveing another woman submitting to me then A man. My boyfriend / S/O or however you'de like to put it is very submissive but I don't feel the excitment I do when topping him as when I top another woman.

perhaps it's part of how I was raised, or the fact I found gratification in woman years before men. I Still feel abit ackward being assertive with a man. One that I know physically can stop me from doing anything he doesn't want me to do. A frusterateing and perhaps intimidateing place to be for a domme.

But yeah. Particulalry delightful in binding the arms and haveing another female scamper about doing meanial tasks.. Just relaxing and watching.. how the subtle flicker of the muscle or an eye movement to see if I am indeed watching.. and being amused, if my attentions wander. subtle body postureing and the occasioanl minute sound in attempts to draw my attention but not so much as to be punished for It. Yep I feel content as a kitten then.

 

[Telafio]

It's not so much what I'm doing but to whom I'm doing it to. I find the most delight in haveing another woman submitting to me then A man. My boyfriend / S/O or however you'de like to put it is very submissive but I don't feel the excitment I do when topping him as when I top another woman.

perhaps it's part of how I was raised, or the fact I found gratification in woman years before men. I Still feel abit ackward being assertive with a man. One that I know physically can stop me from doing anything he doesn't want me to do. A frusterateing and perhaps intimidateing place to be for a domme.

But yeah. Particulalry delightful in binding the arms and haveing another female scamper about doing meanial tasks.. Just relaxing and watching.. how the subtle flicker of the muscle or an eye movement to see if I am indeed watching.. and being amused, if my attentions wander. subtle body postureing and the occasioanl minute sound in attempts to draw my attention but not so much as to be punished for It. Yep I feel content as a kitten then.

I think I understand where you are coming from in so far as not being able to control your male subs 100% physically.

I thought once you had them bound (wrists as a minimum) you could have as much physical control as you pleased.

Perhaps you are refering more to the mental thing. I am only assuming here. A true submissive male would never be a threat to you though..at least i would'nt. As the struggle would never be an area that was contemplated..at least not on my behalf.

 

[His_enslaved]

I think I understand where you are coming from in so far as not being able to control your male subs 100% physically.

I thought once you had them bound (wrists as a minimum) you could have as much physical control as you pleased.

Perhaps you are refering more to the mental thing. I am only assuming here. A true submissive male would never be a threat to you though..at least i would'nt. As the struggle would never be an area that was contemplated..at least not on my behalf.

Someone needs to EMPTY his PM & Sent Box!

 

[Ezarc]

Biggest turn on. Hmmm, there are so many.
The look on her face when I give a command out of the blue.
The sent in the air when I am working with the floggers, a mix of leather and sex that is so fulfilling.
Her body laid out before my eyes, naked and ready for Right and Left.
The little shifts in her as my toys dance across her skin.
The rush as I enter her after the toy time.
The feeling I get curled up next to her after a tough scene, calming her, and telling her how proud I am of her.
When you push not only her limits and buttons but your own.
Yup, there is a lot of beauty in being a Dom.

 

[Scarlett_t2]

There is nothing I don't do that dosnt turn me on....its all magic
Scarlett

 

[Telafio]

There is nothing I don't do that dosnt turn me on....its all magic
Scarlett

That goes without saying, otherwise why bother?

The question was what was your Favoritefavorite

 

[Scarlett_t2]

That goes without saying, otherwise why bother?

The question was what was your Favoritefavorite

Well when I try everything I want to try I will pick a favorite....
S

 

[Telafio]

Good answer!

and hope you have fun finding out