Dominate me

[Johnny69xxx]

I need to be dominated.
I phantisize about it all the time.
Someone please help me
Or help me find a dominatrix
I am about to explode.
I need this bad.

 

[Nezhul]

The only thing I can recommend you is finding your local munch and attending. But with such a needy attitude no one will look twice on you.

That's a common mistake that I see. People looking for Dommes/Doms or Subs. But the thing is that this is not a valid reason to hold a relationship together - you have a very slim chance of finding a woman who will be interested by your introduction and approach that you display here, and even if you find her - you have an even slimmer chance of this working out.

If you need a kinky partner of any sort - you start searching for a girlfriend. Then you are open with her about your tendensies/desires, but you don't act needy or impatiend. You just throw it in and watch the reaction.

If she's not into this, you quickly wrap up and move along. If she is, you develop from there, but it will likely be MONTHS of dating before you get to do kinky.

The alternative, as I said, is a munch meet of some sorts. If you manage to find a girlfriend (read - not a domme, but a girlfriend) there, then you both are aware and open for kink right from the start, thus the time it takes for you to play is shorter. But it will still require patience from you.
And above all, it will require acting like a boyfriend, not a sub. Building a relationship, not a DS game. You need to like her and want her and pursue her for her PERSONALITY, not her Kink. Kink, like sex, is secondary.

But of course do what you want.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

The only thing I can recommend you is finding your local munch and attending. But with such a needy attitude no one will look twice on you.

That's a common mistake that I see. People looking for Dommes/Doms or Subs. But the thing is that this is not a valid reason to hold a relationship together - you have a very slim chance of finding a woman who will be interested by your introduction and approach that you display here, and even if you find her - you have an even slimmer chance of this working out.

If you need a kinky partner of any sort - you start searching for a girlfriend. Then you are open with her about your tendensies/desires, but you don't act needy or impatiend. You just throw it in and watch the reaction.

If she's not into this, you quickly wrap up and move along. If she is, you develop from there, but it will likely be MONTHS of dating before you get to do kinky.

The alternative, as I said, is a munch meet of some sorts. If you manage to find a girlfriend (read - not a domme, but a girlfriend) there, then you both are aware and open for kink right from the start, thus the time it takes for you to play is shorter. But it will still require patience from you.
And above all, it will require acting like a boyfriend, not a sub. Building a relationship, not a DS game. You need to like her and want her and pursue her for her PERSONALITY, not her Kink. Kink, like sex, is secondary.

But of course do what you want.

Amen...