Dominate black interacial lesbian sex.

[Bokimbol]

Dominate(Dominant fixed just for the mod) black interacial lesbian sex.

My gf, a average sized blond white woman, was seduced a while ago by a very large(six foot tall, a little heavy) very busty black woman. My gf is on the shy side and the black woman is very aggressive. My gf had shown no real interest in women before this woman and besides porn stories and movies featuring larger busty black women shows no particular interest in other women. The affair lasted about 2 years. It ended when the black woman moved down south. My gf has not slept with any other women since then but has occasional tryst, two or three times a year with the black woman when she comes back up here to visit. Unfortunately I am not involved basically because the black woman and I hate each other. LOL.

The black woman loved to be in dominate positions during sex. Even though she was much larger than my gf, she always wanted to be on top or in complete control of the situation. So s/o were always used on my gf and not ever on the black woman. There was no bondage other than the black woman using her much larger size to hold my gf down. The sex was consensual at all times except maybe the first time when the black woman wasn't taking no for an answer. But even then, my gf is pretty sure if she really told her to stop she would have.

MY gf finds now that she is greatly excited by this situation. The problem is porn wise, there is very little to choose from that is any good at all that covers this kink. The closests scene in "attitude" that we have found is this one.

http://www.*********.com/Elexis-Monroe-Sincerre-LeMore/video230120/

I see that link won't work so just google Elexis Monroe & Sincerre LeMore. It's o ********* for one.

But at times my gf said the black woman would be more forceful than this. But no pain or hard spanking or anything like that.

Why we are posting is, does any one else know of scenes similar to the one I posted and are there any other women that find this scenario exciting? Either the dominate (dominant that better?) or sub role? There are just so few scenes out there like this that are any good, my gf is becoming very frustrated by the lack of.

 

[Safe_Bet]

My gf, a average sized blond white woman, was seduced a while ago by a very large(six foot tall, a little heavy) very busty black woman. My gf is on the shy side and the black woman is very aggressive. My gf had shown no real interest in women before this woman and besides porn stories and movies featuring larger busty black women shows no particular interest in other women. The affair lasted about 2 years. It ended when the black woman moved down south. My gf has not slept with any other women since then but has occasional tryst, two or three times a year with the black woman when she comes back up here to visit. Unfortunately I am not involved basically because the black woman and I hate each other. LOL.

The black woman loved to be in dominate positions during sex. Even though she was much larger than my gf, she always wanted to be on top or in complete control of the situation. So s/o were always used on my gf and not ever on the black woman. There was no bondage other than the black woman using her much larger size to hold my gf down. The sex was consensual at all times except maybe the first time when the black woman wasn't taking no for an answer. But even then, my gf is pretty sure if she really told her to stop she would have.

MY gf finds now that she is greatly excited by this situation. The problem is porn wise, there is very little to choose from that is any good at all that covers this kink. The closests scene in "attitude" that we have found is this one.

http://www.*********.com/Elexis-Monroe-Sincerre-LeMore/video230120/

I see that link won't work so just google Elexis Monroe & Sincerre LeMore. It's o ********* for one.

But at times my gf said the black woman would be more forceful than this. But no pain or hard spanking or anything like that.

Why we are posting is, does any one else know of scenes similar to the one I posted and are there any other women that find this scenario exciting? Either the dominate or sub role? There are just so few scenes out there like this that are any good, my gf is becoming very frustrated by the lack of.

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

Dude, you really shouldn't leave your prior attempts laying around, ya know?

Looking for a certain type of dvd
My blond GF use to be friends with a larger big breasted aggressive black woman. This woman use to always put my GF in all sorts of compromising positions at work before I was dating her. She would pin her against the wall, against machinery, grab her from behind and pull her into her tits. Smack or grab her ass. Always pushing her tits into her. But she did that with everyone. My GF said nothing ever happened beyond this ( I sort of wish it had LOL) and she only put up with it because the black woman was her only way to and from work. My GF reaction to this stuff was one of resignation. She didn't seem to like it much but she didn't fight that hard against it either.

So naturally I have developed a jones to see this type of pairing in xxx rated films. But I am having a devil of a time of finding many scenes with large black women and smaller white women. Blonds would be a plus but at this point not necessary. The bigger the size difference the better and being able to at least pretend the orgasms are real would be nice.

So any of you fine people know of any scenes like this?

So why don't you and your "fantasizing about interracial FF sex" fetish go ask about it on the Fetish & Sexuality Forum where all good little fantasizes and fetishes go to play?

 

[Etoile]

These kinds of questions always baffle me. Are we google? I mean, you just gotta go on Tubaholic or something, right? But a lot of people come to Lit asking for people to find videos for them. I mean, some people have the same interests, so you can chat with people about it and maybe videos come up organically, but people just come and post asking for videos specifically. So yeah...I've never got that.

 

[klippert]

Personally I'd like too know what your GF's dominant lover does.... Then I might be able to give you a qualified answer....Doc. Klip

 

[Etoile]

It's dominant, not dominate. Dominate is the verb, dominant is the noun. Sorry, makes me twitchy.

 

[klippert]

It's dominant, not dominate. Dominate is the verb, dominant is the noun. Sorry, makes me twitchy.

I certainly do apologize.. I hope that typo didn't ruin yur day....

 

[Etoile]

I certainly do apologize.. I hope that typo didn't ruin yur day....

Haha, I'll get over it!

 

[Bokimbol]

First of all, Safe Bet, yes I did ask this question before on here. The reason I said it didn't go any further at the time was my gf didn't want me to say that it did. She now says I can say it went further. And if you look a little further, you will find I wrote a story or two very loosely based on what happened with her and the woman. I said very loosely. The basics are true but there is plenty of fiction in the stories too.

Etoile, I am so very sorry that a typo upset your day so much. And since we are posting things that we don't like, I would like to say I hate it when someone has nothing constructive to add to a conversation other than to try and pick apart everything that is said in it. I mean how easy would it have been for you to just ignore the post instead of adding your worthless two cents to it?

Don't you think I have searched for these types of videos by now? And if you got beyond your need to flame me you would have seen that I also asked if any one else was interested in this sort of thing. In other words, for the dense, it was a conversation starter.

Klippert, what do you mean by "does?" Do you mean sexually? Basically, as I said, the dominant woman likes to be in positions of power when having sex with my gf. Face sitting, coming up from behind her, overpowering her or pinning her against things or to the bed. They are very much equals out of bed but in bed the black woman takes control of things. The black woman doesn't force my gf to do anything. She just keeps at it until my gf gives in to it and becomes excited.

For example, their first time making out, the black woman came up from behind her while my gf was washing the dishes. She pinned her against the sink and started kissing her neck and fondling my gf's tits and ass from behind. My gf struggled at first but as she became more excited she slowly gave in and began to enjoy it. My gf managed to turn around and kiss her back and loved it.

The first time in bed My gf told her no sex. They were making out with the black woman first on her side, then on top of her. After a while the black woman slid down to her crotch. She was already between her legs so the black woman's head was able to lick her through her panties. My gf struggled to get away so the black woman pinned her legs behind her with her body and arms and ate her that way through the panties with her legs bent back by her ears. After a bit my gf realized she loved it and they removed her panties and it was all over.

My gf still refused to eat the black woman though. So after several frustrating times of that happening, the black woman would eat my gf to near orgasm then stop. Then she would tell my gf if she wanted to get off, she had to eat the black woman's pussy first. My gf said no at first but she missed the great orgasms the woman was giving her with her tongue so one night she tried it. She didn't like it at first. Basically because the black woman got so wet and her juices were everywhere. But as time went on she learned to love it. Juices and all.

As far as s/o go. The black woman uses them only once in awhile on my gf. Almost always from behind or missionary with my gf on her back. From behind, they both love it when the black woman pulls my gf's hair.

For the person who asked me about the Pinky movies, we have seen a few but the ones we saw it seems like the women are often faking their excitement. A big problem that it seems most black companies share.

 

[Etoile]

Etoile, I am so very sorry that a typo upset your day so much. And since we are posting things that we don't like, I would like to say I hate it when someone has nothing constructive to add to a conversation other than to try and pick apart everything that is said in it. I mean how easy would it have been for you to just ignore the post instead of adding your worthless two cents to it?

Don't you think I have searched for these types of videos by now? And if you got beyond your need to flame me you would have seen that I also asked if any one else was interested in this sort of thing. In other words, for the dense, it was a conversation starter.

How's that stick feel up your ass, man? Loosen up.

 

[Bokimbol]

Etoile, it was your two huge sticks up your ass that provoked my response. You are a mod, am I right? So why are you ridiculing me for a typo and a "pet peeve" of yours? That of someone asking for a certain type of movie. Then, not adding anything to the original topic.

I thought mods were suppose to be helpful. Not antagonistic like you were with me. A mods job is to "keep the peace." Not anger posters by ridiculing them with their own "pet peeves." Or have things changed here since I last posted?

Ask yourself this, would you have been annoyed if I were the mod and responded to your post like you did to mine? What annoys me maybe the most is you never once really commented on the subject. MY gf with a larger black woman. Your whole post was about bad grammar and how my post showed "bad form" in your eyes when I asked for movie recommendations and nothing at all to do with the topic. It's a porn site dude, what porn site are you not allowed to ask for movie recommendations? So yes I do have a stick up my ass and your responses put it there.

So what I am saying is, you had absolutely nothing of value to add to my post. Nothing. Since you are a mod, you should have been above jumping in on my post and ridiculing me for what amounted to a typo and a annoyance of yours. If you had nothing to add to it, why didn't you just ignore it?

Last time I posted here was awhile ago and as far as I know, this has always been a place to ask questions. Etoile, have you now the power to decide what questions are proper to ask? Again, if my question annoys you or any one, why not just ignore it. Judging by your "ever so helpful" response you gave me when annoyed by my question, your answer will be worthless to me any way. So why not ignore the question and let the people that are not annoyed by the question, if any, answer it? Would make your job so much easier and you would irritate a lot less posters. This site and many others have more than enough flamers and trolls that we don't need the mods of the site helping them out.

Any way, before the mod hijacked my thread with his/her "pet peeve" annoyances that were best kept to him/herself, does any one else find my gf relationship with the black woman exciting or has any one ever been in a relationship like this? And just to annoy Etoile, does any one know of any good videos like this and the one I used as example. Feel free to Pm me any answers so as to not upset our mod.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Problem with porn films is the porn actors-- who are acting. And mostly they are not very good actors, or else they would be acting in hollywood films.

Sorry.

 

[Bokimbol]

Stella, I would certainly have to agree with you there. At this point, I basically hope that the girl acts well enough that I can "pretend" she is enjoying what she is doing. There are some that I and my gf have encountered that are believable if you don't look too hard. And they are mostly all by the same few companies. Girlfriends Films, Sweetheart Video and Abbey Winters. Unfortunately, the only one of the three companies that even pretends to have interracial scenes is Sweetheart Video and they are the maker of the scene I suggested earlier.

A fairly well known performer once told me the reason for this is a lot of the black women in porn basically have pimps for agents and they scare off the white producers with their strong arm tactics. I have no way of knowing if this is true. Just relaying what I was told. But there is some reason we see so few interracial scenes by the white companies.

The all black companies seem to think that every woman wants to be called a "ho" non stop, loves tons of spit, and every scene must have some kind of toy penetrating the women. Not to mention the orgasms are pitifully phony.If it wasn't for this "style" of movie making, I might actually watch all black porn more just for something new.

All this is why we lean towards the so called "amateur porn" now. Most of it is as bad or worse but every once in awhile you will find a scene with a woman in it that is actually into what she's doing.

 

[PricelessT]

And mostly they are not very good actors, or else they would be acting in hollywood films.

Sorry.

LOL. But let us remember that not all good or great actors make it in Hollywood. I would be inclined to think that a good or great actor would turn to television or stage acting before porn, but you never know.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Etoile, it was your two huge sticks up your ass that provoked my response. You are a mod, am I right? So why are you ridiculing me for a typo and a "pet peeve" of yours? That of someone asking for a certain type of movie. Then, not adding anything to the original topic.

I thought mods were suppose to be helpful. Not antagonistic like you were with me. A mods job is to "keep the peace." Not anger posters by ridiculing them with their own "pet peeves." Or have things changed here since I last posted?

Ask yourself this, would you have been annoyed if I were the mod and responded to your post like you did to mine? What annoys me maybe the most is you never once really commented on the subject. MY gf with a larger black woman. Your whole post was about bad grammar and how my post showed "bad form" in your eyes when I asked for movie recommendations and nothing at all to do with the topic. It's a porn site dude, what porn site are you not allowed to ask for movie recommendations? So yes I do have a stick up my ass and your responses put it there.

So what I am saying is, you had absolutely nothing of value to add to my post. Nothing. Since you are a mod, you should have been above jumping in on my post and ridiculing me for what amounted to a typo and a annoyance of yours. If you had nothing to add to it, why didn't you just ignore it?

Last time I posted here was awhile ago and as far as I know, this has always been a place to ask questions. Etoile, have you now the power to decide what questions are proper to ask? Again, if my question annoys you or any one, why not just ignore it. Judging by your "ever so helpful" response you gave me when annoyed by my question, your answer will be worthless to me any way. So why not ignore the question and let the people that are not annoyed by the question, if any, answer it? Would make your job so much easier and you would irritate a lot less posters. This site and many others have more than enough flamers and trolls that we don't need the mods of the site helping them out.

Any way, before the mod hijacked my thread with his/her "pet peeve" annoyances that were best kept to him/herself, does any one else find my gf relationship with the black woman exciting or has any one ever been in a relationship like this? And just to annoy Etoile, does any one know of any good videos like this and the one I used as example. Feel free to Pm me any answers so as to not upset our mod.

Dude couple of things:

1. Yes, Etoile is a mod here, but she is also a reasoning woman who is allowed to voice her opinions. That you don't like it, ESPECIALLY when the comment wasn't directed at you is SERIOUSLY telling.

2. STFU about your girlfriend and your fantasy "large black woman". We get it that your kink is Voyeurism with an interracial Domme twist. We really do. The thing is a.). NONE oF the thing that you're asking about are GLBT related and b.) For MANY of us the concept of some str8 dude getting off on watching two women having sex, in what ever fashion, is squicky in the extreme!

 

[Stella_Omega]

LOL. But let us remember that not all good or great actors make it in Hollywood. I would be inclined to think that a good or great actor would turn to television or stage acting before porn, but you never know.

True... We can always hope...

and just maybe projects like this will inspire some crossover action.

Before we start in on the choruses of how shitty the book is-- remember that 99.99 and 9 tenths percent of all porn is REALLY shitty, okay? As bad as it is, this can only be an improvement IMO.

 

[Etoile]

1. Yes, Etoile is a mod here, but she is also a reasoning woman who is allowed to voice her opinions. That you don't like it, ESPECIALLY when the comment wasn't directed at you is SERIOUSLY telling.

Yeah, pretty much this. I have as much right to post what I want here as everybody else. It's a free speech board, right? Now, I am pretty nice most of the time, because it's my personality and I like being nice. But that whole tl;dr about mods was way off the mark, because since the beginning of Lit, mods have had the explicit right to say what they think. My job is to delete spam and move threads to the appropriate forum, not to mollycoddle anybody. This is why I don't get involved in disputes here when requested, because it's not my place as a mod to do so. I move threads around, edit pictures/posts that violate the rules, and that's it. And I can say whatever I want as a poster.

And she's right, you are taking my offhand comment way too personally. Whatever floats your boat, but I'm not rising to the bait anymore.

 

[Bokimbol]

Safe Bet, I would like to know which of the two comments were not directed at me by Etoile? I clearly made a typo first when I said "dominate" instead of "dominant" in my opening post. Klippert apparently made a similar mistake after I did. Etoile did not specify who she was directing her comment at when she made it. Since I made the mistake first, at the very least I felt it was partially directed at me. I sure hope you can follow that logic. Or was common sense too much for you?

Etoile, I am not sure if you are a man or a woman so please excuse me if I have the wrong gender. If Safe Bet has one fact right, I see you are a woman so I guessed right.

The second comment she made was about me asking for movie recommendations. That one was clearly directed at me. So what are you talking about when you said "That you don't like it, ESPECIALLY when the comment wasn't directed at you is SERIOUSLY telling." Telling of what? So WRONG!

As far as your second point goes, your narrow minded viewpoint is so far off it is laughable. As Etoile and yourself have said I have every right to post whatever I want here. You apparently are saying you and Etoile can say whatever you want but if my subject matter doesn't meet your idea(Safe Bets idea only) of what is "proper sex" then I should not be allowed to post it. WRONG!

I have obviously put this post in the proper forum by the simple fact that Etoile has not moved the post, one of her self stated duties here, to another thread makes me suspect that you are wrong yet again. I.E. if it was in the wrong forum, why has Etoile not moved it.

I really do not care if you believe what I have said. It is clear that all you want to do is try and harass me any way. For reason I have no idea why. I mean, have I ever spoken to you before? If I have, I am sorry that you were so forgettable.

I strongly am starting to suspect that even though you say your a girl, you are a "dude." I mean, you sure don't talk like a girl. Sure seems like a lot of testosterone is coursing through your veins. A fact I was letting slide until now. Not to mention, why are you using someone called "Amy's" account instead of creating your own? Now who is the one that is not being so honest? How the hell does any one know what you are saying or Amy? Amy has thousands of posts. How many of them are yours? How do we know when it's Amy talking or you? Whoever you are. I am also wondering if you are one of the people that attacked a friend of mine here awhile back and you are now trying to get even with me because I helped defend her. No one comes out and calls someone a liar for no reason.

And as far as your point in your first thread about me repeating a topic, ah dude, I asked the question almost three years ago the first time. So your telling me asking a similar question once every three years is obsessive? LOL. You are one funny guy.

Safe Bet also said,"b.) For MANY of us the concept of some str8 dude getting off on watching two women having sex, in what ever fashion, is squicky in the extreme!" Do I even have to comment on how many things are wrong with this statement? So Wrong again!

1. First of all, it is mind blowing that someone on a what is basically a porn site is trying to make what is pretty much considered main stream porn now, out as something "Squicky."All you are doing is showing your intolerance to any one that likes something that you don't like. Pretty sad and telling on a adult site. Hello, there are numerous companies that make nothing but lesbian porn and if you think women are the majority of their customers, you are truly out of it. Have you even looked at the number of lesbian stories on these very boards dude? Not to mention all over the net. Are you really trying to tell me that is mostly women writing them and reading them? Now that may be the stupidest thing you have said so far.

2. I know what happened with my gf. Narrow minded people like yourself is why it took her so long to open up about it.

3. You are basing your facts about me because I repeated a post topic twice in three years? Man I sure hope you never become a detective Sherlock. Your powers of deduction are amazing.

4. So basically all your vitriol directed at me is because you don't like my subject matter and you have tried to manufacture your own set of facts to match your fantasy about me. No matter how opinionated and far fetched they may be. I ask again, whats the stick up your ass with me? Obviously you are just bored and are looking for a fight. Or you are the most hypocritical person on these boards. Do you really believe anything you say must be true or are you just that bad at internet fighting?

Etoile, I would like to do a start over with you if you are willing. I apologize to you if I took your comments in the wrong way. To be honest with you, I didn't even realize you were a mod until my second response to you. #10 in this thread.

What happened and I hope you understand, is I read your response right after I read Safe Bets very "insightful" ones. I am very protective of my gf and it took a lot for her to open up with her experience and that she enjoyed it. Then my first response is an attack on me and her experience from someone that for some unknown reason has decided to make me his personal target. Apparently based on the fact that I made two similar posts in three years. You are all free to go to my home page and look it up as I and apparently Safe Bet did. To be honest, I didn't even remember making the earlier one. I mean three years. really?

Then, when you made your first response to me, it being on the negative side and I didn't notice you were a mod, I felt it was just someone else piling on me here as I have seen that happen in the past to others here. Especially since you didn't even bother to comment on the topic. I took it as just another attack on me.

Then I read your comment about "dominate" and "dominant." I will get lazy when I write, I know this, especially in open forums so I am prone to mistakes like that. Which I did make and didn't catch until your second post. I assumed you were at least partially referring to me and were making fun of my mistake. At the same time I saw that you were a mod and I was like, "WTF now a mod is attacking me too?" You know how you said "Sorry, makes me twitchy." I am the complete opposite of you. People that look for near perfect grammar make me twitchy. I usually ignore the "twitch" but at this point I was in full battle mode. Also, it didn't help that "Safe Bet" had already irritated me here.

So after my explanation, I hope we can chalk this up to a giant misunderstanding on my part as to your intentions. I really do not come to these sites looking for a battle but if I perceive I am being challenged, I will fight back. I am sorry that you thought that I was looking for trouble with you as that was not my intention. Please accept my apology. Apparently Safe Bet is more than willing to fill that role for some unknown reason.

My guess is he doesn't like

1. lesbians
2. large dominant( got it right that time LOL) women. Though if he is one, he certainly is coming off as one.
3. interracial sex or black women or both
4. Anything he considers "squicky" he really needs to give me a list of these things so I am sure to push all of his buttons.
5. Some or all of this list and a few other things he hasn't mentioned yet.

 

[Safe_Bet]

My guess is he doesn't like

1. lesbians
2. large dominant( got it right that time LOL) women
3. interracial sex or black women or both
4. Anything he considers "squicky" he really needs to give me a list of these things so I am sure to push all of his buttons.
5. Some or all of this list and a few other things he hasn't mentioned yet.

I AM a lesbian, you dumbass! I post and comment here about GLBT things here in the GLBT forum.

You on the other hand, are a straight guy with several kinks, one of which is being a voyeur for interracial FemDom sex. That's DOESN'T have anything to do with GLBT things and, your right on this at least, I DO WISH Etoile would move your shit to the appropriate forum.

The difference is that I realize that 1.) Etoile can do as she sees fit, whether either of us like it or not and 2.) I'm not insulting your gender or orientation in a forum that SHOULD be a safe place for those of us who aren't like you.

 

[Bokimbol]

No Safe Bet ( Amy), you are insulting me by calling me a liar and not even knowing me. Yet you yourself don't even have your own account. WTF? You started this crap. What did I say that was impolite in my opening thread? How is me asking a question making it "not safe" for you and the other lesbians here? Do you jump on the gay threads here and attack the men there too because they are making the thread "not safe' for lesbians?

Let the mods do there jobs and stop trying to police the boards with your vigilantism. I am very sure if I was out of line Etoile would throw me off of her real quick without any help from you.

All you had to do is say maybe I placed it in the wrong forum in a polite fashion. But no, you had to put a "male" in his place. You are insulting my gender by assuming I have ulterior motives without even knowing me. Talk about calling the kettle black. Then you dig up a post three years old as your only proof of my dastardly motives.

I placed it here because my gf and I were curious if other women had similar likes. Instead of being helpful or just ignoring the thread, you decided to be hostile and insulting and making up a bunch of false facts to try and prove your point.

I am not insulting your gender or sexual preference. I am insulting you. There's a difference dumb ass.

Now let me ask you, how the "f" am I to know if you are a lesbian or not unless you stated it previously and I saw it somewhere or you told me? Even you know guys post here all the time about lesbians. I had no idea if you were a man, woman or transgender and frankly I didn't care. Something you are unable to fathom. If I wanted to, I would have made a new account and posed as a lesbian and had a ball. Would you like it if I had done that instead? I have not been on these forums in months. All I know is I make a post and some lunatic, with a gender neutral name, using someone elses account starts attacking me out of the blue and calling me a liar. Then that person expects me to shut up and run away with my tail between my legs. Not.

 

[Safe_Bet]

No Safe Bet ( Amy), you are insulting me by calling me a liar and not even knowing me. Yet you yourself don't even have your own account. WTF? You started this crap. All you had to do is say maybe I placed it in the wrong forum in a polite fashion. But no, you had to put a "male" in his place. You are insulting my gender by assuming I have ulterior motives without even knowing me. Talk about calling the kettle black.

I placed it here because my gf and I were curious if other women had similar likes. Instead of being helpful or just ignoring the thread, you decided to be hostile and insulting and making up a bunch of false facts to try and prove your point.

I am not insulting your gender or sexual preference. I am insulting you. There's a difference dumb ass.

Now let me ask you, how the "f" am I to know if you are a lesbian or not unless you stated it previously and I saw it somewhere or you told me? Even you know guys post here all the time about lesbians. I had no idea if you were a man, woman or transgender and frankly I didn't care. Something you are unable to fathom. If I wanted to, I would have made a new account and posed as a lesbian and had a ball. Would you like it if I had done that instead? I have not been on these forums in months. All I know is I make a post and some lunatic, with a gender neutral name, using someone elses account starts attacking me out of the blue and calling me a liar. Then that person expects me to shut up and run away with my tail between my legs. Not.

How very "manly" of you, dude!

Did you ever think to look at somebody's profile or posts before lighting that stick up your ass on fire?

Did the name "Amy" under the screen name maybe give you a clue???


So I'm afraid I'm just gonna have to call BULLSHIT on all of your male posturing. You made gender and orientation insults in a queer forum, asshole. Don't cry when somebody calls your straight ass on it.

(oh, and don't try to say you didn't know. You obviously have "know" enough to "know" that this originally was my late wife's account that she asked me to keep using.)

 

[Stella_Omega]

There are some black women in my group of friends. Most of them are vanilla, egalitarian lesbians. Of the ones that prefer stronger roles, one is exclusively a top-- "dominate" as you call it-- and one is very submissive, and three women switch. One of the switch women is married, the rest of them don't care much about men. I love the beauty of these women as much as I love the beauty of the white, Latina and Farsi women I am lucky enough to be with these days, but I fetishise (for a certain definition of the word) women's smarts and their passion more than their races.

 

[Bokimbol]

Uhm, Amy, you attacked me remember. It did not matter to me what your sexual preference or gender was. I was defending myself from an attacker. So it was irrelevant what your preferences were.

Well since it's not your account, how the hell would I know if you are Amy or not? Maybe if the first contact with me wasn't an attack, I would be more prone to believe who you say you are. Ok, this is not Boki, this is John Doe talking now.

Sorry Amy, I did not make gender orientation insults. I made Amy insults. You are just trying to twist it to rally others against me. You on the other hand have made gender insults or insinuations.

Amy, I can say I am truly sorry you lost your significant other. But how would I possibly know that this is your wife's old account or that you even had a wife? Again I say it, you attacked me. It's not like I sought you out and tried to mess with you.

One second you say I didn't even know you were Amy, the next I somehow know you have a wife that died and asked you to continue to use your account. If i didn't know you were Amy, how would i know you had a wife? Can't have it both ways. I hate to tell you this but I am not sitting here studying your life. I never heard of you until the other day and your wife until this post.

Do you think it's possible that I came on this thread, hit "new thread" without ever seeing your name any where, made my post and got attacked by you? Do you think that maybe that is exactly what happened? Look up my old posts. When was the last time I posted? May of last year was the last thread I started. January the last post and before that, nothing for a year.Yet you are saying I know who you are? So I have been lurking here for a year and not posting? Is that what you are really trying to say? Oh yeah, I sound like a real threat. Sounds like you should do a little more homework yourself on who your attacking.

You don't like males posting here cool. But if I am being polite and respectful, why do you care if other women have no problem answering me? You are trying to make a blanket choice for all the women here because you feel that all males should be banned from here. I say, let each woman decide for herself if she wants to answer me. If no one answers, no one answers. Why should you decide for them because you don't like it?

 

[Safe_Bet]

Uhm, Amy, you attacked me remember. It did not matter to me what your sexual preference or gender was. I was defending myself from an attacker. So it was irrelevant what your preferences were.

Well since it's not your account, how the hell would I know if you are Amy or not? Maybe if the first contact with me wasn't an attack, I would be more prone to believe who you say you are. Ok, this is not Boki, this is John Doe talking now.

Sorry Amy, I did not make gender orientation insults. I made Amy insults. You are just trying to twist it to rally others against me. You on the other hand have made gender insults or insinuations.

Amy, I can say I am truly sorry you lost your significant other. But how would I possibly know that this is your wife's old account or that you even had a wife? Again I say it, you attacked me. It's not like I sought you out and tried to mess with you.

One second you say I didn't even know you were Amy, the next I somehow know you have a wife that died and asked you to continue to use your account. If i didn't know you were Amy, how would i know you had a wife? Can't have it both ways. I hate to tell you this but I am not sitting here studying your life. I never heard of you until the other day and your wife until this post.

Do you think it's possible that I came on this thread, hit "new thread" without ever seeing your name any where, made my post and got attacked by you? Do you think that maybe that is exactly what happened? Look up my old posts. When was the last time I posted? May of last year was the last thread I started. January the last post and before that, nothing for a year.Yet you are saying I know who you are? So I have been lurking here for a year and not posting? Is that what you are really trying to say? Oh yeah, I sound like a real threat. Sounds like you should do a little more homework yourself on who your attacking.

You don't like males posting here cool. But if I am being polite and respectful, why do you care if other women have no problem answering me? You are trying to make a blanket choice for all the women here because you feel that all males should be banned from here. I say, let each woman decide for herself if she wants to answer me. If no one answers, no one answers. Why should you decide for them because you don't like it?

Way to 'mansplain, dude!

Yet you yourself don't even have your own account. WTF?

Well since it's not your account, how the hell would I know if you are Amy or not?

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! You freakin maroon!

 

[Bokimbol]

Stella, thank you so much for replying. I would much rather talk about this than the other if women are so inclined.

My gf, as I stated, never really had any desire to be with any woman before her lover. She was in an abusive relationship when she met the black woman. The woman was very supportive of her. She gave her a place to stay, drove her to and from work, supported her against her bf and basically was a very good friend to her. She also said she felt very safe and protected with her. Especially after she helped her get away from her abusive bf. This wasn't the first bf like that for her so she thinks she may have been turned off a bit by males after him. The others were verbally abusive not physically. The last one was both.

She sort of suspected the other woman was "bi" but wasn't sure and didn't think much of it until after the fact. The other woman was very aggressive with everybody and everything. Not just her. They worked together and the other woman protected her from certain hassles at work.

Eventually, the other woman started to make "innocent" seeming passes at my gf that escalated to very obvious ones as time went on. By the time she caught on fully to what was happening, my gf said she felt almost obligated to sleep with her because of all that the other woman had done for her. She was also attracted to her but that was really confusing her at the time as she was never attracted to a woman before.

She doubts that she would have ever done anything with her on her own but after a party one night at the other woman's house, the other woman started kissing and fondling her until my gf basically gave in. After which she struggled with what she did for awhile. When she accepted she liked it, she also knew she liked the other woman being the dominant one as that was a big part of it. She thinks it's because if the other woman is the aggressor, it makes it easier for her to accept sleeping with her. In other words, she can remain the "good girl" if she just goes along with it. Dominant in bed only. Though my gf is quiet she wants to be treated as an equal.

We dated for about two years before she told me about the other woman. I had suspected because I and others saw how they behaved towards each other at work before we dated.

Fairly recently, last five years or so, my gf has felt more comfortable talking about her experience and seeks out similar situations to read about and watch. As I said, she still sees the other woman a few times a year but we don't get along at all so I have to make myself scarce.

My gf thinks the fetish for the woman being larger and black is just because that is what the other woman happened to be. So she is on the same page as you on that.

I do the majority of the posting because she has gotten two boarder line stalkers from her posting. One from this site. As in she met her here and e-mailed her afterwards.

 

[Bokimbol]

Ah yes Amy, your hatred for men displays itself with every new post you make. I love it when someone is losing the argument they resort to name calling and not addressing the allegations. You see Amy, it's called logic. Something you are obviously foreign to.

Hugs and kisses doll.