Dominants Hands ...........

Peregrinator said:
Hey, no problem, Homburg. I'm 6'3", almost exactly.


I still don't really get the hands thing, but whatever.

I figured that you were talled than I am. Thanks.

Quite a few submissive ladies like hands. Considering how often thos ehands are on them, it makes sense. And considering how much more effective strong hands are at most forms of pain play, it likewise makes sense that large, strong hands would be considered attractive for the sort of person that would be into pain play.
 
Homburg said:
I figured that you were talled than I am. Thanks.

Quite a few submissive ladies like hands. Considering how often thos ehands are on them, it makes sense. And considering how much more effective strong hands are at most forms of pain play, it likewise makes sense that large, strong hands would be considered attractive for the sort of person that would be into pain play.

Yes, that's it for me in a nut shell. A man's hands are the first thing I look at. Closely followed by his teeth :devil:
 
What a yummy thread. I spent quite a bit of time looking through these last night. I must admit to having a thing for men's hands. Especially in certain kinds of gloves. But also bare. Hmmm, can't make up my mind . . . :)
 
nh23 said:
Yes, that's it for me in a nut shell. A man's hands are the first thing I look at. Closely followed by his teeth :devil:

Bad teeth can be a deal breaker for me.
 
My hands are remarkably effective at pain play. And far more suited to fisting, unless you're some kind of mega size queen.

*still popular at parties*
 
Netzach said:
My hands are remarkably effective at pain play. And far more suited to fisting, unless you're some kind of mega size queen.

*still popular at parties*

You know fisting has proven to be impossible for me. It's only ever been tried on me with men though. Maybe if I tried with a woman hmmm.. Yoo Hoo..BiBunny, Bi_kitty, where are you guys.. I have an idea. :devil:
 
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Netzach said:
My hands are remarkably effective at pain play. And far more suited to fisting, unless you're some kind of mega size queen.

*still popular at parties*

The same could be said for my own hands, if I were still apt to play outside the confines of my relationship. *sigh* I was looking for an updated picture but all the ones I have are of me and an ex play mate...and her face is shown in every shot..*sighs again*
 
nh23 said:
You know fisting has proven to be impossible for me. I have a heart shaped pelvis (my son was 6lbs and broke it during delivery bad enough that I can't have more children) It's only ever been tried on me with men though. Maybe if I tried with a woman hmmm.. Yoo Hoo..BiBunny, Bi_kitty, where are you guys.. I have an idea. :devil:


I can't do it for shit with guys either. My vanilla-though-not-uptight ex and I tried, while his hands were small they had that chunky thumb muscle which is just a no-go for me. Girls more often have the flexible thumb collapsible hands.

Though how important this is is subjective, thousands of gay leathermen and their asses get along OK without enlisting me every day.
 
Luna_Wolf72 said:
The same could be said for my own hands, if I were still apt to play outside the confines of my relationship. *sigh* I was looking for an updated picture but all the ones I have are of me and an ex play mate...and her face is shown in every shot..*sighs again*

Aw, bummer.
 
Talking about fisting: anybody knows a technique or exercises to avoid hand cramps when fisting a cutie?

More on topic, having small 'feminine' hands is one reason why I love being a woman: my hands are small enough to allow for fisting, but their size has no correlation to the size of my dicks.

ETA: pic of my tools.
 

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Luna_Wolf72 said:
Do you know I have NEVER been the recipient of a fisting? *wonders why that is* Never even tried...

Me neither. But then, being penetrated is a craving I get only a few times a year.
 
DeservingBitch said:
Me neither. But then, being penetrated is a craving I get only a few times a year.


*nods* I can understand that. The idea of a guy up in me in that way *shudders* Having always been the Top with women, I guess that kind of explains the lack of experience on the receiving end.
 
DeservingBitch said:
Talking about fisting: anybody knows a technique or exercises to avoid hand cramps when fisting a cutie?

More on topic, having small 'feminine' hands is one reason why I love being a woman: my hands are small enough to allow for fisting, but their size has no correlation to the size of my dicks.

ETA: pic of my tools.

What causes the hand cramps would be my question...then it might be easier to avoid. LOL, my biggest concerns were getting my hand back, and the fact he was asking for both fists at once next time!!

Catalina :catroar:
 
catalina_francisco said:
What causes the hand cramps would be my question...then it might be easier to avoid. LOL, my biggest concerns were getting my hand back, and the fact he was asking for both fists at once next time!!

Catalina :catroar:
Haha - yes, the first time I fisted a girl, there was this moment when her pussy was holding so tight on my hand that I was concerned for a few seconds that I would never get my hand back! I still have to fist an ass yet though.

The cramps... I have no idea where they come from. The movements, positioning of the hand, pressure of pussy muscles around it, combination of all the above: your guess is as good as mine.
 
DeservingBitch said:
Talking about fisting: anybody knows a technique or exercises to avoid hand cramps when fisting a cutie?

More on topic, having small 'feminine' hands is one reason why I love being a woman: my hands are small enough to allow for fisting, but their size has no correlation to the size of my dicks.

ETA: pic of my tools.


Lovely.

I'm in awe of pretty nails.
I had pretty nails for a little while and damn, I could not even masturbate without hurting myself!
 
DeservingBitch said:
Talking about fisting: anybody knows a technique or exercises to avoid hand cramps when fisting a cutie?

More on topic, having small 'feminine' hands is one reason why I love being a woman: my hands are small enough to allow for fisting, but their size has no correlation to the size of my dicks.

ETA: pic of my tools.


I think it's one of those moments you just need to channel your inner masochist. I've never figured out how to do anything about greedy little sluts who tire my whole arm out.
 
DeservingBitch said:
Haha - yes, the first time I fisted a girl, there was this moment when her pussy was holding so tight on my hand that I was concerned for a few seconds that I would never get my hand back! I still have to fist an ass yet though.

The cramps... I have no idea where they come from. The movements, positioning of the hand, pressure of pussy muscles around it, combination of all the above: your guess is as good as mine.

I never had this moment of horror with pussy, but my first ass definitely. I think the girl did everything in her power not to laugh, I'm sure the look on my face was priceless. All facade of being in control was GONE, I'm sure.
 
Netzach said:
Lovely.

I'm in awe of pretty nails.
I had pretty nails for a little while and damn, I could not even masturbate without hurting myself!
Fakes.

I'm a raging nail-bitter. This pic is pre-fisting era. Nowadays, I choose comfort (of the fisteed) over pretty nails.
 
Netzach said:
I think it's one of those moments you just need to channel your inner masochist. I've never figured out how to do anything about greedy little sluts who tire my whole arm out.
Haha - yes, I guess that's it. I had this moment when fisting my pretty goth friend this weekend when I thought that this whole Top/bottom thing is quite relative.

I never had this moment of horror with pussy, but my first ass definitely. I think the girl did everything in her power not to laugh, I'm sure the look on my face was priceless. All facade of being in control was GONE, I'm sure.
Same here.
 
DeservingBitch said:
Fakes.

I'm a raging nail-bitter. This pic is pre-fisting era. Nowadays, I choose comfort (of the fisteed) over pretty nails.


*high fives*
 
Gawd ... y'all are making me so jealous. I want to feel my Dom's hands fisting me and have had that fantasy for a while ...
 
Sprinkles22 said:
Gawd ... y'all are making me so jealous. I want to feel my Dom's hands fisting me and have had that fantasy for a while ...
Lube is all you need to make it happen. Assuming your Dom likes the idea as well of course.
 
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