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[ForMyEnjoyment]

I am a married dominant woman. I am on my second marriage and We have been married for over 10 years. To be honest we we got together we were totally switch. On any given weekend one of us would end up with a bruised ass or marks caused by a flogger across our backs. There were weekends when on Friday night he was deep in my ass and Saturday night I was deep in him with a strap-on. We went to swinger parties and everything was great. Now we are older and both of our brains want to go back to those days but physically we are insecure, scared, feeling of unwanted, and his performance (as a middle age man) is inconsistent. Any advice?

 

[MasterDarcy]

Communication. Talk through every permutation with every possible scenario and outcome, both negative and positive.

If you both want to go back to those days then go back. Will it be the same? Probably not because of his performance.

You must have an incredible amount of trust in one another to swing, etc, and still return to one another. Not many couples have that in them.

That kind of trust and love doesn't just go away.

 

[ned63]

I am a married dominant woman. I am on my second marriage and We have been married for over 10 years. To be honest we we got together we were totally switch. On any given weekend one of us would end up with a bruised ass or marks caused by a flogger across our backs. There were weekends when on Friday night he was deep in my ass and Saturday night I was deep in him with a strap-on. We went to swinger parties and everything was great. Now we are older and both of our brains want to go back to those days but physically we are insecure, scared, feeling of unwanted, and his performance (as a middle age man) is inconsistent. Any advice?

Hi myenjoyment, come and talk with me. Im sure we can find some good things to do and enjoy mmmm. DM me

 

[Mike130]

I am a married dominant woman. I am on my second marriage and We have been married for over 10 years. To be honest we we got together we were totally switch. On any given weekend one of us would end up with a bruised ass or marks caused by a flogger across our backs. There were weekends when on Friday night he was deep in my ass and Saturday night I was deep in him with a strap-on. We went to swinger parties and everything was great. Now we are older and both of our brains want to go back to those days but physically we are insecure, scared, feeling of unwanted, and his performance (as a middle age man) is inconsistent. Any advice?

From a male perspective, I sympathize with your situation. Before marriage I would go to swingers clubs, watch my girlfriend get fucked, suck cock, eat pussy and of course, partake in the debauchery myself. I even brought my wife once, although she wasn’t really too outgoing in that situation and only rode me while another guy jerked off watching us from less than 10 feet away.

I do miss those times, however it’s probably healthier to forgo those types of activities. Fortunately my wife has a very fertile imagination and is not shy about sharing stories of guys she fucked while dating me. Being a very attractive woman in her twenties at the time, there was no shortage of guys willing to fill her mouth and pussy with their seed. She’s mentioned that I’ve probably unknowingly licked about a gallon of other guy’s cum from her pussy during that time.

Now that we’re older she shares her sex stories with me, as well as her fantasies during lovemaking and it provides an erotic stimulus without the insecurities and risks of actual swapping.

 

[SissySalina]

Everyone gets older, the mind and body changes with age, sometimes good and sometimes bad.
The advice is communicate to each other, have planed sessions of just talking to each other most of all be truthful.
Tell each other the good and bad and most of all wishes. If you would like change then tell each other.
No one is truly a mind reader.

A sissy suggestion.

 

[OralAllOver]

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