Dominant wandering to explore sub side! Need mentor!

[Teen_switch]

Hello all,

As the title suggest, I believe I have a dominant personality. I(21M) had been in d/s relationship in which I lead the relationship and my partner(22F) followed,which unfortunately had to end because she had to relocate! Anyways it was not a bad breakup but still painful.

The cherry on top, When the dynamic ended last year, soon after I feel ill. Severe infections in the lungs. And was on bed for 6 months. Even though I recovered, the bed rest and steroids took a toll on my body. I went from being a lean person to an obese one. My self confidence has plummeted. During the past year, I have wondered if the grass would be greener on the other side, where someone would lead me. Help me get back to how I was before!

I have tried to contact many femals dominants but most of them are either fake or just 2 day talks. I don't understand what to do!
If you have some advice,please help!

Also, If any dominants take notice and interest, I am ready to work hard, Put in the work! So if you wish to know anything more please reach out!

 

[AnnieLit]

You need a doctor, not an online domme. A doctor that will explain the health risks of early weight gain, what it will do pretty fast to your joints and the rest of you body. Hopefully, this will scare you bad enough to get your ass to a gym and stick to a reasonable diet. Untill YOU are ready to do the work, nobody else will be able to help you. What do you want the domme to do? Tell you that you are a bad boy because instead of water you downed coke at lunch, ate pizza for dinner, and played some stupid video game instead of going to a gym?

 

[Teen_switch]

You need a doctor, not an online domme. A doctor that will explain the health risks of early weight gain, what it will do pretty fast to your joints and the rest of you body. Hopefully, this will scare you bad enough to get your ass to a gym and stick to a reasonable diet. Untill YOU are ready to do the work, nobody else will be able to help you. What do you want the domme to do? Tell you that you are a bad boy because instead of water you downed coke at lunch, ate pizza for dinner, and played some stupid video game instead of going to a gym?

This weight gain isn't because of eating food! It's due to continuous use of steroids! Why do you even assume that its because me downing cakes? Since the steriods have stopped,it has automatically resulted in some weight loss! All this is under the supervision of a doctor!

 

[AnnieLit]

"Help me to get back to how I was before" - I didn't assume anything, I just read what you wrote.
You, on the other hand, can't read - it was coke, not cake