Dominant Bottoms?

[Shywong]

This is something I've never really thought about until now. Does anyone here fit that role? Usually bottoms are submissive, which is great, but its rare to see one in control. I would love to get pussy whipped by dat ass.
Calling it ass whipped doesn't sound right..

While we're at it, anyone got links to some good stories featuring dominant bottoms?

 

[Etoile]

I guess it would be not unlike a dominant woman. In gay relationships, the bottom gets penetrated; in straight relationships, it's the woman. (Usually speaking.) So I guess if a dominant woman can demand to be fucked, so can a dominant male bottom, right? Intriguing question!

 

[girlyboyalexa]

Speaking as a bottom, from personal experience and anectdotal evidence from friends, I think that there are a very limited number of bottoms who are dominant. I won't eliminate the possibility, but I don't know anyone, nor have I ever felt like I wanted to be the one in control.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

This is something I've never really thought about until now. Does anyone here fit that role? Usually bottoms are submissive, which is great, but its rare to see one in control. I would love to get pussy whipped by dat ass.
Calling it ass whipped doesn't sound right..

While we're at it, anyone got links to some good stories featuring dominant bottoms?

You may become the top if the Mistress orders you to do so. It is her whim that you please. If she wishes domination, then it's done. The joy of it for the submissive is in pleasing the Mistress. So at times like this, becoming the top becomes an act of submission.

Forever weird,

Espie

 

[arunkv]

sub

I love being dominated by a woman

 

[A_Kefka]

Chatted with someone one time who said he was dominant and versatile. It wasn't playing online with him, just talking about stuff. Anyway, he said normally he was the top, but sometimes he would just feel the need to be fucked. Usually he would tie his slave boy up on his back, tease him till hard and ride him.

Ssecond hand info but seems to be close to what you are looking for.

 

[greystardust]

seems there is a cup for every saucer...a peg for every hole. would definitely like to be topped by a hot woman, but on my terms, hence the retention of a subtle dominance. i imagine this is not so rare, but let's see

 

[Shywong]

I got the idea from this doujin. Fair warning, its shotacon so if anyone has qualms about 'young' characters don't look at it. The light haired boy is the dominant one but at the same time he's a bottom. He "rapes" the other one by riding his morning wood while he was asleep. This kind of scenario is uncommon, but I find it to be extremely hot. Its more erotic than the usual gay fantasy where the top is in control.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I've written this both as het and as m/m-- and lost it, I am sorry to say, in a harddrive crash.

You guys would have loved it.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

seems there is a cup for every saucer...a peg for every hole. would definitely like to be topped by a hot woman, but on my terms, hence the retention of a subtle dominance. i imagine this is not so rare, but let's see

The loss of control and giving of oneself to an appropriately loving Mistress is beauty to me. I love submitting to my partner (female), and have equal joy from from being the top when she wants it that way. The point is satisfying her, doing as she wishes, submitting to her. There is joy in it, but I tell you from my little experience in the world, the type of Mistress makes all the difference. A loving Mistress who treats her submissive with kindness is bliss for those of us with this particular need. A bitch who fucks with your brain leads to chaos, and is cruel. Although some submissives love humiliation of this nature, in the end it is defeating.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

I've written this both as het and as m/m-- and lost it, I am sorry to say, in a harddrive crash.

You guys would have loved it.

Well get busy and how bout an Ff?

 

[kingkhan1]

I would love to mess with a bottom who wanted to take control of my hard cock and ride it. I need a man who wants my dick ass much as I crave his asshole.

 

[Ike_The_Spike]

I know that I lean towards being a bottom, purely because I love the physical feeling. I don't enjoy being submissive (I might enjoy it with a woman that has a strap-on though), I just enjoy the feeling of something going in and out of my ass.

I'm not sure if I'm dominant, but I was kind of aggressive the one time that I was with a guy in that way.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well get busy and how bout an Ff?

FF butch bottoms? Oh, that's easy...

(feedback, please!)

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

FF butch bottoms? Oh, that's easy...

(feedback, please!)

Where the sub is ordered by the Domme to play the Domme for the Domme (is that confusing or what?). It's all about making the Mistress happy! If she wants her subby to make her happy she does. This is an exerpt from a stroke peace I wrote (posted at SOL). Kind of an example.

*****

"I'll teach you, and please call me bitch." (subby talking)

"Then let me put that fire out my beautiful babe, I mean bitch," I said without even thinking about it, or I should say that my pussy said it, since my pussy was doing all my thinking for me on that night. (inexperienced woman who likes the idea of being a Domme)

"I'd like that Mistress," she said with an evil smile that made her pierced nose curl in a wicked way. "I like a little pain now and again, of course you don't need to feel obligated, but a pinch and a little slap makes me feel good. You tell me what you want, and I'll do it."


I was at a loss, here I had this beautiful thing in my hands and she was telling me I could order her to do whatever I wanted her to do. I said, "Honey, uhm, I mean bitch, right now how about we just make each other happy, and you can teach me about that other stuff a little later. That sound okay to you?"


"Lesson one, don't ask me for my permission, you own me tonight. Tell me as you want me to be. If you want equal sex, I'll do it. If you want me to be your slave, I'll do that also. If you want me to dominate you, that is no problem. You own me tonight, so I do as you order me to do. I like doing what my Mistress wants me to do."


Bejeezus, this was too good to be true, and I couldn't quite figure out what to say. It was very tempting to make her be my submissive, but I was ignorant about how to go about it, so I said, "Right now let's go at it as equals, but once we get to our final destination, maybe you can teach me about the subby thing."


"Yes Mistress," she said and bowed her head lowly.
****

Many times a sub has to teach her Mistress to do as she pleases. So who is really in control? Tee-Hee-Hee

I'll catch your story tonight, or I should say it'll catch me.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Poof

SILLY ME!

I just realized you were asking for feedback on the story, and here I go telling you about a story I want you to write.

Okay, never claimed to be all Einstenish or anything.

 

[Stella_Omega]

SILLY ME!

I just realized you were asking for feedback on the story, and here I go telling you about a story I want you to write.

Okay, never claimed to be all Einstenish or anything.

well, that might work anyway! (three stories, one linked to each word)

 

[Guest]

SILLY ME!

I just realized you were asking for feedback on the story, and here I go telling you about a story I want you to write.

Okay, never claimed to be all Einstenish or anything.

Esperanza, I always appreciate your contributions and I hope you continue.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

well, that might work anyway! (three stories, one linked to each word)

:caning:

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Esperanza, I always appreciate your contributions and I hope you continue.

Thank you Dave. I just felt all goofy about what I did.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Fuck my ass NOW!!!

It appears we have a true poet in our midst. Ahh, such beauty

 

[sterculius]

As a bisexual guy who is an avid and enthusiastic cocksucker, I would describe myself as a bottom, but not submissive. In fact whenever I suck cock, I consider myself to be in control. I can decide how and when he's going to orgasm. And I'm the one with the teeth!!

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

As a bisexual guy who is an avid and enthusiastic cocksucker, I would describe myself as a bottom, but not submissive. In fact whenever I suck cock, I consider myself to be in control. I can decide how and when he's going to orgasm. And I'm the one with the teeth!!

Love this post, it is exactly as I feel when I train my Mistress to allow me to enjoy submission the way I do. It really does beg the question, "Who is in control?"

You want a loving partner, and they might not come in as a built in Domme, thing is if they love you, they want to do the types of things that please you. My wife and I have enjoyed all aspects of our particular proclivities, and she has discovered she likes the role. Of course, it is not for most and some think it a weakness, but to me submission is comforting, freeing and satisfying in a way I have never experienced. IDK, I am a weird one, we often switch based upon what she wants, and I will control if she needs it and orders me.

For us it works and we have found a blissful medium. Quite frankly, the hell with it if folks don't care for it and think us strange.

I do feel I am a fortunate young lady, because she also allows me much freedom, such to express in a venue like this. That is not true of all Dommes.

 

[sterculius]

In addition to my being a voracious cocksucker, my wife and I generally prefer that I assume the dominant role during sex. However, for the past few years we've been experimenting with progressively larger strapon dildoes. I find that I really enjoy the role reversal allowing me to assume the passive and submissive position and experience what being forcefully penetrated anally (and orally) feels like. She likes it too!!

 

[Chrissi]

I am a bottom, and wouldn't really consider myself either dominant nor submissive. I can be either if that is how we are playing.

But usually with either one or more other guys, I very much like to keep one of them in my ass, so will take control of the play if the other guy(s) are slow to fuck me.

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