Thank you very much! I have to say what you mentioned above hit a lot of areas I want to go into. For one I want to be a Dom but not inflicting pain but as you said... control.
I also agree on the deeper connection and togetherness. But getting there is a little unknown to me ... how do I get there?
I haven't been able to find a BDSM culture in my area. Do you have any suggestions?
Thanks for the information! I appreciate everyone's input.
