Dom Sub relation ship info needed

[catimann]

Ok I met a lady who is a great person and we hit it of and things are going well but she tells me she likes a Sub Domo relationship. I'm just a guy who loves sex and will please her as much or more than she pleases me. Thing is she says she is the sub.
This is all new to me and I want to make this work so I need to learn what a Dom roll is. Also she texted Domo once so does that mean something diff?

Are there some site that explain or is each relationship different?

 

[MeekMe]

Domo may have been a typo. This is Domo-kun.

Each relationship is different. I don't have Stella's essay link, but I'm sure someone will come along with it.

If you take a look at the stickies at the top you'll find some resources. There's probably some open threads with good info, too.

Talk to her. One of the first things you should do is communicate with her, because she has info you need. Like what she expects, and what you should expect.

We can give general advice, unless you have very specific questions.

(^_^)

 

[catimann]

I suppose it is like all other relationships and as it comes up a responsible Dom asks what her limits are and what she likes and so on.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think both of you might be helped by the essay linked in my signature. Ask her to read it too. Print it out, if you need to

 

[amofiga]

There are many books and other articles. You can even Google BDSM and learn things. What's important to remember is that there are many levels and variants of what many people call "BDSM". Some is much milder than others which can be quite sado-masochistic. It's up to you to determine together what you are BOTH comfortable with. I had a relationship years ago that ended because she was much higher on the scale of S/M than I felt comfortable with. Depending on where she is in the journey, you might want to start slow with some relatively mild bondage, spanking, flogging, tickling torture, mild humiliation and see how it feels. It's a lot easier to work up than over shoot and feel uncomfortable. A D/S relationship can be 24/7 in virtually every aspect of your life or it can be limited to playtime. These are the things you need to discuss and define. Good luck