Dom seeks female sub for a "FTLOAS"-style relationship

PacificCoast

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I am a 42 year old male Dom living in the Pacific Northwest seeking a submissive woman with whom to have a long-term relationship. A local submissive would be best, but I am open to a long-distance relationship.

The best shorthand way to describe the relationship I seek is to refer to the blog, For the Love of a Submissive, which can be found here: http://fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com/
This is not my blog and I do not know its author, but this blog best articulates the life I desire.

For those unfamiliar with this blog, I will try to convey the essence of what I seek in a D/s relationship. What I desire to be is a loving, sensual Dom, on the gentler end of the BDSM spectrum. For me, the emotional and mental aspects of the D/s relationship are as important as the physical.

I am seeking a woman willing to commit a great deal of time to our relationship. Because I am seeking a genuine connection with someone, I expect that it would take many weeks and most likely months for a relationship to develop. It will take a lot of communication in order for us to truly get to know and trust each other before we could commit to a D/s relationship. I believe that submission, true submission, must be earned. It is a gift for her to give, not something I can demand from her.

I am an intelligent and highly educated man and seek the same in a woman. For me the greatest achievement in my life would be to earn the submission of an intelligent, strong, independent woman.

There is a lot more I could say about myself, my ideal submissive, and the relationship I seek. I invite any submissive woman who would like to know more to message me. I would love to get to know you and talk about the D/s dynamic. You can also explore the FTLOAS website, as again, it speaks so well to the relationship and the sort of woman I desire.
 
Hi

I read the blog....one of the most honest and completely right on the point things I have read in a long time....was wondering where exactly you are located... :)
 
In a public post I prefer not to be more specific than "Pacific Northwest." Should we communicate through private messages I will get more specific.
 
Giving my personals ad a little bump. Seeking a genuine relationship seems to be a rather uncommon motivation for those on this site, but I hope this ad will catch the attention of a like-minded young woman soon.
 
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