Dom Seeking Sub (closed for slutindianwife)

[DominationSoul]

Jonas Watkins' 35th birthday was days away, and he hated it. He'd made so many plans for what he'd accomplish by 35, and most of his plans had failed.

His biggest success was in the stock market. He'd made a killing, but money didn't make him happy. He'd wanted to be a lawyer but failed the bar exam, which was just as well because he hated lawyers. His father was a successful lawyer and pressured him to study law; he could never say no to his father. Now, that his father was dead, his opinion no longer mattered.

Ten years earlier he started going to BDSM events and found a mentor: Master Jarvis. With Master Jarvis' instruction, he had found his purpose in domination. He'd found a sub, Maria, and they were a perfect fit. When she'd died 18 months earlier, his world had come to an end. What was life without Maria?

Jonas' days, now, were for the most part as dull as a knife used to chop down a tree. He was ready to try again for a life with a sub, but the hard part was finding a sub, which he thought would be easy.

After three months, even with Master Jarvis' help, he'd not found a sub that he felt comfortable with. Master Jarvis said that placing an ad was like a shot in the dark, but Jonas had run out of ideas and decided to take a chance.

He placed an ad with an online BDSM site and put it in the newspaper as well. The ad read:

Experienced Dominant seeks a submissive for a life time relationship. If you are serious about submission, please respond to my ad. Thank you.

 

[slutindianwife]

Sitting in my office, at the end of my Saturday workday – and the end of what had been a long and tiring week, I see an ad in a BDSM forum I had been trolling for many months now.

I was curious about BDSM and had even responded to a couple of ads. But to my shock and disgust, the men (If they could even be called that!) in these forums, were nothing but impotent psychos, who could not get ‘it’ up and so they would resort to getting pleasure from torturing women.

I hated these maniacs.

I read the ad, it sounded a bit different, I wondered, should I reply?

I decided to reply.

I typed…

Hi,
I am interested in your ad, could you please tell me more?
Thank you.

 

[DominationSoul]

Thank you for your quick response. My name is Jonas Watkins. I'm 35. I do not work at a regular job; I invest in various companies. I first became interested in BDSM about ten years ago and was mentored by Master Jarvis. I've had one long term submissive relationship. Her name was Maria. We had seven and a half years together; sadly, she died of cancer 18 months ago. Honestly, I'm still struggling with her absence, but I truly want to find another life partner/sub.

Please tell me about yourself. Thanks.

 

[slutindianwife]

I sat back after reading it, thinking,
“Well, at least he sounds nice!”
And then my brain reacted,
“Huh? Nice? Are you nutz? Ted Bundy was also nice!”

Nervously, I typed out an answer.

Hello, good to hear from you.
What would you like to know about me?
Regards.

 

[DominationSoul]

“You can start with your name and what you feel comfortable in sharing of your life.

Also, tell me about your submission. What does it mean to you?

 

[slutindianwife]

Nikki is my name.
You ask me things, I will share them with you, if I can.
I am new to this and have no idea of this kind of thing!
Regards.

 

[DominationSoul]

Hi, Nikki, pleased to meet you.

New is okay. This is a good site to start for info.

https://brian618.whyayh.com/mirror/bdsmlearningcenter/basics/intro_to_bdsm.html

What have you heard about submissives – positive or negative?

 

[slutindianwife]

Okay, I will see that later.
I have mixed feelings on the subject.
As I said, I am new.

 

[DominationSoul]

Are there situations in your life where you want to be submissive? If so, how do you feel about that?

 

[slutindianwife]

I blush and answer,
Well, to be honest, I like to be submissive in bed!
In my mind I think of the times I have been submissive in bed!


http://25.media.tumblr.com/b14ef8c74e362cfcff351bebecaa0999/tumblr_miicr8lKMn1rq6vz1o1_r1_400.gif

 

[DominationSoul]

“Okay, so you like it when the other person is in control? In what ways do you like to be controlled: told what to do? Some form of bondage?

 

[slutindianwife]

I just love to be fucked, hard!
I reply, blushing.

 

[DominationSoul]

Knowing what you want and need is excellent. Is a hard fuck all you need? Does a sensual touch of fingers in your pussy turn you on? How does a pinch of your nipples make you feel?

 

[slutindianwife]

I need many things,
Cars, gold, jewelry, a million bucks, lol!
But I see what you mean.
Yes, I need a hard fuck!
I also like my choot (cunt!) fingered, dildoed and licked!
A gentle pinch to my nipps is fine, not hard!

 

[DominationSoul]

Yes, we all want certain things, but need is like air to breathe, and from what you are saying, a hard fuck is like breathing air.

For a dom, knowing what you need is important. Do you need to finger fuck yourself, now?

 

[slutindianwife]

No I am at work and I am tired after working all week.

 

[DominationSoul]

I understand that. Do you have someone who takes care of what you need?

 

[slutindianwife]

What needs are you referring to?

 

[DominationSoul]

The needs of your body, mind, and spirit. Yes, you need a hard fuck, but you also need peace of mind, and a joyful spirit.

Kind words spoken from the heart
can start juices flowing even when apart.
A touch of loving fingers
in your mind a long while lingers.
There is joy in a smile with a kiss
that sends you to a place of bliss.

 

[slutindianwife]

Don’t mind me saying this, but I am not into philosophical BS!
You put an ad, I replied.
Now tell me more about the ad and what you seek.

 

[DominationSoul]

Honest communication is important, so I don't mind your expression of your opinion.

I seek a relationship where I am the dominant, and the woman is a submissive. What matters to me is a depth of relationship. I want a woman who is constantly on my mind, who I truly can't live without her constantly in my life. I want a woman who knows her value is beyond anything that can be given her, who knows her submission does not make her weak. She is submissive by choice. She gives from the heart and expects love and respect for all she gives.

“I may never find what I seek, but I am stubborn and will not give up until I find the sub who needs me as much as I need her.”

 

[slutindianwife]

I reply,
Sounds like you need a wife.

 

[DominationSoul]

In many ways a committed Dom and sub are similar to a marriage. Although Maria and I never married, we lived together, and our commitment was like that of husband and wife. She had a collar in place of a wedding ring.

 

[slutindianwife]

You can be sure I will not wear any collar!
You can get a dog for that!
Or a tiger for that matter!

 

[DominationSoul]

Chuckling. It is up to the individual. There is nothing that says a submissive must wear a collar. What's important is the attitude of the hearts of both people; they should both have a desire to be the best they can be for the other person.