Dom/me "Thought of the Day" calendar

[Mr Blonde]

I am the sort of guy who does not remember to buy a calendar until Valentine's Day. And then I would get lazy and forget to maintain it.

Remember those page-a-day calendars? Other people would get ahead of schedule and read all the pages months in advance. Not me. I would neglect my calendar for a few weeks before finally remembering to tear off a chunk of pages. It was sad.

So this is my Dom/me "Thought of the Day" calendar. Pretend it is one of those page-a-day things filled with witty words of wisdom. If I get hopelessly behind, people are free to stand in for me. Just steal a quote or nuggets of knowledge from a dom/me who posts in this forum.

Okay, here we go....

[Edit: Click here if you want to read the Submissive "Thought of the Day" Calendar by niteshade.]

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 1

I think my philosophy revovles around expressing fun, discovering the inner capabilities, exploring limits, pushing intensity, and having everyone coming out feeling amazed, stunned, fulfilled.

--FungiUg

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 2

BUT thank the lucky stars I graduated into the hot quirky steaming kalidascope of erotic pleasure I can only get from drawing screams from gagged mouths and tears of endurance from blindfolded eyes.

--Shadowsdream

 

[Mr Blonde]

Yes, this is gonna do wonders for my post count!

Maybe I will become a Literatica Guru sometime this year...maybe?

 

[MissTaken]

What an incredible idea for a thread!

I wonder of there is anyone out there who would be interested in doing a "Submissive Thought of the Day" Calander!

 

[redelicious]

January 3

Since no one has posted yet....



Call it finesse or patience or subtle dominance or whatever. I relate it to playing a guitar. If you stroke the strings gently, you'll get a hell of a lot more out of the instrument. If you continue to bang away at the strings, sooner or later they're going to start to break.

--Soron on Finesse, September 2002

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=112294




*edit for link*

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 4

Ebonyfire: "Johnny, I doubt if I would find you shopping at the Walmart. LOL"

Johnny Mayberry: "You never can tell...3 am, I need a jumbo-sized box of condoms, 16 feet of chain, a wicker chair, and a duck decoy, where else am I going to go?"

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 5

What stands out to me is the way that every person moves along an arc of impenetrability to vulnerability in their own unique and beautiful, stirring way.

--Netzach

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 6

If I for one want to have sex with firm flesh that is mindless and willing, I can always just reach down and take matters into my own hands. I seek a sub who brings depth and texture, who's spirit will stand the stress of being trained but not broken.

--SaltydogNH

 

[niteshade]

This is sooo great!

 

[niteshade]

I liked it so much, I stole it. How is that for a compliment???

 

[Mr Blonde]

Originally posted by niteshade
I liked it so much, I stole it. How is that for a compliment???

I think a submissive calendar will be great! There are many articulate submissives in this forum so you will have some good material to work with.

Anyone can add entries but please keep them sequential just like redelicious did a few posts ago!

And nevermind me....I will try to work a few days in advance because I am not an everyday poster and commonly disappear for a week here or there.

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 7

I am as subtle as a Black Widow Spider eating Her mate! I am demanding and almost impossible. I take this lifestyle incredibly seriously...because it is My passion. Yet I do not feel that the depth of My seriousness makes Me any more of a kinkster than tomorrows newbie.

--Shadowsdream

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 8

The scales of give and take are very important to keep balanced, both feeling they contribute. As a Dom who only thinks of himself doesn't have a sub just a shell of a woman he has sucked dry. If it's a true relationship love should be involved in every decision.

--snoozebutton link

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 9

I love the control I have over a submissive. I love that I can say things that will make her wet and make her shiver. I love that I can keep my control when she can not, and I can make her beg and plead for sexual releif and I just want to take it further. I can whisper little nasty mental things into her ear that cause her to go over the edge and she loves it. I love that she loves it. A matched set!

--DVS link

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I'm just so proud that I made the calendar!!!

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 10

I do agree that in a D/s relationship both should learn and grow from the other and so i like a sub who can challenge and discuss ideas with me. For me a D/s relaionship is a deeply spirtual and emotional one, there is a connection between a good Dom and sub that is magical and powerful. Yet there is nothing wrong with using BDSM play just for a sexual kick either. BDSM has helped me on my spirtual journey and taught me much about myself but i always remeber that i was not alone in that journey.

--ImmortaleAmante link

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 11

Humiliation exercises are all about reducing pride and subborness. They are NOT about breaking a person's will or spirit, or making them feel worthless...it is about breaking down barriers that hinder growth as a human being. Otherwise, it is degradation, and that is not something I engage in.

--Johnny Mayberry link

 

[Mr Blonde]

Uh oh, is it time to panic?

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 12

I put a great deal of thought and preparation into most scenes. I want to make sure I hit all the buttons I am trying to hit. I want her breathless and shaking by the end.

--Gentle_Deviant link

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 13

Spreader bars. Don't leave home without them.

--WriterDom link

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 14

I am perfectly capable of getting laid without resorting to donning black leather 6" heels, and wielding a flogger! And at my age, I have had plenty of hunk dick, and can stand to have other interests. Unless a male has two dicks, I think he had better come toward me with better credentials. If you do not want to serve, then go away and play elsewhere.

--Ebonyfire

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 15

In the old days...there was little that was open to discusion. You [either] were or you were not. ...Doms were well trained before they were let "loose". A submissive...gave herself fully but was able to keeep her pride [and] her core. A dom treated his submissive as the most valuable piece of property he owned.

--Richard49 link

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 16

Regarding misconceptions of 24/7 relationships!

I have this image of a horrendously weary, red-eyed guy occupying an armchair, flogger in hand, while his "slave" snoozes on her floor pallet, her delicate wrists artistically chained to the wall. Every time he nods off or gets up to use the can or eat, she pops an eyelid open and gives him a look of woeful recrimination, as if she were a newborn baby whose parents had just abandoned her in a dumpster. He sighs and sits down again.

--Madame Manga link

 

[Mr Blonde]

January 17

Work stress, money problems, all of this impacts how my sub feels and behaves sexually to a great degree...that's human nature, but with submissives, you have to be careful that submission doesn't reinforce self-doubt at fragile times.

--Netzach link