Does your significant other come to Lit?

[Kim_Burly]

Last Saturday morning, I mistakenly typed a response to a post here when Sir was logged in to Lit on my computer. Initially, I assumed most peoples SOs log on here, but when I thought about it, I wasn't so sure, so I'm asking: Does your significant other log on here to read what you post? Or to read in general.

I set up an account for Sir, at his "request", for three reasons. One, so he could keeps tabs on my blabber mouth. So he can learn what I want, what I thinks he wants or whatever. Lastly, he has a "sensitive" job, so he is obsessed with "opsec" (privacy).

All in all, it benefits me immensely, he reads what I say about what my former Dom and I did and if it piques his interest, it will show up in his repertoire . He also gathers intelligence on me, which almost always end well for yours truly. It does also get me some time outs now and then and once a pretty brisk caning :caning: for TMI (I know what you're thinking). He is always surprising me with new methods of torture and humiliation , but I'm pretty sure he has gotten an idea or two here.

So how about everyone else? For those who have lovers that come here does it help with communication? Has it every gone badly?

 

[graceanne]

I sincerely doubt it. He thinks forums are obnoxious, he trust me, and he doesn't care that much. (Notice I put and, not or - it's a combo of all three.)

 

[celestialdragon]

I know that he reads the stories on lit, but I know he doesn't have an account besides, he wouldn't come to this section.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Yes, she does, though she's not as prolific here as I am. She works a lot more than I do, and has less time to hang around here and harass people.

 

[BiBunny]

My ex used to come on here and read my posts. He thought I didn't know, but he was not exactly what you'd call subtle.

Honestly, I wouldn't be at all surprised if he still reads them. Not that I give a shit.

 

[leighannste17]

I had a master at 17 years old. It's legal in the state of texas to experiment inside your own homes.

But I tried his dirty fantasies, and I liked it. Now your my bitch tonight honey.

What I told him was, "You are so fucking sexy naked." And then I logged off date hook ups, and came back on here.

It was fun.

 

[leighannste17]

I had a master at 17 years old. It's legal in the state of texas to experiment inside your own homes.

But I tried his dirty fantasies, and I liked it. Now your my bitch tonight honey.

What I told him today was, "You are so fucking sexy naked." And then I logged off date hook ups, and came back on here.

It was fun.

Guess what he did, he screwed me up. on Literotica. Oh well, next.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Nope, hubby isn't interested. I'd like him to join fetlife though.

My Dom has an account here though hasn't been here since we met.

 

[ecstaticsub]

My Dominant has an account here but hasn't been active for years. My husband has read the stories on Lit but has never come to this forum. Both though are active on Fet.

 

[IrisAlthea]

Yes, but mostly not to the BDSM-boards.
We don't interact very much on here except for a PM with a link and a "You might like this" now and then.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Yes, she likes to stalk me on here.

 

[midwestyankee]

No ...

 

[blulilacgrl]

Yes. But they never come here. So I am free to goof off as much as I like.

 

[Kim_Burly]

Yes. But they never come here. So I am free to goof off as much as I like.

I would say lucky you, but for us, it has been a net positive. It has also helped our communication. Now when he asks what I want, I will describe it in great detail. Granted my face is red and I can't look at him when I say it, but when we first met, I couldn't even be in the same room as he read alist of what my wants, desires and "limits" were. I think I have grown a lot in the last 6 months and lit has been crucial part of that .

 

[luvnmyboys]

Yes he does. It has gone badly before also. there is a learning curve to figuring out what works in a relationship when trying something new.

 

[blulilacgrl]

I would say lucky you, but for us, it has been a net positive. It has also helped our communication. Now when he asks what I want, I will describe it in great detail. Granted my face is red and I can't look at him when I say it, but when we first met, I couldn't even be in the same room as he read alist of what my wants, desires and "limits" were. I think I have grown a lot in the last 6 months and lit has been crucial part of that .

Well, they will sometimes come here and lurk, I think. But luckily they know me really well and get that I am a goofball at heart.

 

[collector_guide]

Not yet

My wife and I have been active in bdsm for years, though very amateurish, just what we enjoy at home. Though getting more full time around the house has greatly helped the marriage. We're slowly adding steps like sites like this, looking for punches and looking to explore her 'alpha slave' fantasies with another girl. So if this place seems nice I intend to bring her in.

 

[JustMi]

Nope...and I'm sure he wouldn't approve of my being on here

 

[nh23]

On occasion. He's in my siggy

 

[southern_gal]

We have read stories together for years. When we look at the forums it's without me being signed in. He knows I have joined the forums but has little interest in what I chat about. That or at least he is being coy or respecting my privacy. I give him the same on his laptop. He looks at porn and I don't get all torn up about it. We do enjoy the stories and some of the threads.

 

[desertslave]

Master spends a LOT more time on here than I do. I tend to hang out on FB and my artists' forum because I have a wide variety of friends and interests. (And I keep finding the oddest crossovers of friends on FB, cracks me up when I think someone is in one 'slot' and they turn up elsewhere.)

Our relationship seems to have faltered and it's often rather painful to be here, for me. It feels like a phantom limb. I miss participating but most days it's just too hard.

 

[KoPilot]

Only when I link him to things I think he'd find interesting.

 

[Netzach]

Never, hates forums, grudgingly goes onto car-related ones only.

Real girly, huh?

 

[kimuk]

My Dom has an acount here. He stops by to read what I have written. Says it helps him understand how i'm thinking athough I'm as easy to read a quantum physics ( have to keep em on their toes ). But he rearly posts

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

He knows that I am here but shows little interest.
I have linked stories to him and tell him about interesting discussions, but nope.