does your s/o know when you masturbate?

[fredrock]

So how many people share when they masturbate?
I wouldnt expect to share everytime....but does anyone share that info?
Guys how hot would it be to get a call or email from you s/o informing you they were jilling off?
Ladie do you even want to know?

 

[Beck31]

I think it really depends on the situation. Masturbating is such a private act in many ways. It is nice to know that someone is turned on by you enough that they would share an intimate practice. Of course that is just an opinion

 

[85bird]

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[jakereeder22]

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[fredrock]

i know right....

I don't know about you and your experiences, but I have been with a few previous partners that thought male masturbation was not attractive and didnt want to hear anything about it. That being said, when things have cooled off in a relationship and the sex frequency has decreased substantially or stopped for a portion of time, I have often wondered how things might change if I either told my previous or current partners every time I masturbated, or if I actually just would make it a point to masturbate in front of them each time. I would be curious about how women would feel about this too.

Do women want to know?.

 

[screwher]

My wife and I have different work hours. She's generally not home when I'm pulling one off and we don't really discuss it.

On occasion self pleasuring is part of our sex life together. Sometimes after fore play and some oral action we'll for go the traditional vaginal/anal penetration sex and end up lying side by side master bating until we come together.

It's really hot.

 

[big9000]

Do women want to know?.

she knows, or rather knows since i always get off when she is away from home i think women want to know most things that happen anywhere.

 

[fredrock]

bump

Shameless. I know.

 

[Biker_Type]

only if she catches me, or asks me to, or wants us to do it together.​

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

Almost never. It's my own pleasure.

 

[Cycle Tom]

Very rarely. On a couple of occasions when she caught me, she either watched or took over.

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

What does she think you're masterbating to?

 

[xoxoalice]

I never tell him, it's one of the only things I have left to myself in the relationship. Plus I get to fantasize about the things he won't do or doesn't like doing..

 

[Beck31]

I'm fairly certain that she knows. Especially if we are apart for the day and chatting via FB.The funny thing is neither of us actually mention the act by name.

 

[JustAGoodGirl]

*****

 

[the_kingslayer]

I'm sure she knows but she ignores it. She doesn't really like it when I do but we have such different sex drives that it is kind of hard not to.

 

[fredrock]

hot!!

He does if I'm in bed next to him or if I'm doing it for him to watch.

That is so hot!!!

 

[looking34205]

He does if I'm in bed next to him or if I'm doing it for him to watch.

when we are having sex and it takes forever to finish and she cums a few times, she will ask did you jerk off today? I nod.

 

[ilik269]

she has a very good idea, she knows i am always ready to get a nut but i always make sure i am ready to please her!! she loves long slow sessions starting out with my tounge, damn this is making me horny lol

 

[GoodbyeGirl]

I don't share when I do, and I frankly don't want to know when he does either. Sad, but true.

 

[Blazexx]

I'm sure hubby is aware. Just chooses not to discuss it.

 

[fredrock]

good point

I never tell him, it's one of the only things I have left to myself in the relationship. Plus I get to fantasize about the things he won't do or doesn't like doing..

I can see that point of view...
Can it spark some fun if you include your spouse somehow? Once in a while?

 

[xoxoalice]

I can see that point of view...
Can it spark some fun if you include your spouse somehow? Once in a while?

We've tried it before, I love to put on a show, but he doesn't seem very interested.. He usually leaves before I finish.. He gives me a kiss but tells me he's gonna give me some privacy.. So it's become a private thing. *shrug*

 

[Titman69x]

We've tried it before, I love to put on a show, but he doesn't seem very interested.. He usually leaves before I finish.. He gives me a kiss but tells me he's gonna give me some privacy.. So it's become a private thing. *shrug*

I find it incredibly hot and I would love for my wife to do that.

 

[xoxoalice]

I find it incredibly hot and I would love for my wife to do that.

It's so fun! I just wish he felt that way!! He likes very vanilla sex though so it's not to surprising I guess that he's not feeling it