Does your partner know you’re here?

Tomr2527

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I’m not judgemental in any way - just curious as to how many people on here have partners? And if you do, do they know you use this site?

Tom
 
I’m not judgemental in any way - just curious as to how many people on here have partners? And if you do, do they know you use this site?

Tom

I'm married and my husband knows I come here. He's happy for me to do so. We have an open relationship and swing.
 
Suzy your lucky your hubby knows an you have a pretty open relationship sounds like. My wife be so damn pissed off she knew I was on here. Maybe if she wasnt so much a prude things be better at my house. Suzy lovely pictures of you in your profile mmmmm
 
Hubby travels so much he wouldn’t even care, I don’t judge him for his browser history and he wouldn’t judge me
 
Interesting cross section from lots of different people on here! I had wrongly assumed it was all kept a secret, guess that will teach me not to assume!
 
Fuck no. My girlfriend doesn't even know I come in here, why would I tell my wife!
 
No he doesn’t... and I don’t feel the slightest twinge of guilt but then I am not looking for additional partners, virtual or otherwise... I just have a mad urge to share sometimes, and lit has oddly kept me a little sane...
 
Yes, and my wife & I want to find a fun lady to be our third, or to provide anal sex for me. Hunting for a unicorn, I know, but you miss 100% of the shots you do not take.
 
This is a difficult one to answer for me. My husband doesn’t know that I’m here... at least not that he’s let on about. I know that he occasionally looks in (the last time seems to be this past February), so there is a possibility he has seen my posts and knows I am here. Either way, I don’t think it would bother him that I am here and I think he would understand why I haven’t come out and told him... it’s one of the only things I keep any kind of “secret” about from him because I want to be able to feel like I can say anything I feel like without sensoring for him.

Daddy is here and probably reading this... so *blows Him kisses all cheesy-like*
 
My wife doesn’t specifically know, but she knows I what porn on phone as the sound linked up to her Bluetooth speaker one day and the sound came through her speaker,lol. She wasn’t buying that it was coning from the neighers. She’s just doesn’t have a sex drive and does t have have an interest in exploring her deepest hidden desires, so I explore mine on here.
 
No, he does not. But we're separated so I don't think he would care. Though it could be awkward if we ran into each other here. 🤣🤣🤣
 
Nope!

The old lady is extremely jealous even though we’ve had threesomes in the past lmfao. We constantly talking about adding another girl in the mix too. On the other hand my girlfriend wouldn’t give one flying you know what lmfao she’s super open an into it. Love this site an the community!
 
Hubby knows. Many times he's my sounding board for what I post in my personal threads. He doesn't mind that I come here as long as time spent on here doesn't interfere with our time spent together. Which seems fair enough to me

I will say that when I first joined I didn't tell him. It took me almost a year to work up the courage to say "so I've been active on an erotica site." Lol. At the time it was primarily to get some help on writing. But then I discovered the forums and that all kind of changed. So maybe he didn't mind because he was aware of how I came to be on this site.
 
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Yes, he knows I’m on here. I refuse to lie about it or omit. They will eventually find out, so I think it’s best to be upfront.
 
Yes, he knows I’m on here. I refuse to lie about it or omit. They will eventually find out, so I think it’s best to be upfront.

Did you agree before you signed up or afterwards? Curious as to the conversation you had with him :)
 
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