Does size matter?

[Guest]

No, the subject isn't what you think! I was just interested in finding out what men look at when they see a woman. Is it that she is nice and lean, or maybe that she has a great smile and personality. I am asking because I am not an overly large woman, but I am not small either. My husband finds me very attractive and sexy, but I have trouble accepting my body the way it is. I have no previous experiences with men to go by as my husband was my first and only lover. If you can give me a little more insight on how men think, I would really appreciate it. Serious replies only please. THANK YOU!

 

[Weird Harold]

Proportion matters

Size doesn't matter to me unless it is in the circus sideshow category.

Proportion -- how well all of the parts fit together -- is what matters to me. The classic "golden age" standard of 36-24-36 suits me just fine, but I don't carry a tape measure around to find perfection either.

 

[Weird Harold]

PS

My husband finds me very attractive and sexy, but I have trouble accepting my body the way it is. I have no previous experiences with men to go by as my husband was my first and only lover.

If you've found the man who thinks you're perfect, then whay on earth would you care about what other men think?

 

[NewEnglandBBW]

I think that everyone likes different things, and it all depends on what your lover likes. Obviously, he likes you, and that's what counts!
I AM an large woman, though I've lost 70 pounds recently, I'm a long way from lean (never have been close!). A lot of men like larger women, and it's taken me a very long time to accept my body, but once I did, I have learned to enjoy it a great deal. I've been with several men lately who just love everything about me. I've been called soft, cuddly, and more. It's a great turn on to me, and has helped me become more able to express myself sexually.
So, no, it doesn't matter, as long as your partner enjoys you.. And, more importantly, that you enjoy yourself. Relax, enjoy, and focus on what you enjoy, and you'll be more comfortable with yourself!

 

[Guest]

Thanks for the replies!

Weird Harold, it isn't that i am worried about what other men think of me and how I look, I am just trying to learn how to accept the way I am.


NewEnglandBBW, thank you for your reply. It has made me feel better somewhat. I think it is just something I have to deal with. That is great that you have been able to lose 70 lbs! What is the secret? He does enjoy me tremendously and tells me I am sexy, it is just a matter of me believing it.

Thanks!

 

[P. B. Walker]

My opinion...

I think it depends on the person. Everyone has different preferences. Some do not care about size. Others do. For every woman you see that says they do not care about the size of a man's penis, there is probably another woman that says she does care. Same applies to men, some like large women, some like tiny women, some like athletic women. I don't think there is any "right" answer to this.

The IMPORTANT thing is: Do YOU feel good about your body and yourself? If you do... then other peoples preferences don't really matter.

again, just my humble opinion.

- PBW

 

[J.B.]

I agree with NewEngland... Be proud of yourself no matter what size you are ... right now I'm a size 12 & though that sounds like a huge size (especially when compared to my sister who's a size 3) I'm ok with how I look & my BF likes me just fine... now if this is a huge issue with you you can work & lose the weight you want to lose. But remeber this; people come in all different styles & we're never realy truly happy with our looks .. so if it's not your body, it's your, face, or your hair, or- well you get my point.