Does size "matter"?

[theblackthought]

I am sure this poll has occured in this forum before- but I am new and haven't seen it. So, I ask all who are willing to grant me/us their wisdom: Does the size of the ship or the motion of the ocean mean more?

 

[VanB]

Smiling

Reading most of the posts here where the size of a guy's cock is referred to you would believe that everyone has an *enormous* cock; so maybe the poll should be "ladies, how do you cope with all the large cocks out there?" or "guys - be honest are you hung like an elephant, a stallion or do you have a tiny 12" tallywhacker?"

 

[theblackthought]

the nail said "ouch!"

You are defintiely right about that. I guess that some people like to live the fantasy, but I just want to know the truth. I have been living a conundrum and I want to get to the bottom of the fallacy...

 

[VanB]

Maybe we should start a poll about how big (for that read small) it *really* is and everyone can log on as "unregistered" to tell the truth!

 

[theblackthought]

hmmm.....

The problem with that is that it would only be truthful if they posetd pics as well. I am not a small guy; I actually end up on the very large side of the spectrum- but I don't tell women to brag. I am upfront about it as a warning. The reason I started this poll is because guys are told "bigger is better", but then I specifically get the contradiction form a number of women that "you're too big"...

 

[VanB]

Well, I guess I'm unusual in that I've never bothered to measure my best friend but if you get any responses to the poll they'll probably be consistant with my experience to date which is: 8 out of 10 pussies had no complaints (some pussy owners even said positive things ) of the 2 out of 10 that had a complaint they were equally divided between too large and too small.

As they say in the USA - Go figure!

 

[charlien]

I remember a party in college...

...and hearing a lady friend of mine say through a closed bedroom door, "Your're crazy if you think I'm going to let you put that thing in me!" She later told me it must have been a foot long. I suspect a bit of exageration here, but obviously it was more than she cared to try.

I'm very average in the dick department, 5 1/2" to 6" depending on many variables. Happy with it too. A lady I lived with for many years said she "liked" the feel of my cock in her butt. Said too her former husband was better endowed than I physically, but lacked in the finesse department and was simply too selfish to be a good lover.

Had another lady tell me my cock was "beautiful", I'd never thought of it in that way, took it as a sincere compliment though. Said too that size was relatively unimportant so long as there was enough there to penetrate properly without causing discomfort. Told me of a lover she had, an Adonis type but his cock hard measured only about 3 1/2", just not enough. Then there was the guy she'd only do if she were on top and could control the depth of penetration.

Well enough of a ramble...

charlie

 

[VanB]

Come on ladies - this thread is aimed at you let's have some of your thoughts. Maybe an old chestnut but nevertheless interesting and you can tell the truth ......... we can take it.

Maybe!

 

[Lady Damona]

the truth

This lady will tell you the truth. . .size is really inconsequential if you don't know how to use it. The best lover I ever had was moderately endowed, but could work wonders with it as well as his hands and tongue. . .gives me the shivers just thinking about it.

 

[OLIEOGRE]

well I for one am honest about the size issue. If mine was any bigger it would be a zit on my ass. Or lets see it may not be very big around but it sure is short. Hmmm ah yes I may not be able to hit the bottom but I can sure beat the hell out of the sides

 

[VanB]

Thanks, Lady Damona and I think most women would say exactly the same as you did. Who cares about the size of a guy's cock if he has an 8" tongue, likes to use it and can breathe through his ears, huh?!

 

[Lady Damona]

Thanks, Lady Damona and I think most women would say exactly the same as you did. Who cares about the size of a guy's cock if he has an 8" tongue, likes to use it and can breathe through his ears, huh?!

Where is he and how do I meet him???????

 

[VanB]

I wish I could introduce you to him but the distances are too great.

 

[Lady Damona]

:sigh: I always miss out on the good stuff.

 

[lovetoread]

To me size (unless it is huge,but thats another post) doesnt matter as long as it fills you and makes you complete.

You can have a man with a smaller than average size just blow you away and make you come till you pass out, and have a man with a foot long dick that cant make you come at all.

And vice versa.

If you dont know how to use what you have,meaning dick,hands,tongue,etc...than you are not ever going to be a good lover.

Use what you have and be damned good at it,and size will never be a factor at all.

 

[LordMagicMan]

*takes notes*

 

[Zidane]

I'd assume quality over quantity is what counts in this matter.

 

[MidnightAngel]

Hmmmm. Well, the ability to satisy IS the most important issue. In other words, "It's not what you've got, it's how you use it". Ok, having said that.......

My lover is, um, "above average" (11 inches). I've obviously gotten really spoiled with him, because sex with him is more pleasurable than anyone I've ever been with. Now, that could be because of his size, or it COULD be because he's very good with what he's got.

Let me do some more research, and I'll get back to you.......

 

[Sienna]

Size is not important to me as long as it works!..........some experienced men can get really good with how they use small ones I have noticed, as they have adapted the best ways to please with it.

However, the larger guys are really cool......to look at as well as use it.....they have this fantastic "showpiece" that can really make you wet by just LOOKING at it...... the way it is tight and hard and throbing and.....

No size doesn't matter

 

[alltherage]

It matters most if it matters to the man. Insecurity about size can lead to lack of confidence which leads to lousy sex. If a guy is too confident it is equally bad. If he believes because he is huge that all he need do is show up its a disaster.

 

[Sienna]

It matters most if it matters to the man. Insecurity about size can lead to lack of confidence which leads to lousy sex. If a guy is too confident it is equally bad. If he believes because he is huge that all he need do is show up its a disaster.

Thats right!........hence that pre-sex question sometimes that starts usually with......"OK be honest with me.....WHAT DO YOU THINK OF IT?"

 

[alltherage]

LOL. Just say, "babe you could use a little trim. off the top." Like to see that reaction.

 

[Sienna]

............or

"Does that thing have a cage? Only it looks really WILD! to be set free without an experienced handler"

LOL!........try that one......it gets a lot of awesome responses from the OWNERS.

 

[Zidane]

I'm actually enjoying reading the responses on this thread, basically because I get some insight to the female psyche concerning this issue and second, because its plain funny to hear your opinions. Please, do go on.

 

[Guest]

BIGGER Is Better!!

Size Doesnt Matter But it sure Helps!!!