does size matter to you ladies

footy

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Hi ,
I just wondered if size does matter to you sexy ladies or is it quality. The problem I have is the fact that my cock is 10" long and it has caused me many problems in the past. I'm a good lover who prides himself in pleasing ladies desires, but most of the ladies I meet seem to be afraid of my size and I just end up with them stroking it.
So, are you afraid of big men or does size matter to you--let me know, I would love to experience proper sex for a change.
 
IMO, if you take the time to get a woman ready for sex, they won't mind at all that you've got 10 inches.

I've had a lover who was a little larger than that. When I was younger (17-20?), it did hurt once in a while; I guess cause we weren't really experienced enough to know how to make it more enjoyable.

But now? Oh, not a problem! :D You'll find someone who appreciates your "attributes" ;)
 
sure be noble in front of friends or other people and put yourself in the good light by saying it doesn't matter. But in real life, its just the opposite and it does matter. Many of my friends and me (almost got burned) got slammed by girls who said it didn't matter then when it came down to it, blew them off because of the size. (too small.) Its a load of crap.
 
One of my favorites:
It's not the size of the wave but the motion of the ocean.

Although I believe this is mostly meant for below average size I think the same could be said for above average.

An inexperienced person would probable be intimidated. But to be honest I think that just as men come in all sizes, so do women. It may just be a matter of meeting your match.:)
 
I don't know that I agree.

My s/o is very large. Sometimes painful, but I kind of like painful sometimes:devil: . We've been together 10 years. During that ten years I had an affair with a man who was smaller than average. To make a long story short ;) , I had some of the best orgasms of my life with the little guy.

Go figure!
 
think of it this way, some people 'think' they can handle more and as such, 'think' they can do better with another guy.
 
To Zidane

I don't doubt what you say. But wonder if it would be totally about size. After all, no two are alike.

It sounds like, in your experience, size is a big difference to the women...this gives me something to think about. I've always thought (although I'm not sure where the idea came from) that it was men that were hung up on size.

Personally, if i could just close my eyes...or better yet be blindfolded...;) I would love to be surprised each and every time. Technique (and attitude) to me is what it's all about. And that technique must match mine, as well. I think that's were the magical sparks come from!
 
sortacurious said:

It's not the size of the wave but the motion of the ocean.
Great quote :)

Footy, just learn what position is comfortable for a woman so you are not gonna bruise her curvix :)
 
Technique

Size is not nearly a important as technique. That "motion of the ocean" (Great Quote).

However, if I must choose between two talented lovers, I'll ALWAYS go with the bigger dick!

But then, I'm the Lit. SLUT!!!
 
Size really doesn't matter. It's how it's used that counts!! My lover has 6" and makes me cum over and over. However, I am curious what 10" would feel like. Fan-fucking-tastic I bet!
 
Suzie Q said:
Size really doesn't matter. It's how it's used that counts!! My lover has 6" and makes me cum over and over. However, I am curious what 10" would feel like. Fan-fucking-tastic I bet!
Suzie Q: Buy him a 10 inch strap on to try, but then you might never want to go back.
 
As a Large male myself

I have found it more satisfying to me to please her by licking and sucking her pussy.

I enjoy them playing with my cock while I please them.

I don't know what they really want when it comes to how long,

A lot of the ladies that I have been with don't like the length as much as the Style.

Longer has been a bit of a problem at times because when you go in as far as you can, You might not be all the way in.
I have had some great sex with some young ladies where I can't get my dam Dick in all the way because it hurts them.

However if a guy has a fatter cock say 3 or more inches thick, Then she might enjoy the fuck more.
 
I think a large cock is sexy as hell - I love to look at a large one, but for actual sex, medium to small is perfect. I'm made fairly small, plus the fact that I like anal quite a lot makes me me shy away from the larger cocks for actual penetration. I think watching another woman take a huge cock is highly erotic, though, and I wouldn't mind licking her juices off of it..........hmm!

I just don't want to be split into twin half sisters.
 
Well I have had the opportunity to try out many sizes.....for me medium seems to work best but I am one of those very tight ladies..
Althou I had had my share of larger ones..and 10 I have had..I'm going to say it all depends on the foreplay...once we got things going right it was great but I have also found that using a very good oil made for that purpose does help a lot when first starting...

But large or small>>> I enjoy them all!!!:devil:
 
i think smaller is better in my opinion. i mean big is nice and all but it makes every activity that much more complicated and painful...plus when i see a HUGE dick..all i can think is "no anal for me!"
;)
 
depends on what you want

Are you people shopping for meat or shopping for humans?

If I like the guy, what ever he has in his pants is fine with me. It I want something huge in my pussy, I have the grocery store and the toy store. I have had problems with a guys attitude, but never with the size of his cock.

Sally
 
Hmmmmmmmmm.................

girlincrisis said:
i think smaller is better in my opinion. i mean big is nice and all but it makes every activity that much more complicated and painful...plus when i see a HUGE dick..all i can think is "no anal for me!"
;)


So then, medium to small would be about right for the ladies I take it?


I'm 7 1/2 .............. decent girth................ I remember getting together with a rather petite lady friend a few years back....... and I mean she was a whole lot smaller in stature than I,.......
Yet, when it came down to the act......... she felt like she'd ridden a train all of her youthful years............ "Loose as a goose" doesn't even come close to an accurate description.

On the other hand though, most of the ladies I have had the pleasure to be with have been on the tight and shallow side...... go figure............... But alas.......... As an etremely open minded person when it comes to matters of the groin......... I make do.....

The key word here is "PLEASURE".......................

Say that word thousands of times, and maybe, just maybe, it'll sink in!

Enjoy!
 
Size never matters when you are with someone you love.
Pleasuring is definitely the key word.

soft kisses,
whspr:kiss:
 
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