Does Pain Give Pleasure to some?

[PHANTOM5875]

Here's an interesting topic. A close buddy of mine told me (after many beers) that his wife, to spice up their lovemaking a little, has started biting him (gently) on the head of his penis. He said it made him cum like he hadn't since he was 19 or 20. (We're both middle age roosters.)He said it scared him a little but the pain seems to intensify his pleasure. Is this really unusual or not? To tell you the truth, listening to that story made my little Pepe try to reverse course! He's a little concerned they've gone down a wierd path. Your comments?

PHANTOM

 

[Tuxman]

Pain, in its general sense gives pleasure to a great many, depending upon the pain and the person ... of course. To each their own, as they say.

But consider the many facets of pain ...

is anticipation a form of pain?
Teasing?
Pleasing?
Humiliation?

They may be asymptomatic viz a viz physical pain, but they arouse and inflict a variant of it, no?

TM

 

[*Eve*]

It's very plausible that pleasure can be derived from pain. A little nip here and there in the right places can be a major turn-on, why do you think so many people like being spanked.

 

[Slutgirl]

My husband has a habit of nipping me with his teeth, not too hard, but it gives me a little extra jolt! I also get a much more explosive climax if he is biting my nipples when I cum.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Pain, in its general sense gives pleasure to a great many, depending upon the pain and the person ... of course. To each their own, as they say.

But consider the many facets of pain ...

is anticipation a form of pain?
Teasing?
Pleasing?
Humiliation?

They may be asymptomatic viz a viz physical pain, but they arouse and inflict a variant of it, no?

TM

These are interesting questions that I've wondered about myself. I've wondered why there are women out there who orgasm when they are hurt, the so called painsluts. I'm not condemning, I just don't understand it.

 

[teresafannin]

For me, a little nip on my breasts is very much a turn on. I don't like to be spanked or anything like that, but a pinch is okay. My sweetie likes to grab my ass when we make love, but nothing too hard & no anal. No matter what we have tried, it is just too painful for me.

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

I don't think it's necessarily a "wierd course"...

when you consider that a whole lot of people engage in this in some form or other...

Personally, I like a light bite here and there... and I love it when my nipples are pinched or bitten when I cum. Spanking is not bad, but not really good either.

Question for you, Phantom: if your lover decided that she wnated to "go there", would you, for her?

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

Pleasure and Pain can be the same .Only if you partner trust you and what your doing ...I for one love to wrestle with my husband..But there are some who can't stand pain if so then don't do it ....I for one trust my husband so if he wants to give me some bondage I would let him because I trust him enough that he will not hurt me.....

 

[SuzyCreamcheese]

A grazing of teeth on the head of a penis can send that jolting anticipatory sensation to the messenge center: uh-oh,,,pain or pleasure? And, if you know and trust your partner, you know it will bring pleasure.

Since a lot of circumcised men, as they grow older, lose some sensitivity on the head, perhaps it is more "stimulating" to them to feel teeth gently biting or raking there *this was news to me, but since the info came from a guy ~no pun intended~ I will believe its mostly true*. And, letting your bottom teeth gently scrap on the underside of a penis as its sliding out can produce excellent shivery reactions. Major teeth work on a penis? I wouldn't dare!!!, but, then again, I've never received that request before.

To each his own; if both partners discuss it and are ready, willing and able, then........

 

[Juliangel]

I give my honey bites on the pecks, neck and ears, nothing too hard but he likes it.

I enjoy them on my neck and breasts lightly but he has also discovered a spot on my calf that I like to have bitten while my legs are over his shoulders.

This spot I like to have bitten hard, it does it for me everytime, of course it means I usually have a bruise there in the shape of his mouth. It was the hidden calf in the picture of my feet.

I think if I ever tired to bite his penis it would be the last time he would let me see it.

 

[goddess_euphoria]

One of my exs liked to have his back clawed, the harder the better, make him bleed kind of clawed, maybe I would have thought it strange if not for the reaction it produced. It drove him wild, and he in turn drove me wild, and so who cares if it's a little strange.

I like having my back clawed too, not that hard though. The other thing is having my neck bitten, usually lightly, but on ocasion, well... as an example: Doing a drunken dance with this guy, he out of the blue leans down and bites my neck, hard, and before I know it, I'm having an orgasm. How's that for strange?

 

[KillerMuffin]

I may have mentioned this before, but I cannot seem to help myself, I have to use my teeth on his penis during a blowjob.

I have sensitive teeth and I love feeling warm things with them. Apparently this is the reason the StudMuffin does not allow me to eat corndogs at the mall. Even on our anniversary, I can't eat corndogs at the mall.

Blah.

 

[Juliangel]

I may have mentioned this before, but I cannot seem to help myself, I have to use my teeth on his penis during a blowjob.

Oh I love to rake my teeth up and down him but if it came close to anything like a bite he would never let me touch it again.

Forgot he loves to have his back scratched too. I file the bottom of my nails so they are always VERY sharp and can leave deep red makers down his back.

 

[Bushido71XS]

I may have mentioned this before, but I cannot seem to help myself, I have to use my teeth on his penis during a blowjob.

I have sensitive teeth and I love feeling warm things with them. Apparently this is the reason the StudMuffin does not allow me to eat corndogs at the mall. Even on our anniversary, I can't eat corndogs at the mall.

Blah.

::::Rooting around the fridge:::: Dammit! I know I have some Corndogs around here somewhere!!!

 

[Guest]

Hey Ravenloft, what do you think my answer to that is?

 

[Guest]

My experience didn't ill effect me!