Does Online Sex Really Bring You Satisfaction?

[curiouscraig]

I'm a straight 35 year old guy who has been married for 10 years. I love my wife very much and have never cheated, but for some time now I have lurked on the internet wondering what it would be like to have an online affair.

My question is for those of you who use the internet or phone to get some sexual relief, while still staying true to your spouse or significant other. Yes I know that some people believe that having online sex is cheating, but I'm horny all the time and just don't know how else I can find relief.

Are there any woman out there who would like to get to know me better and have some fun.

Craig

 

[reddcutie]

it can be briefly exciting...

but in the end youre still pulling your own crank...lol...intimacy is generally what makes sex satisfying in my opinion. Its fun to let an admiring stranger get ya all juiced up, but in the end its still you and only you there...

 

[freethinkingman]

Re: it can be briefly exciting...

but in the end youre still pulling your own crank...lol...intimacy is generally what makes sex satisfying in my opinion. Its fun to let an admiring stranger get ya all juiced up, but in the end its still you and only you there...

It's an added dimension to pleasing oneself isn't it, and chatting, before, during, after again can still feel intimate, even if not in the same way as when sharing the same crumpled pillow! An orgasm with someone else is never to me missed

 

[MT_Pitcher]

Re: it can be briefly exciting...

but in the end youre still pulling your own crank...lol...intimacy is generally what makes sex satisfying in my opinion. Its fun to let an admiring stranger get ya all juiced up, but in the end its still you and only you there...

Yes dear...
I believe you..

No one else will.......

 

[freethinkingman]

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Yes dear...
I believe you..

No one else will.......

Of course we believe

 

[pleasteasme]

Hmmmmm.....great question!

Well.....it is exciting, invigoratiting and very erotic! But, does it get to the point that it isn't enough? As redcutie pointed out, you are still by yourself......

When is it not enough to satisfy? Or is everyone here good at keeping 'online' and real life totally seperate?

*just curious*

 

[Guest]

Hmmmmm.....great question!

Well.....it is exciting, invigoratiting and very erotic! But, does it get to the point that it isn't enough? As redcutie pointed out, you are still by yourself......

When is it not enough to satisfy? Or is everyone here good at keeping 'online' and real life totally seperate?

*just curious*

I am satisfied from it. Same with actually sex. Both Hold different needs for me.

 

[ChromeCollar]

I totally agree with Reddcutie. No matter what you do online or on the phone, it could never be as enchanting as something you could have in person.

 

[freethinkingman]

I totally agree with Reddcutie. No matter what you do online or on the phone, it could never be as enchanting as something you could have in person.

That's got to be right hasn't it?

Of course online can be fun and satisfying, but it can't match up to a warm evening together, under a starlit sky, with cool wine, the chink of glasses and the soft slow descent to passionate entanglement.

Isn't that the point then, wherever we are, on or offline, we just have to enjoy the moment for itself.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

I'm a straight 35 year old guy who has been married for 10 years. I love my wife very much and have never cheated, but for some time now I have lurked on the internet wondering what it would be like to have an online affair.

My question is for those of you who use the internet or phone to get some sexual relief, while still staying true to your spouse or significant other. Yes I know that some people believe that having online sex is cheating, but I'm horny all the time and just don't know how else I can find relief.

Are there any woman out there who would like to get to know me better and have some fun.

Craig

Hi Craig, I too agree with what others have said above. While it seems like a great idea, it's still only your own hand, your own toys. Sure it can be very exciting to have someone talk you through it but, when it's all over, there's no one to hold you, no one's warm breath on your skin, no one to giggle and snuggle with. It's like watching porn, you just end up putting the tape back in your closet.

 

[freethinkingman]

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Hi Craig, I too agree with what others have said above. While it seems like a great idea, it's still only your own hand, your own toys. Sure it can be very exciting to have someone talk you through it but, when it's all over, there's no one to hold you, no one's warm breath on your skin, no one to giggle and snuggle with. It's like watching porn, you just end up putting the tape back in your closet.

It's the physical contact that's missing, true, but minds can still meet, before, during and after.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

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It's the physical contact that's missing, true, but minds can still meet, before, during and after.

Indeed. And just to add some physical warmth to the mental and perhaps even emotional one I highly recommend the use of an electric blanket or hot water bottle!

 

[freethinkingman]

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Indeed. And just to add some physical warmth to the mental and perhaps even emotional one I highly recommend the use of an electric blanket or hot water bottle!

Lol - or one of those huggers you warm in the microwave!

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

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Lol - or one of those huggers you warm in the microwave!

You guys have it easy, you can just throw a sock on...... but for us...... fur lined undies perhaps?

 

[lethorial]

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You guys have it easy, you can just throw a sock on...... but for us...... fur lined undies perhaps?

mmm, thats a pleasant visual

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

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mmm, thats a pleasant visual

Glad I could be of assistance

 

[lethorial]

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Glad I could be of assistance

how could i return the favor?

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

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how could i return the favor?

Put a sock on and post a piccie!

 

[lethorial]

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Put a sock on and post a piccie!

hmm, i'll see if i can try that
check your PMs deprived

 

[freethinkingman]

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You guys have it easy, you can just throw a sock on...... but for us...... fur lined undies perhaps?

Or maybe discard all that stuff and let nature provide the warmth

 

[froggerladie]

Hey... i do it all the time.. is great.. i love to hear a man wisper in my ears while i am using a dildoe... its so other that u really hafta give it a try... i am very satisfied with it.. and so r the men i share it with... give it a try .. u might like it...

 

[lethorial]

Hey... i do it all the time.. is great.. i love to hear a man wisper in my ears while i am using a dildoe... its so other that u really hafta give it a try... i am very satisfied with it.. and so r the men i share it with... give it a try .. u might like it...

that sounds like some fun

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

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hmm, i'll see if i can try that
check your PMs deprived

Just did, thanks!

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

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Or maybe discard all that stuff and let nature provide the warmth

In which case it's best to have an actual partner in the same bed....

 

[lethorial]

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Just did, thanks!

my pleasure