Does Everybody Hate Younger Guys?

[Telfordlad]

Seriously, it's like...all girls want older guys...i understand that the majority of guys my age are immature...but not all of us...yet none of us stand a chance with older women.

So, what do you girls think? do you really hate us all?

 

[College_geek]

Seriously, it's like...all girls want older guys...i understand that the majority of guys my age are immature...but not all of us...yet none of us stand a chance with older women.

So, what do you girls think? do you really hate us all?

Well, I guess I'm into older guys if 2 years difference counts as old. ^^() My boyfriend is 22 and I'm 20. I like guys my age because I feel like I can relate to them better since most are in college now, but I like to talk to older men sometimes because they seem to want to talk to me more than guys my age. Most guys my age see me as just a friend or are disgusted by appearance because they want some easy hot chick. Older men usually can make better conversation, too.

However...

...that's not always the case. I've talked to plenty of older men who just want to talk sexually or cyber or something (which can get old after a while) and I have talked to plenty of men my age who are great conversationists. I don't know too many girls who like older men, myself, and I know that there are many older women out there who love younger men.

It's hard not to draw conclusions when we only see one reoccuring trend, but you shouldn't think that you don't have a chance with younger women.

 

[head_slut]

I've actually been interested in a number of younger guys, but unfortunately, they all turned out to be very immature. I don't have anything against younger guys, but I've found that the guys who are a few years older than me (between three and five) are my best matches. My current boyfriend is four years older, and I've hit my record for longest relationship ever with him (two years).

I think younger guys can be great, and a lot of fun to flirt with and spend time with, but for some reason the mentality just doesn't click for long-term. Maybe I've just been very unlucky, because I've had several friends who had great relationships with guys who were significantly younger (eight or ten years when they're only in their early thirties!) And one of my friends is in her late thirties and prefers guys in their early to mid-twenties.

I wouldn't say you don't stand a chance... You just need to find women who are a little more open-minded about youth. Good luck!

 

[supermitaines]

I love guys my age but sometimes, it's nice to be with an older man, it's just different... I do think that younger men are hot, but many of them, or anyways, the ones that I've met are not interested in rounder women so that just eliminates me from their spectrum...oh well!

 

[Guttergoddess]

hate is such a strong word...I just prefer not to date guys my kid sister's age (or younger!)

 

[IDreamtIWasABee]

Well, of the modest amount of females who've been interested in me (and able to let me know it, shyness being what it is), most are older-and by a wide margin, too (30s, 40s, 50s). From the time you begin to mature sexually, sexual and emotional connections with people waaay older than you are perfectly natural (Western ignorance be damned), and this of course includes mature women and young men. Unless you do in fact come off as an ass, I doubt most older women are going to turn you away, much less hate you. Have you had bad experiences with them?

 

[supermitaines]

Well, of the modest amount of females interested in me (and able to let me know it, shyness being what it is), most are older-and by a wide margin, too (30s, 40s, 50s). From the time you begin to mature sexually, sexual and emotional connections with people waaay older than you are perfectly natural (Western ignorance be damned), and this of course includes mature women and young men. Unless you do in fact come off as an ass, I doubt most older women are going to turn you away, much less hate you. Have you had bad experiences with them?

I think that there really basically is a lack of understanding between younger women such as myself and younger men. I don't think it's a matter of being turned down, I think that we don't know what to expect from younger men and I think they don't know what to expect from us either...And about the attraction thing, I think that younger women are probably also attracted to many a guy and just don't know what to say considering that some of us have possibly had bad experiences with younger guys who have a pre-conceived notion of what they want.

 

[IDreamtIWasABee]

I think that there really basically is a lack of understanding between younger women such as myself and younger men. I don't think it's a matter of being turned down, I think that we don't know what to expect from younger men and I think they don't know what to expect from us either...

Oh, I don't doubt that many women my own age are as intimidated of me as I am of them, and that this is true of young women and young men generally. Considering how much development is being retarded during modern-day adolescense, and how that adolescense is being extended further and further into our lives, it's pretty much unavoidable.

And about the attraction thing, I think that younger women are probably also attracted to many a guy and just don't know what to say considering that some of us have possibly had bad experiences with younger guys who have a pre-conceived notion of what they want.

By "pre-concieved notion of what they want," are you referring to unrealistic expectations some have of women, due to rampant media stupidity and bad old legends about Mars and Venus limping on?

I think this is a problem for both sexes-I know I've had trouble with it, anyway-with the greater disadvantage to women coming more from the fear of rape and general assault, on the one hand, and the lingering negativity attached to sluthood and their being sexually free, on the other.

I see you're from Montreal, though, so I'm not sure if things are as bad up there as they are down here.

 

[persephone_]

Think of it this way, there is always someone younger than you. If you think that girls only want older guys, try someone younger than you and test the theory. Although in my experience a girl will always say that they prefer older men but will often date/see guys their own age as well. It depends more on the person than their age

 

[Stegral]

My S/O is alot younger..

I will stick my head out on a limb here....But hey correct me if I am wrong...
My S/O is 14 years younger than me... I am 36 & He is 22...
I don't really know how long it will last... right now I am happy most of the time & he is mature for the most part beyond his younger age... He has had alot of time with guys a bit older that him but not old enough that they consider him a "kid" & he has listened to the goings on in that realm & learned of many things of the manly kind... unfortunately leaving the toilet seat up was one of them, but I am working on that...LOL....
I have been from 9 years older to 14 years younger & all of the main years inbetween.... it is your personality that hooks us or if you have a look to you that fasinates us... best way to charm an older woman is to make her feel like she is the center of your world...as we get older we think all the guys want those "younger pieces of ass" so if you show us genuine interest... chances are you will be rewarded, mine was when he brought me flowers to our first meeting of a "hot cup of something" in public.....

 

[bourbonslut]

all depends on your wants, type of relationship, etc.

i've had friendships with 'benefits' with younger men. i've had relationship like that with guy 13 years younger that's been lots of fun, no expectations on either end. have had similar things with slightly/much older men as well.

last serious relationship was with man somewhat older than me. don't know if age played a role at all.

hate is a strong word. don't know what role age will play in my next 'serious' relationship.

 

[Plasmaball]

i am 24-25 and i have found many older women(mostly on the net) who want a younger guy.

 

[Shimp]

all depends on your wants, type of relationship, etc.

i've had friendships with 'benefits' with younger men. i've had relationship like that with guy 13 years younger that's been lots of fun, no expectations on either end. have had similar things with slightly/much older men as well.

last serious relationship was with man somewhat older than me. don't know if age played a role at all.

hate is a strong word. don't know what role age will play in my next 'serious' relationship.

nothing special to say here but you are my favorite drink,,,alittle bushmills at the moment is just right.

 

[krazeekat]

i am 24-25 and i have found many older women(mostly on the net) who want a younger guy.

Plas..you're too sexy and irresistable

 

[Shimp]

Plas..you're too sexy and irresistable

kraseekat,,,that is the most delictable pic I have seen tonight....so soft and lovely...!

 

[Plasmaball]

Plas..you're too sexy and irresistable

you are fucking hot.

 

[krazeekat]

kraseekat,,,that is the most delictable pic I have seen tonight....so soft and lovely...!

Thank you Shimp. Now I know that AV is Matthew McConaughey, I'm so in lust with him

 

[krazeekat]

you are fucking hot.

Oh and you know all this during our hot phone conversations? You're fucking hot too, Plas.

 

[Shimp]

Thank you Shimp. Now I know that AV is Matthew McConaughey, I'm so in lust with him

Well I'm soo jealous of your fingers...(pic)

 

[Plasmaball]

Oh and you know all this during our hot phone conversations? You're fucking hot too, Plas.

yes...i will tell you in the next pm

 

[krazeekat]

Well I'm soo jealous of your fingers...(pic)

LOL..damn, for a moment I thought you could tell where my fingers was a moment ago.

 

[Shimp]

LOL..damn, for a moment I thought you could tell where my fingers was a moment ago.

lmao,,about where mine are now.

 

[krazeekat]

lmao,,about where mine are now.

LOL, somehow I could tell.

 

[pao 13]

LOL, somehow I could tell.

I have to admit that this avatar is far too sexy......Good morning from Greece....

 

[Shimp]

LOL, somehow I could tell.

yes just passing the time, how about you?