Does Casual Sex Exist?

[CoolCucumber]

Well, does it? I mean, everyone says they wouldn't mind casual sex, but does it ever really stay casual? And if it doesn't is it cause you felt something, or did the other person feel something?
-CoolCucumber

 

[Alley Cat]

I have to say that it never has existed for me..
usually, one person gets attached. It isn't always me.. But.
Sometimes it is.
Not that i have had many experiences with this, just 4 or 5. But friends i have spoken with believe that it can exist for only one person in the 'relationship'

It may start casual. But it doesn't always stay that way

 

[Ice Cold]

Well I've had friends that went out and had casual sex... Just a friend or someone they've worked with... and somehow one night it happened. They never pursued a relationship but just enjoyed it for what it was.

For me, I don't think it is possible, because I like to really know the person I am involved with before anything can happen, and if I don't care for them, why have sex with them?

 

[Lasz]

If you put everyone on this board in one place, with all the prior knowledge of how we know about each other's sexuality. I think it could exisist

......or you would just have one of the greatest month long orgies of all time.

Laz

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Casual sex does exsist and many out there partake in it ... I mean its obvious.

But on my part, I have to say I don't care much for "casual sex".

I know many of you will roll thier eyes and think I am being naive and what not .. but sex is a very intimate experience in my eyes. I must have feelings of love for that person so hence casual sex does not exsist for me. Yes, I know I am a loser.

 

[CoolCucumber]

Sorry...I forgot to weigh in my own opinion...I think people TRY to have casual sex, however, if it is a recurring thing (not a one night affair) someone's feelings eventually get involved. It can be a blessing, or a curse, depends on what you do after it happens.
-CoolCucumber

 

[Calamity Jane]

Yes, it exists. And, if you're honest going in to it, it can be great.

I can't say that I ever had sex with someone I didn't enjoy hanging out with though. All of my 'fuck buddies' were good friends that I happened to have a sexual relationship with. No strings, and no hard feelings when it ended.

Sometimes I miss those days.

 

[Silverlily]

Yes it exists. I've done it before and I intend to do it again.

 

[Wiggles]

Yep, it exists.

Hence the term Fuck buddies. I've only had casual sex once, it was a great time. If I met the guy again I wouldn't be uncomfortable.

I wouldn't sleep with someone unless I thought they were worthy. But not every sexy cool guy is someone I would like to have a relationship with.

Not endorsing Casual sex, just saying it's ok for me.

 

[MissTaken]

Yes, it exists and thank God for that!

I mean, I can only be so long without the touch. I crave it.

I have a friend who visits when I need him to, soemtimes just to cuddle on the couch and watch a movie, othertimes to fuck.

In either case, he goes home, we are friends and no, there is no romantic entanglement at all.

I will admit, that this is unusual as I used to believe that someone always gets involved, as has been previously posted here. But no, I found my casual fuck buddy and intend to enjoy him for a long time to come.

 

[riff]

Sex with out love is a meaningless experience. But as far a meaningless experiences go, it's one of the best.

-woody allen

 

[Jellybeangirl]

Casual sex does exist, but for me- if I have sex w/ that person more than once, it isn't casual any longer. I start to develop feelings- which don't have any place in "casual sex"