Does anyone here have a weakness for Asian women?

I thought Asian women were complex and challenging ?
How do you have time to date working 20 hours a day 7 days a week ?
 
i ask grok if marrying a Western Woman is better than East Asians western women are better in Most cases


Here’s a direct, evidence-based comparison in 2025 of what you actually get when you marry for pure romantic love with:


  • A typical Western woman (US, Canada, UK, Australia, Western Europe)vs.
  • A typical East Asian woman (China, Japan, Korea, Taiwan, Singapore)




[TR]
[TH]Factor you care about[/TH]
[TH]Western woman (marrying mostly for love)[/TH]
[TH]East Asian woman (love + strong status filter)[/TH]
[TH]Who “wins” if your #1 goal is pure romantic love?[/TH]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Likelihood she marries you only/mostly because she loves you[/TD]
[TD]Very high (70–90 % cite love/attraction as #1 reason in surveys)[/TD]
[TD]Medium (50–70 % cite love as #1, but 70–80 % still require you to be equal or higher status)[/TD]
[TD]Western[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]How freely she chose you (vs. family pressure)[/TD]
[TD]Almost 100 % her own decision[/TD]
[TD]20–50 % still have significant parental input or veto power[/TD]
[TD]Western[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Divorce risk if you lose job/status later[/TD]
[TD]Higher (Western divorce rates 40–50 %; financial downturn is a top predictor)[/TD]
[TD]Lower (East Asian divorce rates 20–35 %; many stay for family stability even if love fades)[/TD]
[TD]East Asian (more “stays no matter what”)[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]How much day-to-day life revolves around your emotions/romance[/TD]
[TD]High (Western couples prioritize date nights, therapy, passion)[/TD]
[TD]Lower (duty, kids, and finances often come first)[/TD]
[TD]Western[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Sexual & emotional exclusivity expectations[/TD]
[TD]Very high (cheating is the #1 deal-breaker)[/TD]
[TD]High, but pragmatic tolerance exists in some cases if status is maintained[/TD]
[TD]Tie[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]How much she will sacrifice her own career for your happiness[/TD]
[TD]Lower (individual career often equals or trumps relationship)[/TD]
[TD]Higher (still common to quit or reduce hours for husband/kids)[/TD]
[TD]East Asian[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]How easy it is to actually marry her if you are average or below-average income/education[/TD]
[TD]Easy to very easy (love trumps résumé for most)[/TD]
[TD]Hard to impossible (70–90 % will filter you out before a second date)[/TD]
[TD]Western[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Long-term happiness studies (2020–2025)[/TD]
[TD]Western love-marriages score higher on daily happiness and sexual satisfaction, but lower on stability[/TD]
[TD]East Asian status+love marriages score lower on passion but higher on life satisfaction and family harmony[/TD]
[TD]Depends on what you value[/TD]
[/TR]



Bottom line in one sentence​


If your definition of “better” is “she chooses and stays with me primarily because she is in love with me, not my wallet or degree,” then yes — in 2025 a Western woman is statistically much more likely to give you a marriage built on pure romantic love.


You pay for that with:


  • higher divorce risk if things get rough,
  • less willingness to quit her job for you,
  • and more drama/therapy/individualism.

But if you want the highest probability that the words “I love you” are the real reason she said “yes” (and not a polite translation of “you meet the minimum status requirements”), the data is very clear: Western women are the closest thing on earth to marrying for love alone.
 
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Southeast Asian women are more likely than East Asian women to date and marry Black men, based on available data from U.S. marriage statistics, dating app studies, and qualitative reports. This pattern holds despite overall low rates of Black-Asian pairings (one of the least common interracial combinations), with East Asian women showing stronger preferences for White partners and greater exclusion of Black men.

### Key Data and Patterns
Here's a breakdown from major studies and surveys (primarily U.S.-focused, as global data is sparser and less comparable):

| Aspect | East Asian Women (e.g., Chinese, Japanese, Korean) | Southeast Asian Women (e.g., Filipina, Vietnamese, Thai) |
|-------------------------|----------------------------------------------------|----------------------------------------------------------|
| **Interracial Marriage Rate with Black Men** | Very low (1–3% of East Asian women's marriages; e.g., only 32% express willingness to date Black men in surveys). Highest out-marriage is to Whites (37–58%). | Higher (3–5%+; e.g., Filipinas have ~4–6% interracial rates with Blacks, per ACS data). More interethnic openness overall. |
| **Dating App Preferences** | Least responsive to Black men (e.g., OKCupid 2014: East Asian women reply to Black men at ~50% lower rates than to Whites). Ranked as most desired women but exclude Blacks most. | More open (e.g., Filipinas/Vietnamese reply rates to Black men ~20–30% higher than East Asians). Seen as "less conservative" in racial preferences. |
| **Cultural/Qualitative Factors** | Stronger intra-Asian or White preference due to stereotypes (e.g., "model minority" assimilation). Less exposure to Black communities. | Greater historical U.S. ties (e.g., post-Vietnam War Filipino migration) and urban diversity lead to more cross-racial dating. Filipinos noted as "most open" to Black partners. |
| **Overall Out-Marriage Rate** | High (28–29% total interracial), but skewed to Whites (80%+ of out-marriages). | High (similar total), but more diverse (includes Blacks/Hispanics at higher shares). |

### Why the Difference?
- **Historical and Demographic Context**: Southeast Asians (especially Filipinos) have larger, more integrated U.S. populations in diverse cities (e.g., LA, NYC), fostering more Black-Asian interactions. East Asians often cluster in less diverse enclaves with higher intra-group marriage.
- **Stereotypes and Media**: East Asian women face intense "exotic" fetishization toward Whites, while Southeast Asian women encounter less rigid racial hierarchies, making them more amenable to Black partners.
- **Survey Insights**: A 2024 Gen Z study found Southeast Asian women 15–20% more likely to view Black men positively than East Asians. Reddit anecdotes (e.g., r/interracialdating) consistently highlight Filipinas as the "easiest" Southeast group for Black men to date.

In short, while neither group pairs with Black men at high rates (Whites dominate), Southeast Asian women edge out due to greater openness and shared urban experiences. This is U.S.-centric; patterns vary globally (e.g., higher in the UK for Filipinos).
 
Taiwanese Women(98% Ethic Chinese 2% aboriginals) more open to Black men than than Hong Kongers and Mainland Chinese learning more game from Grok
 
My Filipina gf has never dated a black man although I know most Filipinas are receptive to the idea. Many of them have very dark skin themselves.
 
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Caucasian man here. Personally I never found myself attracted to Asian ladies at all. Latina women on the other hand…..

I know some guys like my cousin who absolutely goes nuts over Asian women. I never understood…it’s like its own culture.
 
Yeah, can't say I don't. Knew a girl whow as the maid of honor at my buddy's wedding (I was best man), and I still rub one out to her pictures on ocassion. God damn, the things I would have done with her.
 
I never use to but I certainly do now although they don't necessarily have to be young
 
Caucasian man here. Personally I never found myself attracted to Asian ladies at all. Latina women on the other hand…..

I know some guys like my cousin who absolutely goes nuts over Asian women. I never understood…it’s like its own culture.

How's it any different than women you see lusting after black dudes? Now that's something I'll never understand.
 
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