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Anytime you dance around swaying your hips half dressed your man will love it.
And, if he doesn't, hit him. (Actually, don't, thats domestic violence...so, instead shake your finger at him sternly.)
And, if he doesn't, hit him. (Actually, don't, thats domestic violence...so, instead shake your finger at him sternly.)
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Lap dances from a guy's point of view. What I like:
#1. Bury his face in your bare titties while you are straddling him. Erect nipples are a plus.
#2. Using plenty of perfume will also help give that strip club feeling.
#3. Tease him, get real close. Let him feel the heat of your breath against his lips, face, and ears. Use tic-tacs before this.
#4. Use your hair!. Sit on his lap with your back to his chest and then lean back. He will get to touch, feel, smell and run your fingers through your hair.
#5. Sit on his lap with your back facing his chest and move your ass up and down his lap. Better to have his erection pointed upward towards his navel for better sensation.
#6. Explore him. Guys love knowing that a woman has interest in them. While straddling him, run your hands up his shirt and feel his chest and touch his face, back, and anywhere else.
#7. Go from top to bottom nude. The more nude the better, but don't start off that way. Start out with a top and bottom, then take off the top, and save the bottom for last. You can keep the bottom(thong) on and be a tease.
I hope this helps.
#1. Bury his face in your bare titties while you are straddling him. Erect nipples are a plus.
#2. Using plenty of perfume will also help give that strip club feeling.
#3. Tease him, get real close. Let him feel the heat of your breath against his lips, face, and ears. Use tic-tacs before this.
#4. Use your hair!. Sit on his lap with your back to his chest and then lean back. He will get to touch, feel, smell and run your fingers through your hair.
#5. Sit on his lap with your back facing his chest and move your ass up and down his lap. Better to have his erection pointed upward towards his navel for better sensation.
#6. Explore him. Guys love knowing that a woman has interest in them. While straddling him, run your hands up his shirt and feel his chest and touch his face, back, and anywhere else.
#7. Go from top to bottom nude. The more nude the better, but don't start off that way. Start out with a top and bottom, then take off the top, and save the bottom for last. You can keep the bottom(thong) on and be a tease.
I hope this helps.
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rydia57 said:Ohhh I didn't know there was so much to it, does touching come in there? Do you make any suggestive sounds? I can't wait to use these techniques, thanx so much guys.
Touching is a definate must for a good lapdance. Suggestive sounds are nice too, but don't get too carried away. Best sound I've heard during a lapdance was the heavy breathing in my ear by the dancer.
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It is nice to see this thread.....wish I had thought to start it! To have a guy actually share with us ladies what he likes done for him during a lap dance.
I do have a couple of questions though.
do you like it if she runs her hands over her body as she is dancing? You know...really slow....maybe even touching her pussy then licking her fingers? How about running her hand over her pussy lips to pick up some juice and scent then letting him smell it and running her finger over his lips to put some of the juice there?
How about kissing? should the she kiss him?
The whole point is to tease the man you are dancing for right? So him only being able to look but not touch makes it even more a tease for him cause I can touch him and myself but he cannot touch me.
lol....now you have my naughty mind going on the possibilities.
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I do have a couple of questions though.
do you like it if she runs her hands over her body as she is dancing? You know...really slow....maybe even touching her pussy then licking her fingers? How about running her hand over her pussy lips to pick up some juice and scent then letting him smell it and running her finger over his lips to put some of the juice there?
How about kissing? should the she kiss him?
The whole point is to tease the man you are dancing for right? So him only being able to look but not touch makes it even more a tease for him cause I can touch him and myself but he cannot touch me.
lol....now you have my naughty mind going on the possibilities.
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I give it a second YES
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The best lapdances I have had were ones where the girl was very sensual in her movements...it is a mix of dancing and sensual teasing caresses.
Your dancing close with some who is sitting down...and you are driving them wild.
I would recommend dancing in bra and panties. Find some songs you like and practice.
Your dancing close with some who is sitting down...and you are driving them wild.
I would recommend dancing in bra and panties. Find some songs you like and practice.
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Carmen Electra has a striptease video series that is so awesome and fun. I only do the first two for exercise, but the third one teaches you how to do a lap dance. You can buy them seperatly if you don't want the whole set.
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I give it a third, Yes.
It is very arousing to see a woman slowly touching herself/rubbing her body. More so when I know I can't do it too. Just something very erotic about having to restrain myself from doing what I really want to do and then have her tease me by doing it herself. It comes off like, she knows what I want to do. She's in my head.
It is very arousing to see a woman slowly touching herself/rubbing her body. More so when I know I can't do it too. Just something very erotic about having to restrain myself from doing what I really want to do and then have her tease me by doing it herself. It comes off like, she knows what I want to do. She's in my head.
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Whip cream, have em lick it off various parts of your body.
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Anything that you're comfortable with really.
I've seen dancers use just about every kind of music you can think of, with a few exceptions. (classical, jazz, blues)
Basically, as long as there's a good beat, the music doesn't matter so much.
Just make sure it's not a song he absolutely hates.
Of course, you might just give him a reason not to hate that song anymore.
I've seen dancers use just about every kind of music you can think of, with a few exceptions. (classical, jazz, blues)
Basically, as long as there's a good beat, the music doesn't matter so much.
Just make sure it's not a song he absolutely hates.
Of course, you might just give him a reason not to hate that song anymore.
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Ok, I totally understand that it might be a LOT to ask you guys to name songs you have enjoyed lap dances to. It is not the music you are supposed to focus on after all.
So, how about the ladies?
Does someone have any specific title suggestions that they enjoy for this kind of activity?
So, how about the ladies?
Does someone have any specific title suggestions that they enjoy for this kind of activity?
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Ruby - did you know erotic dance is an excellent confidence booster? I started out doing it as something to spice up my marriage, but it's ended up being as much (sometimes more) for me as for him. If you want recommendations on a couple good instructional DVD's, pm me. That being said some songs that I get into when I dance are:
Feelin Love - Paula Cole
Underneath Your Clothes - Shakira
Naughty Girl - Beyonce
Burnin Midnight - Toby Keith
Hot Mama - Trace Adkins
Seduces Me - Celine (it's slow, sweet and sensual)
Crazy Bitch - buckcherry (this one is per his request)
There's an excellent thread in The Blank Manual under Setting the Mood called Best Song for Strip Tease. I also stole some ideas from another thread in HT Cafe called Music to Have Sex By.
Seriously - you might want to consider erotic dance as an alternative to the belly dancing that Noor recommended.
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Generally during a dance I get a lot of cock attention, rubbing it against my leg and hers, rubbing it between her ass/pussy and my stomach... This weekend I had a girl do some motorboat-like thing on my dick, all the way up til she found the head and gave it more attention than she shouldve, not complaining.
She also had many years of ballet so there were acrobatics in my lap, needless to say I kept her around all night. Its not neccessary but this is just one girl that impressed the fuck out of me.
She also had many years of ballet so there were acrobatics in my lap, needless to say I kept her around all night. Its not neccessary but this is just one girl that impressed the fuck out of me.
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