Does anyone else...

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Just have the urge to totally dominate a sweet loving guy now and then? I'm generally not a dom but lately I have had these intense urges to be one.

Needless to say the current partner has been less then thrilled about the sudden change in character.
 
I bet he'd get over it pretty quick if he came home to find you in full leather and lace dom mode though...
 
He told me it was strange that I would "change it up on him". Nothing like a partner that makes you feel like something is wrong with you...that really made me want to beat him
 
Change is good, it helps spice up things. If your looking for someone to experiment with online, send me a PM sometime, I'd happily help. :)
 
Just have the urge to totally dominate a sweet loving guy now and then? I'm generally not a dom but lately I have had these intense urges to be one.

Needless to say the current partner has been less then thrilled about the sudden change in character.

i like to change ot up being in charge and being a sub best of each world
 
He's got a point. When you hooked up, he was the Dom. Now you;re looking to change things.

As with any change in a relationship, the two of you need to discuss it. Will he submit to you? Will you give up? Will you bring in a third for you to Dom?

Lots of possibilities.
 
Just have the urge to totally dominate a sweet loving guy now and then? I'm generally not a dom but lately I have had these intense urges to be one.

Needless to say the current partner has been less then thrilled about the sudden change in character.

I'd hand you the keys and let you take us for a ride...
 
dress nice and slutty and surprize him with a set of handcuffs ....


I like the way kellygurl thinks. He may just not understand. If you make it about pleasure mixed with the domination, he'd probably go for it. It hasn't happened often to me, but when a girlfriend takes charge and ties me up, I love it.
 
Wow, did somebody devide by zero or something? I was beginning to think I'd never see a post like this.

If he can't appreciate your desire to take the reins, I personally think you aught to give someone who will a chance. Lord knows it's hard enough for us sweet, caring, respectful guys to get the attention of a girl, much less one who wants to take control and take advantage of our eagerness to please.

:( There are men out there that would not only appreciate your newfound curiosity, but be thankful for it. Far better than the bloke you're currently with, whom, it seems, is currently squandering such a rare and wonderful gift.
 
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