Does Age Matter

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I have to say, I have always liked older men, but recently in the past year I have been more attracted to younger guys and for some reason they are the ones that are asking me out … I have been dating a 22 and 24 year old. The 15 year age difference did bother me at first but after we got to know each other better it didn’t seem to matter much (we have a great time) but yet when someone 20 or 18 try talking to me or ask me out I get freaked …So I guess there is a line for me … I might need to add I am 37 ...lol not that you can't do the math :)

What about you, what are your thoughts on age differences?
 
As long as both people involved are happy, I don’t see a problem with age differences. I have always been attracted to older men as well. They seem more experienced and sure of what they’re doing which is a major attraction for me. Of course I realize that young men can be just as or even more experienced than older men but it’s just a feeling that I have.

Glad you're enjoying yourself!

*stardust*
 
YeahBabyyy said:
I have to say, I have always liked older men, but recently in the past year I have been more attracted to younger guys and for some reason they are the ones that are asking me out … I have been dating a 22 and 24 year old. The 15 year age difference did bother me at first but after we got to know each other better it didn’t seem to matter much (we have a great time) but yet when someone 20 or 18 try talking to me or ask me out I get freaked …So I guess there is a line for me … I might need to add I am 37 ...lol not that you can't do the math :)

What about you, what are your thoughts on age differences?

I was always attracted to older men. When I was in my 20's the men I dated men were usually 10 years older. The trend continued until I reached 50. At that point I started dated men my own age. Now I will date younger men, but I'm not at all attracted to men younger than 50. There's just something about a 50 year-year-old..................... well, especially since the "little blue pill."

For some people age is not a problem, for others it is. I think it depends on the people involved.
 
I would have to agree with Ziggy in that if both people are happy together, age does not matter.

I, however, have a tendancy towards women of a similar age to myself
 
YeahBabyyy said:
What about you, what are your thoughts on age differences? [/B]

good thread. I had always thought that much more than 10 yrs difference was too much. However, I'm finding out.........that some women enjoy a greater age difference. Right now, there's a 15 yr. difference for me. When I was about 27 I had a shortlived romance with a gal almost 50. The only thing that would make me not go younger is if that person was not beyond the nesting urge. All in all, what ever works and makes those involved happy.
 
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redrider4u said:
good thread. I had always thought that much more than 10 yrs difference was too much. However, I'm finding out.........that some women enjoy a greater age difference. Right now, there's a 15 yr. difference for me. When I was about 27 I had a shortlived romance with a gal almost 50. The only thing that would make me not go younger is if that person was not beyond the nesting urge. All in all, what ever works and makes those involved happy.

Interesting. We seem to agree that it's up to the people involved. I hope I don't run into a guy who still wants to make babies...the practice is fun, but at my age I'd forget where I put the baby.
 
DGO ...very cute :)
well i don't have to worry about babies lol... its all( fun tryin tho ) lol


I know how we each feel about this subject is different in many ways ,if we look deep there are always many different factors as to why we feel the way we do about things ..

All tho i am really only looking for a good time as in friendship and yes sex with the 2 guys i am seeing ,i'm not looking for a lasting ( romance) with either of them and they feel the same ... i have lived half of my life such am having babies and they have not ( believe me we talk about everything ) ... I don't think a year ago if either had asked me out i would have went ... i have done some changing ...and i find that i am doing that alot more these days ...


I was like 12 the first time i realized I liked older men ... and i think the oldest was 46 when i was 33....i'm not sayin i don't still get hot over an older guy ..:)
 
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Ziggy*stardust said:
As long as both people involved are happy, I don’t see a problem with age differences. I have always been attracted to older men as well. They seem more experienced and sure of what they’re doing which is a major attraction for me. Of course I realize that young men can be just as or even more experienced than older men but it’s just a feeling that I have.

Glad you're enjoying yourself!

*stardust*

Took the words right out of my mouth. *nods*

Age is a state of mind anyway.....:)
 
YeahBabyyy said:
DGO ...very cute :)
well i don't have to worry about babies lol... its all( fun tryin tho ) lol


I know how we each feel about this subject is different in may ways ,if we look deep there are always many different factors as to why we feel the way we do about things ..

All tho i have am really only looking for a good time as in friendship and yes sex with the 2 guys i am seeing ,i'm not looking for a lasting ( romance) with either of them and they feel the same ... i have lived half of my life such am having babies and they have not ( believe me we talk about everything ) ... I don't think a year ago if either had asked me out i would have went ... i have done some changing ...and i find that i am doing that alot more these days ...


I was like 12 the first time i realized I liked older men ... and i think the oldest was 46 when i was 33....i'm not sayin i don't still get hot over an older guy ..:)

I was getting scared there thought I was loosing you to those young studs....... :D

for me age isn't the issue, it is more of a compatability issue, a guy my age, 50 by the way, usually only has about maybe 2 hours of conversation in him for someone really young. I find I am more physically and socially attracked to ladies in the 30's and 40's age, ladies a little more worldly and with some life experience to draw on.
Don't get me wrong if a real young legal lady came along I might have to take her up on it, but only as long as we didn't have to talk to much...LOL:D

*D_G_O the only little blue friend I need is a Pepsi*:D

Great idea for a thread (((Babyyy)))
 
JLM73 said:
I was getting scared there thought I was loosing you to those young studs....... :D

for me age isn't the issue, it is more of a compatability issue, a guy my age, 50 by the way, usually only has about maybe 2 hours of conversation in him for someone really young. I find I am more physically and socially attracked to ladies in the 30's and 40's age, ladies a little more worldly and with some life experience to draw on.
Don't get me wrong if a real young legal lady came along I might have to take her up on it, but only as long as we didn't have to talk to much...LOL:D

*D_G_O the only little blue friend I need is a Pepsi*:D

Great idea for a thread (((Babyyy)))
You don't think I'm all talk? do you JLM
 
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YeahBabyyy said:
I have to say, I have always liked older men, but recently in the past year I have been more attracted to younger guys and for some reason they are the ones that are asking me out … I have been dating a 22 and 24 year old. The 15 year age difference did bother me at first but after we got to know each other better it didn’t seem to matter much (we have a great time) but yet when someone 20 or 18 try talking to me or ask me out I get freaked …So I guess there is a line for me … I might need to add I am 37 ...lol not that you can't do the math :)

What about you, what are your thoughts on age differences?

Age difference is not something I think about when I meet someone. I dated someone more than thirty-five years older than I am, and it just never came to mind while I was with him because I loved being around him.
 
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Party Girl said:
Age difference is not something I think about when I meet someone. I dated someone more than thirty-five years older than I am, and it just never came to mind while I was with him because I loved being around him.
i have a cousin that married a man over 30 years older then her and she is so in love ( the little shit ) ...i am happy for her ....but OMG she is such a tease when she calls me ...lol
 
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done_got_old said:
I was always attracted to older men. When I was in my 20's the men I dated men were usually 10 years older. The trend continued until I reached 50. At that point I started dated men my own age. Now I will date younger men, but I'm not at all attracted to men younger than 50. There's just something about a 50 year-year-old..................... well, especially since the "little blue pill."

For some people age is not a problem, for others it is. I think it depends on the people involved.
Those little blue pills are awesome. ;)

I hope the patent expires fairly soon, they're so expensive.
 
I find it makes no difference.... You can find a mature young man as well as a mature older one and just the opposite too... Immature younger man and immature older one. Workn with the mind... :rose:
 
To me age is only a symbol of fiction

A person could be 40 but act like a 16 year old ... to me that is no go

But a person could be 40 but acting like a 20 year old :D ...That works for me
 
DreamWeaver said:
To me age is only a symbol of fiction

A person could be 40 but act like a 16 year old ... to me that is no go

But a person could be 40 but acting like a 20 year old :D ...That works for me

Ok DW....what does this 37 year old babyyy act like .... you better not say 2 ...20 year olds ...lol ..or i am going to bite you!!!
 
YeahBabyyy said:
Ok DW....what does this 37 year old babyyy act like .... you better not say 2 ...20 year olds ...lol ..or i am going to bite you!!!
Okay

How about a pair of 20 yr olds :D

Before I found out your approx age I though you were about 25-26

So Bite me :D
 
DreamWeaver said:
Okay

How about a pair of 20 yr olds :D

Before I found out your approx age I though you were about 25-26

So Bite me :D
a pair of 20 year olds...I can live with that , that means i get Double EVEYTHING .... wooo hooo !!!! and you get 2 bites ... :p
 
Age has never really mattered to me... I've dated women younger than me, women older than me, and women the same age...

Just like in every other situation, it has to do with chemistry and whether or not you're both comfortable with the situation...

With the older women I've dated, I've had those that were totally comfortable with it from the beginning and those that took a little coaxing... The ones that took a little coaxing, got very comfortable with it very quickly... ;)
 
JLM73 said:
for me age isn't the issue, it is more of a compatability issue, a guy my age usually only has about maybe 2 hours of conversation in him for someone really young. I find I am more physically and socially attracked to ladies in the 30's and 40's age, ladies a little more worldly and with some life experience to draw on.
Don't get me wrong if a real young legal lady came along I might have to take her up on it, but only as long as we didn't have to talk to much

Ditto.
 
Sub Dom Daddy said:
hey DomDaddy ...nice to met you..

now see that is something else thats been on my mind( just a little)... I like the whole daddy thing ... but i'm not having a hard time doing it with someone half my age ... THANK GOD ;)
 
I am older and prefer ladies that I can relate to (because it helps to get the woman flying higher if you can satisfy her more than on just the physical level, IMO)...usually my age or up to 15 years younger. Definitely not into the teenager thing--don't want to be a teacher...I find it sexy when a woman knows what she wants/needs, is not afraid to ask for it, and has the passion/aggression to do whatever she feels. OK...that's my opinion--off my soapbox for now, AA. :rose:
 
Age has never really mattered to me. I'm usually attracted to how a man acts not how old/young he is. I do however do find myself drawing the line at guys more than 5 years younger than me. Just because it freaks me to think of myself being with someone that much younger.
 
Good thread.....I don't think age matters in the least. If you want to date someone younger than you as long as you're both happy, that's all that counts. I've NEVER dated anyone younger than me, and that's by choice. They just don't hold my interest. I don't want to be a babysitter. I like them around 5 years older than me. That's perfect!:D Which could be why my sweetie and I get along so well.;)
 
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