Do your confessions excite your partner.

[mrsrobinsonxx]

Many years ago, I was out with my husband and some friends, and we bumped into some of my friends from University. I spent some time away from my group, talking to a guy who did the same course as me, at University. This guy was actually a very regular sex partner of mine, back in the day. We chatted and laughed a lot, reminiscing about the old days. It did stir up a lot of old memories, all of them very pleasant, I hasten to add. When I was leaving, we gave each other quite a long hug, several kisses on the cheeks, and he squeezed my bottom, all in full view of my husband. Well, we'd all had quite a lot to drink.
On the taxi journey, back home, my husband didn't mention a thing, in fact he was unusually quiet. Back home, we got into bed. He was still quiet so I thought he was a bit pissed off and, assuming there was no chance of getting laid, I put a nightie on.
Then the questions started. Who was the guy, when did we meet, all simple stuff. At some point, he pushed the conversation on and asked if he was an old boyfriend. I said he was and then he asked if we'd had sex together. I'd nothing to hide, this was well before I'd met my husband, so I said yes. At this point I sat up. I could see my husbands hand moving under the duvet, right down in his cock area. God, he was getting off on this.
Was he good, how big was he, the questions kept coming and getting much more personal. I was actually getting turned on myself, too. Did I still fancy him. I played along and said I did, which was true to some extent. Then the final question; So, you'd like it if he was lying here next to you ? I couldn't stop myself. I sat up, grabbed the hem of my nightie and lifted it up to my waist, and held it there. Looking straight at him, I couldn't resist saying, if he was here, I wouldn't be wearing this, and threw it to the floor.
God, we had the most frantic fuck. I'd never known him to be so stiff.

Has anyone else had such an experience when telling their spouse about a previous experience.

 

[ReallyRandyReader]

Thx for sharing your story @mrsrobinsonxx

I’m a man, so maybe not the feedback you’d like. But there was a very similar story in my house of my wife meeting a former lover in a social environment, the exploratory questions and the wild sex.

I’m not in touch enough with my emotions to explain it. But I guess it touches on a jealousy / ownership type vibe.

 

[vibes]

I have experienced the spinning sensation of reclamation sex; it was especially mindblowing in the aftermath of catching my wife straying: it was the worst period of my life but those days' sex was over the moon

Have you acted on it further @mrsrobinsonxx ?

 

[Randomguy126]

Hot story would have been better if he fucked you in bathroom and hubby had to eat his cum from your pussy

 

[zach20092]

Many years ago, I was out with my husband and some friends, and we bumped into some of my friends from University. I spent some time away from my group, talking to a guy who did the same course as me, at University. This guy was actually a very regular sex partner of mine, back in the day. We chatted and laughed a lot, reminiscing about the old days. It did stir up a lot of old memories, all of them very pleasant, I hasten to add. When I was leaving, we gave each other quite a long hug, several kisses on the cheeks, and he squeezed my bottom, all in full view of my husband. Well, we'd all had quite a lot to drink.
On the taxi journey, back home, my husband didn't mention a thing, in fact he was unusually quiet. Back home, we got into bed. He was still quiet so I thought he was a bit pissed off and, assuming there was no chance of getting laid, I put a nightie on.
Then the questions started. Who was the guy, when did we meet, all simple stuff. At some point, he pushed the conversation on and asked if he was an old boyfriend. I said he was and then he asked if we'd had sex together. I'd nothing to hide, this was well before I'd met my husband, so I said yes. At this point I sat up. I could see my husbands hand moving under the duvet, right down in his cock area. God, he was getting off on this.
Was he good, how big was he, the questions kept coming and getting much more personal. I was actually getting turned on myself, too. Did I still fancy him. I played along and said I did, which was true to some extent. Then the final question; So, you'd like it if he was lying here next to you ? I couldn't stop myself. I sat up, grabbed the hem of my nightie and lifted it up to my waist, and held it there. Looking straight at him, I couldn't resist saying, if he was here, I wouldn't be wearing this, and threw it to the floor.
God, we had the most frantic fuck. I'd never known him to be so stiff.

Has anyone else had such an experience when telling their spouse about a previous experience.

I think it's a hot scenario even without any of the cheating, cucking add-ons..
As a guy, I have enjoyed knowing the details.. something about an increased level of intimacy and hence definitely better sex!

 

[LIDiver]

Has anyone else had such an experience when telling their spouse about a previous experience.

Yes! and it resulted in a couple of wild nights.
I told about it in this story:

https://literotica.com/s/torys-emergence

#Notashamelessstoryplug

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

Yes! and it resulted in a couple of wild nights.
I told about it in this story:

https://literotica.com/s/torys-emergence

#Notashamelessstoryplug

I loved the story, thank you for sending me the link. Isn't it strange that jealousy and possessiveness, which, in reality, are such terrible characteristics can turn into such overwhelming desires. Anne.

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

I think it's a hot scenario even without any of the cheating, cucking add-ons..
As a guy, I have enjoyed knowing the details.. something about an increased level of intimacy and hence definitely better sex!

I think it was all the more sexually stimulating because there wasn't any cheating etc. Although, I'm sure my husband, while he was fucking me, was imagining what James had been doing to me, those few years earlier. Anne.

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

Hot story would have been better if he fucked you in bathroom and hubby had to eat his cum from your pussy

I'm not so sure that is the case. The excitement for my husband was created in his own imagination and for me, I was wondering what he was imagining. Sounds a bit complicated, maybe, but the end result was almost explosive.

 

[Hipshot1554]

A man would have to be pretty insecure to resent sex partners before his time. It can add spice, if the husband views it in context. My wife had children before we met, so...

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

A man would have to be pretty insecure to resent sex partners before his time. It can add spice, if the husband views it in context. My wife had children before we met, so...

No, I don't think he's insecure, he's a great lover in his own right. We'd never spoken about previous lovers, but, I'm sure that, even that first time we slept together, he knew it wasn't the first time I'd had a man in my bed.

 

[Hipshot1554]

No, I don't think he's insecure, he's a great lover in his own right. We'd never spoken about previous lovers, but, I'm sure that, even that first time we slept together, he knew it wasn't the first time I'd had a man in my bed.

I don't know the time frame of your confession, but has he inquired more?

 

[Randomguy126]

Possibly but she could have fed into the insecurity part by playing that she still would have him

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

I don't know the time frame of your confession, but has he inquired more?

This particular incident was when we'd been married for about 7 years. The last time I had sex with that guy was when I left University, about 5 years earlier. We have had conversations about other lovers, over the years, yes.

 

[Hipshot1554]

This particular incident was when we'd been married for about 7 years. The last time I had sex with that guy was when I left University, about 5 years earlier. We have had conversations about other lovers, over the years, yes.

I thought that might be the case, given his reactions.

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

Possibly but she could have fed into the insecurity part by playing that she still would have him

I wouldn't change my husband for anybody.

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

I have experienced the spinning sensation of reclamation sex; it was especially mindblowing in the aftermath of catching my wife straying: it was the worst period of my life but those days' sex was over the moon

Have you acted on it further @mrsrobinsonxx ?

Thx for sharing your story @mrsrobinsonxx

I’m a man, so maybe not the feedback you’d like. But there was a very similar story in my house of my wife meeting a former lover in a social environment, the exploratory questions and the wild sex.

I’m not in touch enough with my emotions to explain it. But I guess it touches on a jealousy / ownership type vibe.

On the contrary, I do like feedback from men as well as women.
The situation, I described, was, of course, about a lover I had before I married my husband. So, the jealous angle shouldn't really apply. Yes, I added in a situation describing what I'd do with him now, if the opportunity arose. But, of course, it was actually quite safe for me to do so, considering the aroused state he was in.
I often wonder what I'd feel like if the shoe was on the other foot. If he described such a situation, and it included a woman I knew, I think I'd probably enjoy hearing about it, moreso than if she was a stranger to me. That may sound weird, but, I think I'd get aroused being able to picture them together.

 

[zach20092]

On the contrary, I do like feedback from men as well as women.
The situation, I described, was, of course, about a lover I had before I married my husband. So, the jealous angle shouldn't really apply. Yes, I added in a situation describing what I'd do with him now, if the opportunity arose. But, of course, it was actually quite safe for me to do so, considering the aroused state he was in.
I often wonder what I'd feel like if the shoe was on the other foot. If he described such a situation, and it included a woman I knew, I think I'd probably enjoy hearing about it, moreso than if she was a stranger to me. That may sound weird, but, I think I'd get aroused being able to picture them together.

Well from.my experience a lot of women aren't in your boat.. but when they are.. boy they are fun!!

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

Well from.my experience a lot of women aren't in your boat.. but when they are.. boy they are fun!!

Most women do have a fun side to their characters. It's your job to bring it out, then I'm sure you'll reap the rewards.

 

[ReallyRandyReader]

The situation, I described, was, of course, about a lover I had before I married my husband. So, the jealous angle shouldn't really apply. Yes, I added in a situation describing what I'd do with him now, if the opportunity arose. But, of course, it was actually quite safe for me to do so, considering the aroused state he was in.

Apologies for my lack of clarity. I was trying (and failing) to express my own emotions. Unfortunately something I find hard to dig up, dissect and communicate. But as stupid as it sounds I think for me there was something about the jealousy.

Maybe that was some fear of was he bigger or better or both than me. Or was it because he was before me. Tho this makes me sound illogical and quite vain and insecure I did feel something like that.

But as the next poster put much better than I the reclamation was a big driver

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

Apologies for my lack of clarity. I was trying (and failing) to express my own emotions. Unfortunately something I find hard to dig up, dissect and communicate. But as stupid as it sounds I think for me there was something about the jealousy.

Maybe that was some fear of was he bigger or better or both than me. Or was it because he was before me. Tho this makes me sound illogical and quite vain and insecure I did feel something like that.

But as the next poster put much better than I the reclamation was a big driver

No, I understand your emotions. And, you express them quite well. You mention bigger, better and before. I suppose that sums up the situation for a great many people.
Just ask yourself one question, where is she sleeping tonight ?

 

[cdstefi]

My wife and I are agreed that exes are exes and there's nothing to threaten us about them, but we do regularly share sex stories from our past lives. It really turns me on to hear about her previous bfs' cocks and sex, maybe her less so although she gets excited if I talk about my gay encounters while she's masturbating.

 

[cdstefi]

Many years ago, I was out with my husband and some friends, and we bumped into some of my friends from University. I spent some time away from my group, talking to a guy who did the same course as me, at University. This guy was actually a very regular sex partner of mine, back in the day. We chatted and laughed a lot, reminiscing about the old days. It did stir up a lot of old memories, all of them very pleasant, I hasten to add. When I was leaving, we gave each other quite a long hug, several kisses on the cheeks, and he squeezed my bottom, all in full view of my husband. Well, we'd all had quite a lot to drink.
On the taxi journey, back home, my husband didn't mention a thing, in fact he was unusually quiet. Back home, we got into bed. He was still quiet so I thought he was a bit pissed off and, assuming there was no chance of getting laid, I put a nightie on.
Then the questions started. Who was the guy, when did we meet, all simple stuff. At some point, he pushed the conversation on and asked if he was an old boyfriend. I said he was and then he asked if we'd had sex together. I'd nothing to hide, this was well before I'd met my husband, so I said yes. At this point I sat up. I could see my husbands hand moving under the duvet, right down in his cock area. God, he was getting off on this.
Was he good, how big was he, the questions kept coming and getting much more personal. I was actually getting turned on myself, too. Did I still fancy him. I played along and said I did, which was true to some extent. Then the final question; So, you'd like it if he was lying here next to you ? I couldn't stop myself. I sat up, grabbed the hem of my nightie and lifted it up to my waist, and held it there. Looking straight at him, I couldn't resist saying, if he was here, I wouldn't be wearing this, and threw it to the floor.
God, we had the most frantic fuck. I'd never known him to be so stiff.

Has anyone else had such an experience when telling their spouse about a previous experience.

Really hot story by the way! I'd have reacted exactly as he did (less jealousy though, I'd just have been extremely turned on)

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

My wife and I are agreed that exes are exes and there's nothing to threaten us about them, but we do regularly share sex stories from our past lives. It really turns me on to hear about her previous bfs' cocks and sex, maybe her less so although she gets excited if I talk about my gay encounters while she's masturbating.

And that's exactly the way it should be.

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

Really hot story by the way! I'd have reacted exactly as he did (less jealousy though, I'd just have been extremely turned on)

Thank you. And, looking at your profile photo, I bet you've got some amazing tales to tell. I'm going to be away, shortly. Back late tomorrow. PM me if you like. Anne.