Do you spit or swallow?

[MistressSin]

I don't can't speak for every woman out there but I'm sure there are a few who will agree with me here. I get a little angered when a guy ask's "Do you spit or swallow" then get dissapointed when you say spit or nither (for those who don't even like it in their mouth). First of all who said your gonna get a BJ in the first place! seccond just cause we don't all swallow dosn't mean we give lame BJ's! and third nine times out of ten if you ask a guy if he's tasted his own he'll say "No" or if he has, he didn't like the taste. If most of you don't like it what makes you think we like it!

Sorry, just had to get that out!

 

[GuyJD]

PRETTY DAMN GOOD, MISTRESS

Now that you've gotten that off of your chest, you may want to go back and edit out the misspells and grammatical errors.
But all and all, I admire you for saying that and agree with you wholeheartedly. Usually, we guys who are discouraged when women say that they spit or neither are the ones who would never, ever go down on his woman for fear of having her cum in his face and mouth.
Oh, and by the way, do you (ummmmm) never mind.

[Edited by GuyJD on 09-11-2000 at 02:16 AM]

 

[Siren]

I personally like to be asked.....

 

[MistressSin]

I embrace my mistakes

I don't claim to be a grammar expert so I'm gonna leave my mistakes....but to answer your question I spit and SOMETIMES swallow it really depends.

I don't always use always, it depends!

 

[MistressSin]

I taste my own also, and enjoy it too! nothin is as sweet as that nectar

 

[Thor's Hammer]

To pharaphrase a military policy, "Don't ask, don't tell" works for me. Only a truly foolish male would ask a question like that. In the words of the immortal W.C Fields, "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn." I don't ask.....I just enjoy.

<-----not foolish.....LOLOLOLOL

 

[Guest]

 

[ShyGuy68]

Re: PRETTY DAMN GOOD, MISTRESS

MistressSin

To me it doesn't matter if the woman swallows or not, I don't find it a big deal at all!!

I haven't really tasted myself, so why should I get dissapointed if a woman don't want to.

you may want to go back and edit out the misspells and grammatical errors.

Guy that wasn't very polite of you to say. Not everybody that come here are experets in the english/american language, or have it as their first language. So in my opinion, get off their back.

 

[GuyJD]

AS I WAS SAYING...........

I'll take that in consideration, Shy Guy. But to the subject at hand, I left my prior post without stressing my true opionion.
MISTRESS SIN.....Although I am one of those guys who love to receive oral from my woman (or any woman for that matter), I am a gentleman first. I would have to agree with that statement made by Thor's Hammer...DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL. As a gentleman, I don't even ask the woman if she performs oral sex let alone whether or not she swallows or spit. When we are performing foreplay, let me be surprised. And during oral sex, when I am about to cum I'll tell her. If she continues, then I know that answer without asking.

 

[Expertise]

I don't ask, thats just classless. I will warn her of what is about to transpire, forewarned is forearmed (yes I realize the joke potential) and is only fair.

I will say however that I certainly have a preference. Knowing that she is "in to me" and "in to it" enough that she wants every drop of my "essence" is ......KIND OF A HUGE TURN ON!

My $0.02 (devalued for inflation)

 

[Guest]

 

[Honeywetlick]

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Originally posted by Expertise
I will say however that I certainly have a preference. Knowing that she is "in to me" and "in to it" enough that she wants every drop of my "essence" is ......KIND OF A HUGE TURN ON!
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My bf loves the fact that I will go down on him and swallow, I don't mind either way and its only 10 calories so I'm not gonna get fat from doing it, by the way, if you hadn't guessed, I swallow.

 

[Siren]

Thor honey.....you got it wrong my sweetie....

 

[GuyJD]

SOME NUTRITIONAL FACTS

HONEYWETLICK.......Not only that but it is 95% protein. I have no idea whether it's soy, vegatable, whey, milk, or egg protein, but nonetheless, it's protein. So bon appetit, my love.

 

[Never]

Try this answer.
"I bite.. hard."

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Locked behind my frontdoor.

 

[Whispersecret]

Just because I wipe my own butt, doesn't mean I expect other people to do it for me.

Personally, I've never really bought into that argument about "if he's not willing to taste his own cum..." Just because someone is not INTO imbibing his/her own bodily fluids doesn't mean that person should miss out on oral sex.

So, in my opinion, a man has no right to expect me to swallow his cum, regardless of his willingness to taste his own. I agree with the others: it's TACKY to ask. To me, that's just setting yourself up to not be invited back. Why not just find out when it happens? Then, if she doesn't do what you like, keep your disappointment to yourself. If, after several sessions you mention that you'd really like it if she swallowed, I don't see anything wrong with a discussion about it. I've had that conversation with my husband, and luckily for me, he doesn't care if I spit or not. (I spit.)

My view is that it's my mouth, my tongue, my tastebuds. Whether I swallow or not (I don't) is my choice, not his. (Although I'd consider swallowing on a trial period if he wanted me to.) For all I know, when my Whisperhusband is between my legs, he's just licking away and letting all my juice run down like so much drool, never allowing a drop to go down his throat. I don't really care if he drinks my stuff or not. To me it's immaterial.

 

[Latina]

Can I add my $0.02? (I'm trying to get my postings
up past 30 to move out of "virgin" status).

First, I agree it is tacky to ask. Let the moment take
care of itself. If she swallows, fine. If not, just
enjoy each other. Would you dump someone you love, who loves
you and has great sex with you, just because she doesn't
swallow? No, of course not. See, it's just not that important.

A lot has to do with how he tastes. If you are in a steady relationship, you can regulate his diet to control the flavor. Stay away from garlic and citrus. Pasta is good,
because the body turns carbohydrates into sugar and that
makes him taste sweeter. Chocolate works wonders, but
it's even better spread ON him (with whipped cream and cherries--mmmmm!)! Wait 4 hours or more after he eats, for the good-tasting stuff to work its way into his semen.

I don't care if he tastes his own or not (by the way,
he HAS tasted his). What matters to me is he tastes
MINE, and he tells me I taste GREAT! He keeps licking and
nibbling me through 3 or 4 eruptions, and licks it all up.
He would eat me for hours if I let him, but I stop him so I don't get too sore to take his stiffness inside my wetness.
He's kind of funny in a way, like a gourmet savoring a tasty meal and wanting more and more because it's so good.
He loves my taste, so why shouldn't I love his?

So of course I'm going to reciprocate with the man I love.
If he is down my throat, I sallow and gulp rapidly to avoid
it oozing onto my face or choking me in my throat. But
then I don't taste his flavor, so that's NOT too cool. It
is better when he is part way out, it goes right onto my
tongue and tastebuds, I'll swish it around a little to savor the flavor before swallowing. Spit it out? No,
that's insulting, like he tastes evil and I don't love him enough to swallow. If you get to the point of sucking him and letting him flow into your mouth, why would you then choose NOT to swallow? To us, it is just a natural extension of our love and no big deal. We don't even
really think about it.

Usually, he'll pull out of my mouth/throat before he
comes anyway, so he can save it for inside my kitty-cat.
He'd rather erupt there than in my mouth, and I'd rather
he did, too. But I don't mind when he does come from a BJ,
and I do prefer to swallow than spit it out. Where
would I spit it, anyway? Onto the sheets or my face and make a mess? Spit on him and make the insult worse?
We do keep a towel by the bed to clean up after sex,
but I wouldn't want to have my spit and his come on it
BEFORE we clean-up from our fu**ing.

I see the issues as love, respect, and caring. If he'll
go down on you and swallow, then why not do it for him?

I like the comments about it being low-calorie protein.
Made me laugh.

-- Latina

 

[Wizard]

So well put..........................

 

[*Eve*]

I see your point Mistress, but what annoys me are the guys that don't bother to ask if you catch my drift.

 

[angie girl]

angry brunette

Hey GuyJD? speaking as a trashy slut who could suck your balls through a garden hose, you are so fucking typical, no not typical, dumb as dirt. MistressSin tries to say something and your first words are correct her grammar?

Well honey, if you are that anal, stick that limp dick in your ass and try to get a thrill. Next time, and I doubt there has been any time, any girl is dumb enuff (oops is that not spelled right?), to suck your spaghetti noodle, while she does it, try not to correct her spelling. Maybe you'll enjoy it more babe.

 

[Siren]

OH WIZZIE.........

 

[Stormystarr]

I have no problem swallowing at any time, in fact I love to do it, but when they ask, it really puts me off in a big way.

 

[lilfrk]

I never used to spit or swallow. I didn't let him cum in my mouth. But through the wonders of reading. I decided to give it a try. The first time I did it I thought he was dead. I actually had to shake him to make him breath(or so I thought). But now all I ever do is swallow. I like the feel and the taste. Most of all I like his reaction.

 

[Shannon]

I swallow most of the time. I could never understand why spit?? You do all that work and then spit it out. I know I would be upset if someone was going down on my and I came and the person started spitting my cum. But that is just me.

 

[Gaucho]

Okay. First rule of sex (or it should be the first rule if it isn't): neither person should have to do anything they don't want to. The word, folks, is "consensual". How many people on this board have performed a sex act simply because their partner wanted it and not because of any desire on their part. C'mon, now, raise hands. Yeah, that's what I thought. You know what the definition of doing something you don't want to is, don't you? A job. (Hey! Maybe that's why it's called a blow-job? But I digress.)

The purpose of sex (over and above any reproductive aspects) is mutual pleasure - accent on the mutual. And if you're giving someone head and your primary thought is "what's going to happen when they come?", that's not pleasure. You're not having any fun and, chances are, your partner isn't either. Any man who would ask the question beforehand is a moron and is probably still looking for a girlfriend other than his hand. Of course, you have to forewarn your partner (preferably when your come is not already halfway up your cock so that you don't even get a chance to get the words out - "I'm cum-" Splat!)

Personally, I've always liked Robin Williams line about oral sex. "Bring a lunch and stay for the day!" When performing oral sex (for a man or a woman) you should be like a rodeo rider trying to set a new world's record. It should take 5 men and a crowbar to pry you loose, and all the while your thought process should be, "what can I be doing right now to make this hotter for both of us?" When that happens, what happens when your partner comes will take care of itself.