Do You Have Someone That You Think Of As "The One Who Got Away"?

[k¡tty]

What made that person be (your) the one?
What about them made them so special?
What ended things between you?

Do you think that they will be the only one like that in your life?
I don't mean do you think you'll never love again but do you think that there will ever be anyone who could match up to how you felt about the other? How they made you feel?



Tell me about your "one who got away".

 

[lobito]

yes & everything for the next two..

 

[Mia62]

Nope.

The one that I was wondering about has turned out to be one of my bestest friends ever.

 

[Spaceboy]

Yes, kitty, I do have someone fitting that description in mind. I just don't know if I should go into much detail about her here.

 

[Killswitch]

The one who got away is going to be my current wife, if I dont get my shit together.

 

[sanjuaneros]

Si'

 

[Minkey Boodle]

Big Sexy. We coulda made some magic, he and I. But I didn't even give him the chance. Then, when it was too late, he got away. Damn!!

 

[Bluesboy2]

Mine is actually "The one that died." She was my soul-mate, my band-mate, my lover, my hair dresser and my best friend. She knew me better than I ever will and never gave up on me even when I gave up on myself. I will never forget her and all that she did for me. There is a part of her in every note of every tune I play.

 

[Raina]

I used to think so...for a long time. But now I think, "I'm glad I let that one go."

If I was still pining for the one that could never be, I couldn't be as happy as I am now.

*shrugs*

I think I've grown a lot since then. If that one came back to me now, I'd still have to let him go.

 

[k¡tty]

- He had the kind of personality that draws people to him, you can't help but like him. He has this infectious laugh, knows how to make you feel special and that you're the most important person in the world.

He could read my moods, much to my chagrin. lol

He was/is my best friend, the kind of person you know that you can tell anything to and he'll still love and respect you. He touched places in my heart that I never knew existed until him.

Do you think that they will be the only one like that in your life?
I don't mean do you think you'll never love again but do you think that there will ever be anyone who could match up to how you felt about the other? How they made you feel?


I hope so.. how sad if not.

 

[sweet soft kiss]

I have pinned, wept and gnashed my teeth over one... but I rationalized it away finally...

 

[k¡tty]

Mine is actually "The one that died." She was my soul-mate, my band-mate, my lover, my hair dresser and my best friend. She knew me better than I ever will and never gave up on me even when I gave up on myself. I will never forget her and all that she did for me. There is a part of her in every note of every tune I play.

Beautiful.


(hugs) spaceboy.. I'm sorry hon.

 

[Bidin~Time]

yes, sometimes


but that was a lifetime ago

 

[HeavyStick]

Before I joined the Corps.

 

[Killswitch]

Beautiful.


(hugs) spaceboy.. I'm sorry hon.

Achem.....you meant bluesboy....spaceboy is in a one man band, plays the skin flute, and never combs his hair.

 

[Killswitch]

Awesome av Heavy.



Dickhead.

 

[k¡tty]

Achem.....you meant bluesboy....spaceboy is in a one man band, plays the skin flute, and never combs his hair.

I'm sure you've noticed that I rarely make mistakes when I address someone.


I was speaking to both, hence the quote to BB and the mention of Spaceboy several lines down.

 

[Bluesboy2]

Beautiful.

Thank you, that was of course the condensed version. But this thread kinda took me a long way back for a few minutes. In a good but sad way.

 

[teddybear4play]

What made that person be (your) the one?
What about them made them so special?

She was brilliant. I'd read a lot of stuff she wrote and was simply captivated by the depth of her intelligence and her prowess with the written word.

What ended things between you?

I don't know. We'd never actually met; we exchanged a lot of e-mails and online conversations, and talked on the phone once, but then she might as well have fallen off the face of the earth. I think that, more than anything else, is why I can't get her out of my mind. No closure. It's an open wound on my soul.

Do you think that they will be the only one like that in your life?
I don't mean do you think you'll never love again but do you think that there will ever be anyone who could match up to how you felt about the other? How they made you feel?

I still think there will be, despite whatever my rational mind might say.

TB4p

 

[Eumenides]

What made that person be (your) the one? The way we connected.

What about them made them so special?

It's not something you can put into words

What ended things between you?

abstaining from this question

Do you think that they will be the only one like that in your life?

no

I don't mean do you think you'll never love again but do you think that there will ever be anyone who could match up to how you felt about the other?

It's like apples and oranges. There's no comparison.

 

[Spaceboy]

Not to hijack the thread at all, but I surely hope you were kidding killswitch.

 

[Killswitch]

Of course I was, and not only that I was fucked up....lol
I didnt see you had posted in the thread earlier.....

 

[dragonhearted]

Yes, kitty, I do have someone fitting that description in mind. I just don't know if I should go into much detail about her here.

Spacebaby...you are a cutie!


Edited to say: airborne92 was the one who got away....he broke it off.....and it is too long and painful to explain. Sorry!

 

[Stout chap]

Ahahahaha. Very good.

I had a very large crush on a girl all trhoughout my school years. Never asked her out because I thought she wouldn't fancy me. Turns out she really did fancy me but was too embarrassed to say so and thought I'd reject her. It is significant because I'm still with my first girlfriend (whom I love very much) and things might have been very different indeed if I had had the balls to ask this other girl out.

 

[autymn]

awwwww the one that got away We met playing pool we had everything in common and sometimes nothing at all ....~S~ ...He could bring a smile to my face at the mere thought of him ...the way He would say my name....His scent on my hair the way His fingertips would lightly caress the side of my face ....~sighs~ we were together for almost a year I used to get butterflies when I knew He was going to come over....I would smile constantly and there never seemed to be any bad days.......

How did it end?
~L~ I caught Him fucking my best friend in the back of my truck! It would seem His feelings weren't as strong as mine....I was young ...it was heart wrenching ....and at the time there was no way I could forgive either of them!

BUT! ~G~ ...I have found a wonderful Man that I love dearly and He makes me feel every bit as wonderful though I will never forget my first love I've learned that He can be replaced with something so much better !