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Do you get along with any of your ex's...

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lulu and lilminx. there are other's i don't want to kill. even some i'd say hi to and maybe catch up a bit if i happened to run into them. but they are the only two i hang with. too bad lilminx hates her.
 
Nope. It's to painful to see and/or speak to them as they broke my trust and can not and will not ever have the opportunity to earn it back.
 
ex #1 and his wife are my best friends.. We are even spending Thanksgiving together..

ex #2 and his skanky ho girlfriend.. blah.. die bastard! Oh.. errr.. ummm ... No I don't get along with him.. and he is my husbands brother.. so NOT seeing him is impossible..
 
i do get along with my exs however it took me a while to get to that point, especially with my ex girlfriend. our breakup was just plain ugly, and we both suffered for it. then i grew up a little and she lightened up a little and now we're friends. of course our relationship will never be as close as it was, but we can make pleasant conversation these days.
i get along with my most recent ex boyfriend so well that the last time we saw each other before i left for school we ended up having sex :rolleyes:
 
No, can't say that I do. I hope that he fucking dies a slow death. Which he seems to be doing without any help from me.
 
I get along with most of them. i was never involved in any really committed relationships, so there wasn't a huge depth of feeling that could become hate.

i can think of lovers that i'd rather not see again, but mostly because i know we have nothing in common.

now, if anyone has advice on retaining a civil relationship with an exhusband...
 
There are some ex's of mine that I dont talk to, and frankly dont care if I do or not, mainly because it was ended on a bad note, or things just didnt work out well enough or either of us.


But, on the other hand, there are ex's that I consider some of my best friends. It didnt work out as a relationship, but works so much better as a friendship. We talk still about our most deepest darkest, dirtiest little secrets, but on a less romantic level. And it works out that way.

*moves on from soapbox*

Thank you. :D
 
my first husband....well, there is something about having a 12 gauge loaded and put in your face that really makes you not want to see him again.

Now my second husband and i are better friends now than we were when we were married. In fact, my husband and i introduced him to his present wife....she's my husband's ex.

i'm also on very good terms with my oldest son's father. i just can' t bring myself to hate someone that fathered one of my children. However, that does not mean that i trust him.
 
pagancowgirl said:

now, if anyone has advice on retaining a civil relationship with an exhusband...
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I don't think there is any advice anyone could give you. My ex husband and I get along wonderful, but it hasn't always been like that. He was nothing but a cheater when we were together. He married one of his "girlfriends" even. I was hurt and devestated.. yet happy when we divorced. I was only 18 when we married, first child was born shortly after we were married. I became an instant grown up over night. He was my life. One day he was there, the next he was gone.

It took me YEARS to get over the pain, i never hated him. I will always have a special place in my heart for him. He was my first love and the father of my children.

We divorced in 93 and were always civil to one another. Because he has custody of our kids, I would see him all the time at any event they were in and every other weekend for visitation. Last summer during baseball season his wife and I had a heart to heart talk. Found out we were just like one another. We talked for hours on the phone and developed a great relationship. We can bitch to one another about husbands, mothers, kids and little things that mean nothing to anyone but me or her. I know her better then her husband does. She knows me better then my husband does.

Right now we are planning Thanksgiving dinner.. via AIM.. They are coming to my house.. the other sides of our families (in laws) not only think this relationship is weird, they just don't understand why we get along so well.

I don't understand it either.. but I don't want to understand it, I want to enjoy it. Enjoy the love she has for my children.. the children SHE is raising.. and enjoy the love and understanding we have for each other (me, her and our husbands)

I guess the only advice I can give you.. is be civil and friendly.. no matter what kind of an ass he is.. smile.. be friendly and talk to him nicely.. ignore things he does and says.. things will get better with time

You never know what is going to happen

Ok.. enough rambling.. :)
 
Still friends with them all. I never understood how you could be so close to someone that you end up hating the rest of your life.

Granted, I was very careful about who I got close to in the first place. Great women. Great women.
 
I had to think about this one.... I've been with my man 15 years, so it has been a long time since I notched up an ex.

I only ever dated jerks, not bustards, so I have no real hate for any of them, but there are none of them I would give another go round if I was ever single again.
 
Well to be honest I would have to say yes and no..... some of my ex's I hate with a fiery passion and wish they would die and slow and painful death. But there are one or two which I am still friends with and will always remain friends with.... I know that I will never get back with them because that is not what either of us want but us just being friends is better than nothing.
 
I get along with all my ex-girlfriends/wives, as well as their boyfriends or husbands. I see no reason why I shouldn't be their friend, or someone they can call if they need help. I loved them once, and in a different way, I still love them. They are part of my life's story. With life so short and uncertain, I don't want things undone, or unsaid.:D
 
I don't hate any of my ex's, some have taught me a lot. I don't even hate my ex husband who was violent. It was his problem not mine. I did the best I could in our relationship.
I have two kids to him (I love my kids :) Big time ) and even though we were not meant to be together, we made two great kids who I believe will grow up and be people I love and am proud of.
He drops by once a week for access, sometimes I feel uncomfortable as it can be hard to put the physical violence behind you. I have forgiven him but will never trust him completely. I wish him well in life.
The other thing is things seemed to be more on a balance. Since I told him I am not frightened of him and that he cannot control me.
Anyway if he hadn't come into my life, things would have been completely different and I would not have found my husband :)
 
I try to get along with my ex-gf. HOWEVER, SHE doesn't get along with ME!!!!!!!!!!
 
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paganangel said:
lulu and lilminx. there are other's i don't want to kill. even some i'd say hi to and maybe catch up a bit if i happened to run into them. but they are the only two i hang with. too bad lilminx hates her.
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Hey, I tried... Maybe if she had some MANNERS, I wouldn't have a problem with her. We've been over this already. :rolleyes:
 
*bratcat* said:
ex or current girlfriends/wivesboyfriends/husbands???

Or do you get along with any of your ex-partners???


I get along with/have coffee or lunch with some of my ex's in RL and online, I think I get along with everyone...
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Well, not bad. My ex-wife fondly thinks we'll get back together in a couple of years, so I get sex when I want and how I want it (which never happened during marriage!) and a nice meal afterwards... Some hope! In a couple of years, I'll tell her the cold, bitter truth, and laugh myself to sleep later that night :) I like to get my retaliation in nice and slowly, for best effect.


Styphon
 
Ex's

I'm not really that bothered about any of my ex boyfriends - I can sit and have a conversation with most of them.

Except one of them who is a complete and utter bastard - I'd be happy if I never saw him again !
 
I used to be friends with a few of my ex's.
My last relationship prior to my marriage was a live-in lover/engagement. We broke up and remained best of friends. It changed once I got married. He hasn't spoken to me since.
 
Exes

I would be civil to all of them, but I do not like the two who kissed and told others what I was like in bed after we broke up. I had no clue until a real friend of mine told me what had been said. I wondered why some people looked at me funny. Looking back on that now<it was a while ago>, it is sort of funny, but not the best for forging a lifeling friendship.

Now I am wondering how many of those guys wanted to bed but did not know how to approach me<teehee>
 
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