Do you ever just have days??

[TN_Vixen]

where you're tired? Tired of everything, tired of working hard but not enough to meet someone else's expectations? Tired of searching for the "perfect" mate? Tired of being "good?" Tired of striving to be the best for yourself and find being by yourself isn't enough?

Just tired?

What do you do?

 

[HSWriter]

I have days like that...

I say fuck the world and I just lay in bed all day... I've also found that attending an orgy can help...

 

[Ezzy]

I have found that the ...

Days like that suck big time.

I pour a glass of scotch, dig through my cd's and find Rachmaninov's 2nd piano concerto, drop it into the player then crank up the volumne and kick back.

Sipping slowly on the scotch; as the waves of music flow over me and through me, driving the darkness out of my soul and refreshing my spirit.

It never fails to recindle the fire in my soul and the pilot light in my heart.



EZ

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Yes I do.....

those days you come into my thoughts - frustrating days those.

 

[R Nitelight]

TN_Vixen

I just quit. I don't recommend it. It's a long climb back.

 

[TN_Vixen]

HS.. normally flippant responses about orgies make me smile, but tonight that's not what I was looking for as a solution, but I appreciate the advice. ;-)

Ezzy... that's the ticket... *smile* but that soothes away anxiety rather than solving the problem. I'm a "fixer" I want to fix the problem instead of continually ignoring it... which is what I tend to do most of the time.. laughing

Sparky.. honey.. dont'cha know i think about you too darlin'? *grin*

 

[TN_Vixen]

Nite

I've done that. Quit. I used to do it more often than now and it IS a long climb back, I agree.

Quitting seems so seductive though, doesn't it?

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Vix.....DA

Bone-O-Meter goes bang - wang'n clang. Straight up, north to Alaska!!!

 

[TN_Vixen]

sparks....

(whispering) I... ummmm... *blush* missed you. *kiss*

 

[Chuckus]

Well I in fact have JUST had two of those days........

where I wish like HELL I could have simply avoided all together. The past two days at work have just been from Hell, I am telling you, Satan himself weaved this little web for me and I am stuck in it.........I would love to just say PISS OFF to the world (of work) and just disappear, however I am facing my challenges head on and doing what I must and can.

What is my solution er, I mean remedy to get me out of the funk? Well a coupla drinks never hurt coupled with some good tunes in the backround and an ass whipping of Florida by one of my favorite college football teams (Miami) always can help.........go Sooners btw.......

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

I get my flannel pj's on and grab some chocolate. Turn off the phone, lock the door and get in my bed and read a good book.

 

[TN_Vixen]

bonnie wee.. umm, I mean Beaver.. hehe

that's always been my salvation... *s*

You're da chick in my book. *laughing*

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

LOL thanks. But I think Chocolate is the big factor too and if I don't have chocolate it has to be triple brownie overload icecream.

 

[fgarvb1]

days.???

hell, i have had years like that.!!

but what's one to do.?

do the best you can with out killing yourself,try to have as much fun as you can with out harming others.

find out what makes you happy and go for it..

 

[TN_Vixen]

chocolate..

LOL thanks. But I think Chocolate is the big factor too and if I don't have chocolate it has to be triple brownie overload icecream.

*bowing* I'm not worthy...I'm not worthy.... hehe

How much have YOU spent in the Godiva store, bon bon? You tell and I'll tell. *s8

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Too much money some say.....

But...

I say no amount is ever enough.

 

[teresafannin]

Big fuzzy robe, a good book & the cat curled up next to me. Loreena McKennon on the stereo, the ringer on the phone turned off & I can escape from the world, at least for a few hours.

 

[naudiz]

I hate days like that. Thankfully, they come less frequently compared to last year, though lately I've been having a bad spell.

I just try to get past the moment and not focus too hard on the future or past. Turn off the phone, don't answer the door, find a place to get comfy, and settle down with a good book. Beethoven's "Ode to Joy" is the music of choice for me. Sometimes Ravel's "Bolero" is good - the repitition is kind of hypnotic for me.

If I can't get interested in reading, I'll write a stream of consciousness, i.e. I put down to paper whatever's going through my mind no matter how vile, poorly worded, fragmented, or senseless. Even if I never read it, it helps just to get it out.

And of course, the importance of fuzzy bunny slippers can never be over-emphasized.

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Yep, I have them all the time....

And I am very fortunate that I am self employed. Otherwise I would have been fired long ago for my work habits.

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