Do you count Bachelor/Bachelorette party entertainment as cheating?

[jsawnlim]

In this day and age, it's essentially expected both the bride and groom's parties are to contain some entertainment (and from anecdotes, it seems like the ladies have much wilder parties despite the stereotypes of men).

Given that everyone seems to have already implicitly agreed on what is going on, perhaps to some limitations, I'm curious within the lit community, do you view any sexual entertainment at bachelor/bachelorette parties as cheating?

It seems we're just at a point where we don't explicitly condone it, but let it slide.

 

[dirtycarol]

I was told once, "Eati'n ain't cheati'n." Of course he was after a blow-job...

I would say, if the partner is informed of what could happen and given permission to participate, informed if it did, then no, it's not cheating. Other wise, it is.

My opinion, I'm 58. Younger people may see it differently.

 

[secretSanna]

Me not personally. Tbh I'm a bit of a cuckquean and wouldn't mind something to happen as well... Then he'd tell me all about it on our wedding night but I wouldn't want anyone else to know so that's the problem.

 

[whatahoot]

I voted no but in my case, my husband and I gave each other a pass for a couple of weeks leading up to our wedding. I think the general idea of a bachelor and a Bachelorette party is to have that one last hurrah as a "single" person. I would think that some fun casual sex would be a part of that, but I understand that's not really the case.