Do Women Masturbate Only When...

[RazeByFire]

they are feeling excited or do you just do it because you know it will feel good?

Is it something you do everyday at a certain time. In the shower, when you wake up, just before you go to bed?

I'm sure I will get a lot of answers -'both' and 'I'm always excited', but I really want to know is do you do it when you 'need' to or do you just do it because it feels good.

BTW when you are in a relationship do you fantasize about your lover or something else?

Thanks.
ray_blake@hotmail.com

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

I enjoy my body...

...and the way that I can make it feel. I love that I Know how and where to touch to get myself going. I masturbate quite often. Often I am already excited and feel that I "need to". However, there are times when I am just "lounging around" letting my mind wander, and I start to think about my body and the way I can make it feel....and that starts it. So, I guess to answer your question, sometimes I "need to" and sometimes I just want to feel good..........



*smile* Reina

 

[CarolineOh]

Re: I enjoy my body...

...and the way that I can make it feel. I love that I Know how and where to touch to get myself going. I masturbate quite often. Often I am already excited and feel that I "need to". However, there are times when I am just "lounging around" letting my mind wander, and I start to think about my body and the way I can make it feel....and that starts it. So, I guess to answer your question, sometimes I "need to" and sometimes I just want to feel good..........



*smile* Reina

That's a pretty definitive answer for me too. La reina, do you ever catch yourself doing it and not realize when you started?

 

[arcticfox]

I masturbate cos it will feel good, usually. sometimes when I'm hot and I think it might help me concentrate better if I come (e.g. when dallying at lit at work!) but I don't think there's the same 'urgency' as with guys. Often I do it if I'm bored!!!!
Or stoned. Or if I am late on my period and want to try to induce it (sorry for the gynae detail ) if I'm not with a guy at that time. Or if I feel a bit out of sorts - very relaxing!!
Does that answer your question. Basically, i do it a LOT! (sometimes too much - bad for productivity)

arcticfox

 

[arcticfox]

Oh, I forgot to say: generally I do fantasise about my lover if I'm in a relationship, and I ALWAYS do when I'm nearer my orgasm - I always think about my guy inside me making me come. Other fantasies are ok for warm up but they don't really have the same ooomph as memories of the real thing!! And when I'm not in a relationship, I tend to think about the last guy I was sleeping with. So yeah, it's generally real guys all down the line...

arcticfox

 

[ynattirb]

There are lots of reasons-

Sometimes I do it because I'm bored.
Sometimes I do it because I'm horny.
Sometimes I do it to make myself horny and/or wet.
Sometimes I do it to make my husband horny and/or hard.
And Sometimes I do it because I've been left unsatisfied by my husband.

As for fantasies, it could be anything - real or imaginary. I hate to say it but more often than not I'm not fantasizing about anything. I just enjoy making myself cum. I'm sooooo much better at it than anyone else could ever be.

 

[MissVictoria]

I discovered at the age of five that I could orgasm. Back then I did it because it felt good. Later on, it began to involve fantasy. Now it involves both, and sometimes is done only to (unsucessfully) release sexual tension.

Sex is an urge for women, yes. But very infrequantly is it a physical need. When a physical need occurs, for me, masturbation does not satisfy it. It isn't the same.

 

[Quint]

Precocious much, Miss Victoria?

I was 13ish, in the shower, and noticed something felt mighty nice. Few minutes later, BAM! I thought I was going to get pregnant. Silly, silly me.

Often I'm simply restless and my fingers need something to do. Sometimes I feel obligated to do it, like if I'm reading a particularly lascivious story and I don't want to waste it. It also is a surefire way to distract me from migraines for about 15 minutes, which is a lifesaver. I rarely "need" to; my libido isn't what it used to be, so any needs I have rarely involve orgasm. If I ever need to come, I'll call hunny over. He's more than willing to take my hands' place.

 

[CuriouslilQT]

I mostly have urges in the morning. It will be a good thing waking up to someone.
I know I do it most often when I am horny, but sometime remembering the feeling makes me want to do it.
And I definately do it cause it feels good!!
And i have always fantasized about a guy I wanted to be with
or a guy I was with. Never anything out of reach.

Ahhh...nothing like it!

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

YES!

That's a pretty definitive answer for me too. La reina, do you ever catch yourself doing it and not realize when you started?

____________

CarolineOh

Funny thing...sometimes it does happen that way....laying in bed...thinking about someone...something...and before you know it....I am about ready to bring myself over the edge!



*smile* Reina

 

[Dew71]

I hope you Ladies won't mind me intruding your privacy...

As a man I love watching a woman masturbate, it' is very erotic and such a turn on, I'm currently having a sexual affair with a married woman in her early 40's and she is always masturbating if I'm not inside her...she will ring me and tell me what she is doing even when she is driving, no later than yesterday she did it in a restaurant and stroking my bulge with her foot, I almost lost it so much she turns me on..
I also love when a woman tells me how to touch her, be it with my fingers or with my tongue...

I shall enjoy reading many more of your replies.

Cheecky can be kinky,

 

[wetnhorny_slave]

most of the time i do it to relax after a stressful day, and cuz it feels great! sometimes, however, i catch myself doing just to get to sleep at night. i should probably stop that.

 

[CuriouslilQT]

yeah..I found that everytime I finish masturbating..I fall asleep ...like right away.


nice sleeping pill

 

[enjoyingitall]

Hmmm..you're supposed to have a reason to masturbate?
lol..I never knew that.

 

[Guest]

I normally do it late at a night when everyone's in bed, or when no one's home, and mostly out of boredom. Being a 21 year old horny virgin isn't fun, and I run here to find a good story or a beautiful woman...couple that with images of various people...once even a close friend--she's incredibly hot.

Amanda

 

[alphacat]

Sometimes I get really horny and feel like I need to or I'm going to explode with sexual tension. Sometimes I just miss my girlfriend (and her body and her fingers and her tongue), and sometimes I'm just not feeling that great and I want something to cheer me up. Sometimes I'm just a bit horny and I'll read some stories or look at hot pictures or something and make myself need it.
I love touching myself. That's something I've been doing since I was.. oh.. maybe 10 or 11. ::laughs:: actually, the thing I remember most about the first time I came was that the rubbing of my flannel pajama sleeve against the flannel bottoms in the dark made little sparks of static electricity (and that that's just what touching myself felt like, too - electricity).

Mmm.

 

[His_kitty]

I'm a very sexual person ... with such a high sex drive I normally masterbate when the urge arises. Rarely do I, just because.

As for the other question I fantasize about my online partner, not only because I'm usually speaking to him when I'm playing but because, well..... he just does it for me

kitty

 

[DarkkSeduction]

morning noon and night

I do it morning noon and night and would do it many times in between if i could find the time...it feels awesome it releases tension and its just plain fun.....esp if someone is watching

 

[CallaLily]

Hm. I masturbate whenever I feel the urge. (Well, sometimes I feel the urge and it would be inappropriate to masturbate, like at a meeting at work or something). I like masturbating in the shower, because my fiance loves the smell of my pussy in the morning. I enjoy masturbating when I'm excited or when I just need to release tension, like right before I go to sleep, because nobody knows how to touch me better than myself.

I've been with my fiance for five years. I fantasize about him, sometimes I fantasize about other people I know, don't know, etc. It just depends, I think.

 

[ICUP]

Sometimes thinking on how good it will feel will cause me to masturbate

 

[sweetlittleass]

Well.....

Is there only certain time/reasons for a woman to masterbate? I only do it when my dom tells me to, but there are times when I certainly wish he would tell me so that I can deal with my horniness. But he definately likes it when I do, and I know I certainly do too!

When I am without a dom, I do it at every chance that I get however!! I most definately do it every chance I get - when I'm bored, as a sleep aid if I can't sleep, when I'm horny, when I want basically.


Baby

 

[deliciously_naughty]

For me, masturbation serves many purposes....

sometimes I masturbate to relieve stress...an orgasm can do wonders for writers block, or if I'm freaking out about something

sometimes I do it because I was stimulated by something...a woman or man I saw that day, something sexy on tv or in a book

sometimes I just want to orgasm

and well...sometimes because I'm horny


I generally fantasize about the things I would never do for whatever reason in real life. Sometimes that means that my so is involved, most of the time not. Indulging in those sexy taboo fantasies gets me off.

 

[welshman]

It's proof of humanity's latent telepathy: e.g. I think of a woman masturbating as I masturbate because it's one of the most erotic things there is to see & hear. A woman subconciously picks this up, feels horny and needs to masturbate, transmits this image to me (and many others) and the images in my imagination make me want to masturbate.............

Woman lying prone on bed, legs apart, hand on cunt, looking into my eyes with hers as her pleasure becomes mine. Erotic perfection!

 

[Leg Up]

Yes, yes and yes...

they are feeling excited or do you just do it because you know it will feel good?

Is it something you do everyday at a certain time. In the shower, when you wake up, just before you go to bed?

I'm sure I will get a lot of answers -'both' and 'I'm always excited', but I really want to know is do you do it when you 'need' to or do you just do it because it feels good.

BTW when you are in a relationship do you fantasize about your lover or something else?

Thanks.
ray_blake@hotmail.com

Mmmm...I do it when I'm excited, bored, stressed or am just feeling really relaxed.

My SO loves to watch and when all else fails in distracting him from other things, if I start masturbating, I can ALWAYS seduce him That's a real turn on for me.

Soooo...how many of you guys out there enjoy watching? Inquiring minds wanna know....

 

[Leg Up]

It's proof of humanity's latent telepathy: e.g. I think of a woman masturbating as I masturbate because it's one of the most erotic things there is to see & hear. A woman subconciously picks this up, feels horny and needs to masturbate, transmits this image to me (and many others) and the images in my imagination make me want to masturbate.............

Woman lying prone on bed, legs apart, hand on cunt, looking into my eyes with hers as her pleasure becomes mine. Erotic perfection!

<lascivious grin>... MUST be a Brit thing...My SO is British... God love 'em. Long distance relationships make masturbation an absolute necessity But the images, you are oh, so right, Welshman...the images <soft sigh>...

So, Welshman...do you enjoy conversation along with the visuals? Just curious...