Do women enjoy receiving oral sex??

FrankJ

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HI there.. This is my VERY first ever post to a group like this, but here goes....

I am a 42-yr-old man, married for 20+ years. To make a long story short, I would rather perform oral sex on a woman all night than anything else. Though being on the receiving end is nice (to say the least), being the giver does more for me! My spouse thinks receiving orally is not "normal"...:( Needless to say, this is extremely frustrating for me!

Don't most women enjoy receiving pleasure via oral stimulation??
 
FrankJ

I think theres something wrong with your wife...oral is the best way to give the chick an orgasm! like damn, she should love you even more just because you like giving it. She needs to wake up and get into life!
 
Are you kidding? Most women love receiving oral...and too many guys don't want to give it. The orgasms a woman gets from oral sex are different (not better, just different)...she doesn't realize how fortunate she is.

And just who decides what's "normal"?
 
Well....she isn't really "fortunate". She has always had a kind of "prurient" idea of what sex "should" be....so much so that she refuses to even TRY to enjoy it.. Because of this, she won't let me "go down" on her...VERY frustrating!
HELP!!
 
Going Down

I love my lover to go down on me, he's great at going down, it's estacy. And in return he loves me going down on him. The taste of our juices that we share is highly senual. Your wife doesn't know what she's missing, it's a great adventure, a highly satisfying adventure. I feel sorry for you.
 
Same here Frank. My wife has always hated the entire subject of oral. Considers it perversion in the extreme. I'm the same age as you, so I am also interrested in a answer. However, we may as well face it, at this stage in life it ain't gonna change.
 
????

I know I do. I know some women who don't, but they generally have issues letting themselves go at all, or they find it gross.

Heck, I wish my husband liked giving!
 
hi frankj,I am in the same boat as you.I am also 42 and my wife is 38.I love to give her oral pleasure but she can not stand recieving it for long,maybe aminute or so and she wants me to fuck her.Its very frustrating,why can't she just relax and enjoy?She said its too much for her and she only like to come when fucking.Once a girl gave her oral and she came big time but she can't let go with me.I tried talking to her about it and she agreed to let me do it but each time she just want me made her come by fucking.Why can't she understand I love to make her come by licking her?What am I to do? All the Best.
 
Don't Expect it to get Better!!!

Frank,

I'm 57 and been married for 38 years. I love to perform oral sex also. When I look at a woman's pussy my mouth waters. My wife doesn't even like to talk about it due to some of her puritanical attitudes. However, I don't ask, I just perform it on her and she absolutely loves it. I make her have earth shattering orgasms every time. She even loves me to play with her ass when I am going down on her, but she would never admit it or talk about it. I have learned to just do it and not talk about it. So don't expect it to get better with age, it doesn't!!! Now my problem is she doesn't want to have sex of any kind, so both my tongue and dick are presently unemployed.

Since oral sex is not considered sex by our President, are there any ladies out there that would like to make use of an unemployed tongue.

Jay
 
Oral manipulation is what my son normally begins with when he wants to have sex with me. I may not be in the mood right at that moment but after a while of this and looking at his eyes stare at me as he eats me drives me really wild and makes me come several times before he actually comes inside me. Yes I love oral very much.
 
Oral <> Giving and Receiving...

Frank... Oral is my favorite... I must admit that giving is more of a turn on for me than receiving... But if a woman can find a person (man or woman) who can perform oral sex on her and do it right... She's one lucky girl...
 
Dee J

Good God lady, where have you been all my life. First, I see you like older men and at 57 I definitely qualify. Then, I see that you love to give and receive oral sex. You are too good to be true! You must already have a husband or boyfriend and are not looking. You make my heart pump more blood into the middle of my body, if you know what I mean, LOL.

Love ya,
Jay
 
nothing beats oral

there is no erotic image better than a man's head between my legs. and my favorite? giving head, preferably outside, his ass in the sunshine! makes me crazy just thinking about it.
 
I can't speak for most women, but I most CERTAINLY do enjoy oral sex!

The sensations that I get from an experienced tongue are overwhelming. The taste and smell of me on my lover's lips is enough to send me over the edge. As a matter of fact, the thought of it gets me all excited.
 
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