Do the emotions of your particular situation sometimes overwhelm you?

[midlifecrisispanties]

In my case, it is knowing that my significant other has certain physical limits, but indulges me as best she can. I get frustrated when I'm not able to connect to my submission fully because of whatever circumstances. I get to feeling needy. Which in turn makes me feel selfish. I then feel guilt for the selfishness. I'm fairly new to my fully feminine side. (The last year or so.) And sometimes I just want to be held and allowed to cry. But those demonstrations sometimes overwhelm her. So, I hold them back.... Restarting the cycle.

Any advice?