Do Real women really like anal and oral sex ?

[Sovok123]

This is a question that I have been thinking on for many years. As a man reaching my mid-40's I wonder where are all the women that love to give and recieve oral sex and like anal sex . It seems to me that the women around my age will suck your dick and let you eat them until they get a commitment from you . Then the dick sucking usually goes out the window. They generally do not like anal sex . They will do it a few times to make you happy . But their hearts are not in it .

Now , I have recently , had a chance to date and bed women in their mid to late twenties . They love to suck the dick and want you to eat them to orgasm . They will get into anal sex if you are gentle and caring. They will even ask for it , sometimes.

Is this your experience ? Ladies I would like you input too !





Sovok123

 

[Succulent-one]

Well, since you managed to insult middle aged women. By the way, I am in my 40's. I know I love oral, it is one of my favorite pass times. I love to give as well as receive, and I like to swallow, I even enjoy the taste.

I don't know about the age difference if it matters. Might just be in your head so to speak. Pun intended.

If a guy takes the time to make anal pleasant for a woman, then she will enjoy it. Use lots of lube and take your time. I know a lot of the stories on Literotica have the guys ramming and jamming, but that really isn't how most women want to intitiate anal sex.

My opinion only. I am sure there are others out there that will disagree.

 

[Sovok123]

Well , I am glad to here from a woman that enjoys the thing that I enjoy . It is a lucky man that gets to experience your attidude. Yes , your man is a lucky man .

but I can not understand why you think that I was insulting women that are in their 40's . I was just relating my life experiences. Maybe I could be lucky enough to experience the company of some one like you next time I am in the northwest .






Sovok123

 

[SallyIsHere]

Love it

I adore sucking cock, one of my favorite things. I have to be really horny to want anal but when I am, it drives me crazy.

 

[Native Alien]

Not to insult anyone, but it has been my life experience that when most men make posts like yours, they are the ones that don't return the pleasures that they receive.

Succulent is right. Maybe you need to look at the women that you are meeting too.

 

[Sovok123]

You are probably right on one thing I am Meeting the wrong type of Mid aged women. But as to your second observation with me it is totally untrue. I have been asked more times than I can count to stop eating a ladies pussy because they have cum so much to become over sentative.
That is one of the reasons I possed the question is to find , women that like the same things as I do . In my travels with my business to possibly share time with those ladies doing the things that we both enjoy.

Just an observation , Native Alien , from my life experiences attidudes of judging a person from a few lines they write on a forum could show that the person making that judgement is carrying to much bagage from other relationships to be too high maintenance for even short term relationships to work. I do not have the time or interest to pay for the wrongs done by others in the past .




Sovok123

 

[Banishame]

"The lap dance is alway sweeter if the stripper is crying!"

What does this mean, Sovok? I find this statement really disquieting. It suggests to me that a lap dance is more of a turn-on if the woman is really upset - is that what you are saying??

 

[easygoingguy]

the ones I've met have

hey anal's not everyone's game just as other types of sex isn't for everyone but it's hardly an age thing...you know the saying
"different strokes for different folks"

 

[SnoopDougEDoug]

Luv the bottom luvin

Personally I find the anus very stimulating. One of my favorite positions is licking a woman's pussy until she is hovering at the edge, lubricating my finger with Astro Glide, then slowly and gently working it into her ass. If you do it right she will feel like she's getting fucked by a small penis in her bottom. There are a huge number of nerve endings around the anus and there is the taboo of anal sex. A good clit licking and finger fuck can make almost any gal cum.

snoop

 

[Spacebat]

yeey Easygoingguy! Not everybody likes the same thing or else the world would be a boring place to be. Personally I love anal/oral, and am open to new ideas.The rule of thumb is whatever both partners enjoy goes.

Sex and love are meant to be enjoyed not analysed.

*love and joy*

Spacey

 

[larchman]

anal

My wife has always expressed a great dislike for anal and will never let me do it. However, when she is about to cum conventionally, I stick a finger or two in her butt. It seems to make her orgasm more intense. I think she secretly likes it, at least when she is really going.

 

[dragonhearted]

This is a question that I have been thinking on for many years. As a man reaching my mid-40's I wonder where are all the women that love to give and receive oral sex and like anal sex . It seems to me that the women around my age will suck your dick and let you eat them until they get a commitment from you . Then the dick sucking usually goes out the window. They generally do not like anal sex . They will do it a few times to make you happy . But their hearts are not in it .

Now , I have recently , had a chance to date and bed women in their mid to late twenties . They love to suck the dick and want you to eat them to orgasm . They will get into anal sex if you are gentle and caring. They will even ask for it , sometimes.

Is this your experience ? Ladies I would like you input too !
Sovok123

Well Sovok...I LOVE to suck cock...and I am very good at it! Once I am into the main part of the anal, I find it pleasureable, sometimes I even cum....but entry is quite painful for me. I need lots of lube for it. My ex boyfriend was not always caring when it came to that. I think he liked the idea of causing some discomfort. My advice is: if you want a lady to try it...suggest a nice warm bath...then use a SMALL dildo and LOTS of lube...and then tell her to relax cuz you will not do anything to hurt her. I was one of the ones who would NOT under any circumstances try anal. But doing it this way, helped...the dildo and patient stroking...help to stretch the hole a bit. Men like it cuz it IS so tight, but they have NO clue how much it hurts the partner!

 

[Luck7lady]

I am 43 and still love giving as much as I do receiving if not more. I'm a very passionate woman that loves giving to the man I'm with. I will suck to orgasim and swallow every drop and I dearly love every last scrumpious drop. As for anal, of course, that is as long are his gentle and carring. Anal can be very erotic and lead to the best orgasims if done right.

At 43 I still and a remarkably high sex drive and hope I always will. I can't imagin ever saying, *No honey I don't want sex today* lol Heck I want it 5 or 6 times a day.

Sovok.. Do you ever make it to Michigan on business?

 

[hewolf]

Sovok

Where does this nickname come from? just curious..