Do Opposites Attract?

Ambrosious

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Or is it just a myth. It sure rings true in our house, just wondering about yours. Are you and the spouse or committed other opposites?
 
Oh yes we are opposites.

I will sing kareoke sober, I love to dance and addicted to sex.

He is a quiet book worm that does nothing loud doesn't dance and could take or leave sex.

There are so many other examples of things we are opposites at the list could go on for pages.
 
I don't know two more opposite people than my husband and I! But that usually is a good thing. He makes up what I lack and vice versa.
I once heard it said that the road to happiness is so narrow, two can only walk it together if they are one.
When the two are so well balanced, there's nothing lacking :)
 
Though Jas and I have a LOT in common, I would agree that apposites can attract too.
 
Of course

Me and my boyfriend are very opposite. He's the quite conservative type and I am the loud, outgoing type.
Although opposites do attract, couples do need to share some common ground.
 
Guru said:
A couple should have a lot in common, and yet should complement one another. Opposite traits are needed to make a strong team. Similarities are necessary to make a compatible relationship.

Yes?

I have never heard it so well put....bravo!
 
It always seems to me that shy, quiet people usually end up with loud, outgoing partners. There are several examples of this within my family, and I follow the same pattern when dating.
 
Mustang Sally said:
It always seems to me that shy, quiet people usually end up with loud, outgoing partners. There are several examples of this within my family, and I follow the same pattern when dating.


So, which one are you?
 
Okay, watch out for flying pennies, cuz I'm throwing my two cents in.

Heck, yes opposites attract. Sometimes what the other person has, can draw that out of you. I know by experience. My boyfriend is the quiet type of person, while I'm pretty much your average loud-mouth, look-at-me type gal. But... as our dating went along, he got a little more outspoken, and I quieted down abit to where we're now at a happy li'l medium. I think it works that way for a lot of things... especially in the Bedroom. *snickers*

But having things in common is wonderful too. I mean, I have no idea why he was interested in me when we first met (because of my bigmouth) but we shared the same love of music. We both sing, so that was our major tying together. By having something in common, we could talk about that.. and then learn more about each other.

*shrugs* just my opinion of course. Sorry if I babbled...

~*Dreamteazer*~
 
Opposites definatly can be attracted to each other. Take me and all my ex's for example we had nothing but the bedroom in common. LOL
 
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