Do any men REALLY want to get their wives pregnant...

[RedneckDevil]

by another man?

I admit, the idea is hot for me too. But that's where the idea stops. FANTASY. The reality is too earth-shattering to even contemplate.
Can you say, divorce, divorce, divorce?(I'd be doing the filing-not her.)

So, come out, come out. Do any men, honest-to-god, REALLY want their wives knocked up in 'real life'? Or is this just stroke time?(As it is here, too.)

 

[Eilan]

Unless he has DNA testing done as a matter of course, how does any man know his child is really his, anyway?

Sounds to me like one of those fantasies that's way less hot in reality.

 

[JRaven]

He better not!

 

[jeninflorida]

by another man?

I admit, the idea is hot for me too. But that's where the idea stops. FANTASY. The reality is too earth-shattering to even contemplate.
Can you say, divorce, divorce, divorce?(I'd be doing the filing-not her.)

So, come out, come out. Do any men, honest-to-god, REALLY want their wives knocked up in 'real life'? Or is this just stroke time?(As it is here, too.)

for males, in fantasy this is a powerful thought. a lot of men enjoy reading stories where the boss or rival enjoy the wife. in fantasy, sexy, in reality your talking 20 years and a lot of energy (and money) to raise a child....so no, not in reality.

 

[MistAries]

I couldn't imagine wanting this in fantasy, let alone reality!

Still, whatever floats your boat.

 

[jeninflorida]

I couldn't imagine wanting this in fantasy, let alone reality!

Still, whatever floats your boat.

i also get a lot of request, from males...to write about the wife with a lover. oh, and the wife takes the lover bareback. not sure i understand that...

 

[RawHumor]

i also get a lot of request, from males...to write about the wife with a lover. oh, and the wife takes the lover bareback. not sure i understand that...

I think there's an implied submissiveness in the men who have this fantasy, but I'm not sure. I've never understood it, but I know it's quite popular.

 

[sunandshadow]

Maybe if the guy who fathered the child took it away with him when it was born so the husband wouldn't be responsible for it?

 

[AlienHunter]

I'm not too hot about another man bonking let alone knocking her up
I'd rather knock up his wife and let him pay the kid's way through university Nothing but the best for my boy

 

[JustaJerk]

I'll admit, I'd like to watch my wife get laid. But pregnant? NO!

 

[MzDeviancy]

You know, my ex cheated on me, and it put me into a very weird place, emotionally.

On the one hand, he betrayed me and stomped all over my trust and love. It was basically the beginning of the end of our marriage.

On the other hand, some part of me - I'm guessing the same part of me that causes me to write incest - was incredibly turned on by it. I used to make myself come to images of him fucking her.

It was pretty fucked.

 

[Jailhouse]

by another man?

I admit, the idea is hot for me too. But that's where the idea stops. FANTASY. The reality is too earth-shattering to even contemplate.
Can you say, divorce, divorce, divorce?(I'd be doing the filing-not her.)

So, come out, come out. Do any men, honest-to-god, REALLY want their wives knocked up in 'real life'? Or is this just stroke time?(As it is here, too.)

My guess is that the fantasy loses some steam when he has to send the other guy's kid to college.

 

[3113]

Unless he has DNA testing done as a matter of course, how does any man know his child is really his, anyway?

If he and the wife are white and her lover is a black guy...he'll know the baby ain't his.

 

[3113]

Just to add...I WOULD be very interested in knowing why guys get turned on by the wife having sex with another man (fantasy not reality) and never mind if the other man impregnates her.

What I'm most curious about is, fantasy wise, what does the wife's lover need to be like? Does the fantasy work best if the other guy is dominant and powerful either as a boss or physically stronger? Or can it also work if the husband hires a weaker or lesser man to have sex with his wife?

Is the fantasy that of voyeurism--watching the wife have pleasure from the outside? Or is there some thrill in feeling another man's power over you--that is, another man taking your woman and you forced to submit and watch?

I'm not trying to threadjack here--but I'd like to know what's behind the fantasy as well as, in answer to the original question, whether anyone wants it to be a reality to the point of raising another man's child.

Which, come to think of it, raises an interesting artifical insemination question. In most cases where it is the husband's swimmers who are the problem with the couple having kids the husband isn't usually shooting blanks. He just has a low count. And what they do is they mix his low count of sperm with another man's sperm before inseminating the woman. This allows there to be a chance that the husbands sperm will do the trick.

Does the threat of another man's child reduce if it's artificial insemination from an anonymous doner--or is there always some feeling of threat knowing that another man seeded the wife? Among animals there's often real competition for a male to seed the lady by tricks or just force and destroy another male's seed. Do you think human males have some of that primal feeling toward mates and offspring?

 

[Jailhouse]

Just to add...I WOULD be very interested in knowing why guys get turned on by the wife having sex with another man (fantasy not reality) and never mind if the other man impregnates her.

What I'm most curious about is, fantasy wise, what does the wife's lover need to be like? Does the fantasy work best if the other guy is dominant and powerful either as a boss or physically stronger? Or can it also work if the husband hires a weaker or lesser man to have sex with his wife?

Is the fantasy that of voyeurism--watching the wife have pleasure from the outside? Or is there some thrill in feeling another man's power over you--that is, another man taking your woman and you forced to submit and watch?

I'm not trying to threadjack here--but I'd like to know what's behind the fantasy as well as, in answer to the original question, whether anyone wants it to be reality to the point of raising another man's child.

Which, come to think of it, raises an interesting artifical insemination question. In most cases where it is the husband's swimmers who are the problem with the couple having kids the husband isn't usually shooting blanks. He just has a low count. And what they do is they mix his low count of sperm with another man's sperm before inseminating the woman. This allows there to be a chance that the husbands sperm will do the trick.

Does the threat of another man's child reduce if it's artificial insemination from an anonymous doner--or is there always some feeling of threat knowing that another man seeded the wife? Among animals there's often real competition for a male to seed the lady by tricks or just force and destroy another male's seed. Do you think human males have some of that primal feeling toward mates and offspring?

I think that some men may want this, but not all for the same reason.

Some men might want this because they like to think of their wives as a possession that they can hand out or loan as they wish. Other men might like the humiliation of another guy's semen impregnating his wife, which is so very wrong (and taboo is such a turnon for so many of us). Other reasons, too. Just wanted to indicate that it might not be a simple issue of "here's why"...

 

[docgbrown]

Loving wives

Mixed

In fantasy or real the IDEA of the possibility of pregnancy adds to the intensity of the situation.

I don't know if I would mind if my wife eventually got pregnant by another, hand-picked man, as every time I was the child I would be reminded of that night (but it might not have turned out that great). I would hope for a girl as her last name would change anyway and there would be no Y-chromosome to consider. After all we already have kids of our own.

Two of my four brothers are raising sons born to them that isn't my brothers (the wives strayed). One marrage is now in divorce proceedings.

In my experience and understanding the reason I and my past male acquaintances are/were turned on by the wife/girlfriend having sex with another man in fantasy and reality irregardless of whiter or not the other man impregnates her is multi-dimensional.

First is acceptance. We men sometimes need to feel that our lady is still desirous to other males. How eager your buddy screws you lady reminds you of how great a lady you have to hold, keep and come home to, after your buddy is done screwing her of course. A tamer way of seeing it in practice is trophy wives of guys that want their girls to dress HOT when out. We guys want to see other guys lusting after our girl, knowing that she is ours to keep.

Second is our projection of male fantasies onto womanly actions. I believe most males fantasize about group sex more so than women. Having a woman act the way we would, if we were female, can make us aroused immensely. Hence, sluttish or lesbian behaviors in ladies are in much of the male literotica found here.

Third, visualization. What is better than porno? Live porno. What is better than live porno of strangers? Love porno staring someone you love and can bone right afterwards! The internet has nothing on that market niche.

Fourth, Proof of love. "if she'll do this for me I'll know that she truely loves me"

Fifth, hope for reciprocation. I lend you mine, you lend me... I'm sure there are more reasons but these five should start us off.


In practice you wife or girlfriend's lover is your trusted buddy. In fantasy, the wife's lover needn't be anything but polite, clean, discrete and not repulsive to your lady. For insemination fantasy is does seem to work best if the other guy is mentally or physically gifted and if in reality, looks like you. After all you want to improve your gene-pool not diminish it and you really don't want unhappy rumors from your families. In my case it does work if the lover is a weaker or lesser man to have sex with my wife to avoid threat of loss of spouse to the lover.

My fantasy is that not of voyeurism or some thrill in feeling another man's power over me, but of witnessing my wife desire sex, give herself willingly and enjoy it. My wife is VERY hibited and often filled with guilt. We have been married for over a decade and she still feels guilty for having sex at all even though her first time was on our honeymoon! My wife knows that it is ok between a husband and wife and she has a VERY kinky fantasy sex life (she is mostly bent for group-nonconsent).

Acting on anything sexual often fills her with guilt and often ruins it for both. That being said, if she ever finds a used condom discarded by a brother of mine, I would be surprised if she didn't quickly turn it inside out and shove it in her self as she LOVES the idea of being inseminated by one of my brothers (we look like a time capsule of each other) if the guy doesn’t know as she feels she can't get caught.

What's behind the fantasy or reality to the point of raising another man's child is in the memory of how it came to exist, the possible improvement on the gene pool, the fear of someday being figured out and the kink or naughtiness of it all.

As to the artificial insemination question. My wife loved that I gave to a sperm bank. We often had our best sex after the donations. On more than one occasion we have offered to donate my sperm to lesbian couples and once to a regular hetero couple having problems but not having enough money for fertility treatment processing.

In the cases where the husband's swimmers are the problem with the couple having kids the husband due to low count you can't really mix it together as the differing men's sperm "fights." That is some of the men's sperm will not swim around but wrap themselves on the other man's sperm and prevent it from progressing while the rest of his team goes for the goal.

In answer to the question of "Does the threat of another man's child reduce if it's artificial insemination from an anonymous donor--or is there always some feeling of threat knowing that another man seeded the wife? Among animals there's often real competition for a male to seed the lady by tricks or just force and destroy another male's seed. Do you think human males have some of that primal feeling toward mates and offspring?" I believe it does. Since I was very young I have fantasized about impregnating most known women and girls. This desire to inseminate occurred in me even when I knew nothing of the birds and the bees.

What I fantasize most about is my wife being sexual and wanting me. Everything else is a bonus.