Discrete Email Adventure - Dominance and Submission.

[HardSub4U]

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[HardSub4U]

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[Deleted member 5521640]

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I'm still looking and hoping for at least A message or even some feedback on my post. An initial message isn't a commitment for anything, merely a way of seeing if we hit it off or could meet some needs in each other. If you're at least slightly interested then let's get the ball rolling and see where it leads. I'm open to pretty much everything.

I'm also interested in a general conversation with others in regards to my post. Even if you're not available or interested in me, I'd like to understand the general feeling of email dominance/submission vs instant messaging. If there's an overwhelming reason why instant messaging is better for everyone I'll give it a shot. Let's get a discussion going in the thread.

If there's something you'd like to know that I haven't mentioned in my post then also let me know (here's fine if you don't want to PM) and I'll fill in the gaps.

I think your ad is sincere and you're letting people know what you're looking for. Overall, it's a good opening advertisement for you.

I suspect, though, that you're probably limited in the appeal of it. I'm sure there are dominant women on here, but probably in limited or small numbers, so you certainly will have a lot of competition for their attention. I don't have any factual basis for making that statement; rather, it's just the gist I get from reading numerous posts over the years I've been here. Take it for what it's worth. You'll have to be persistent and not one for being easily discouraged. Stick with it and your hard work may pay off. I wish you all the best in your search.

 

[HardSub4U]

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[HardSub4U]

Reposting as a few people I messaged with didn't work out.


I'm a fit and healthy 41 year old guy looking to add some fun, excitement and adventure into a boring and routine work/home life.

I'm very discreet and very careful about privacy so I find it hard to find someone who will want to take control of me. Most people seem to require instant messaging, chats, photos and video sessions which are great and fun but also very hard to fit around time differences and busy schedules. They can also be a personal privacy nightmare for both parties. I might be willing to eventually share non-identifying photos once I've established a good rapport and trust with someone, but I find most people expect them after the first couple of messages. Thus it's hard not to feel like they're just trying to scam. I'd also be open to instant messages if I consider the platform private and secure, a web browser based instant messaging system would be ideal.

I've always loved this site for the stories but never ventured onto the forums until now. I'm hoping a site full of people who love the written word (I truly find its much better than porn to be honest) might enjoy conversing over email which I consider to be a safe and effective form of communication. An email can be written at your leisure with comments and instructions/tasks to be completed the next day. The task can be completed during my available time and a report written. They also allow for long thought out scenarios which a quick instant message doesn't allow. It's just a different experience.

If you're a genuine lady who loves taking control over a naughty boy while also enjoying stimulating conversation with someone articulate, intelligent, honest, loyal, obedient and discrete then PM me, I would truly love to hear from you!

 

[Sassyunicorn]

Reposting as a few people I messaged with didn't work out.


I'm a fit and healthy 41 year old guy looking to add some fun, excitement and adventure into a boring and routine work/home life.

I'm very discreet and very careful about privacy so I find it hard to find someone who will want to take control of me. Most people seem to require instant messaging, chats, photos and video sessions which are great and fun but also very hard to fit around time differences and busy schedules. They can also be a personal privacy nightmare for both parties. I might be willing to eventually share non-identifying photos once I've established a good rapport and trust with someone, but I find most people expect them after the first couple of messages. Thus it's hard not to feel like they're just trying to scam. I'd also be open to instant messages if I consider the platform private and secure, a web browser based instant messaging system would be ideal.

I've always loved this site for the stories but never ventured onto the forums until now. I'm hoping a site full of people who love the written word (I truly find its much better than porn to be honest) might enjoy conversing over email which I consider to be a safe and effective form of communication. An email can be written at your leisure with comments and instructions/tasks to be completed the next day. The task can be completed during my available time and a report written. They also allow for long thought out scenarios which a quick instant message doesn't allow. It's just a different experience.

If you're a genuine lady who loves taking control over a naughty boy while also enjoying stimulating conversation with someone articulate, intelligent, honest, loyal, obedient and discrete then PM me, I would truly love to hear from you!

AMEN! to everything in this post. Email is way better than instant messages for all the reasons described here. Very articulate and well thought out post. I wish you all the best!

 

[HardSub4U]

I just wanted to give a quick update to signal that I'm now off the market as I seem to have found what I was looking for and I am excited to see how things go.

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

I just wanted to give a quick update to signal that I'm now off the market as I seem to have found what I was looking for and I am excited to see how things go.

Congrats to you Keep us posted as to how things go for you.