Discovered exciting sex-practice: "Karezza" - not ejaculating any more

[tim33]

In the quest to heal my premature-ejaculation problem I discoverd "Karezza". It is similar to Tantric sex. It means at least the man does not cum any more, and he achieves this by always (trying to) staying in the safe pre pre-cum zone. Like this you can have calmer, but very exciting, sex for hours, instead of just 15min sex with ejaculation.

After a normal orgasm you often don't want/need sex anymore for hours and days. When you follow Karezza you don't ejaculate anymore and stay horny "for ever" ha ha. And for the woman it is much more fun as well. The man basically (tries to) stays hard all the time, and is inside the woman for much of the time.

Whenever he gets too excited he calms things down. Then heats things up again. The sex can go on for hours.....
There are good books about it, and its also discussed on yt-channels. It was originally "invented" in the 18hundreds as a method to avoid pregnancy.

I wonder why this is not a lot more known and practiced, its so extremely much better, more spiritual, with much deeper connection, and much more exciting than conventional-orgasm-sex....

Its similar to Tantra, like an extremely exciting "sex-meditation", only the woman can have as many conventional orgasms as she wants.

 

[12oclocktales]

Having sex and always feeling as if you're going to come and then never doing so sounds like the ultimate definition of frustrated lover. We already have a suicide problem in this country, and I can only see this adding to it.

On a more serious level: Men who have had their prostrate removed often have that "feeling" of coming during sex but never actually ejaculate anything. I think it's called "dry ejaculation." That sounds like a win-win for everyone, though impotency (unable to achieve erection) often accompanies this. They have pills for that, though, if other health issues don't prevent you from taking them.

 

[tim33]

Having sex and always feeling as if you're going to come and then never doing so sounds like the ultimate definition of frustrated lover. We already have a suicide problem in this country, and I can only see this adding to it.

On a more serious level: Men who have had their prostrate removed often have that "feeling" of coming during sex but never actually ejaculate anything. I think it's called "dry ejaculation." That sounds like a win-win for everyone, though impotency (unable to achieve erection) often accompanies this. They have pills for that, though, if other health issues don't prevent you from taking them.

I was always frustrated after orgasma, sad that its over (much too quickly even often). Now I am never frustrated again, instead on a constant high. I don't miss the ejaculation-orgasm at all. Its more like constant arousal now. During the day, when I suddenly remember I won't ever cum again (at least I try), it excites me too.

 

[PhiloDaddy]

I've experienced this often with lovers. Sometimes ED issues due to heart medication but it doesn't stop me from getting my partner off and enjoying her.

 

[Wonderer67]

Having sex and always feeling as if you're going to come and then never doing so sounds like the ultimate definition of frustrated lover.

For me that is the point. My wife and I engage in orgasm control and this is a common practice for many in a domme/sub relationship.

It makes me a very focused and attentive partner. We have all kinds of sex, she is allowed to cum and I am not for a period of XXX days/weeks/months.

It is important for a man to cum every once in a while, tho, clean out the pipes as they say and let the prostate do its thing. (I have heard that not cumming at all is not the best thing for your prostate.)

When you do cum, the orgasms are amazingly intense. Super strong.

Every once in a while, my wife and I will talk and try to push myself for a long period of time. The longest I’ve been has been eight weeks.

Right now we are pushing the limit, and I’m trying to stave off cumming till my birthday in late June. I’m already in my third week and this will be a long frustrating session.

My wife and I both love it.

To each their own.

 

[Intrepid47]

In the quest to heal my premature-ejaculation problem I discoverd "Karezza". It is similar to Tantric sex. It means at least the man does not cum any more, and he achieves this by always (trying to) staying in the safe pre pre-cum zone. Like this you can have calmer, but very exciting, sex for hours, instead of just 15min sex with ejaculation.

After a normal orgasm you often don't want/need sex anymore for hours and days. When you follow Karezza you don't ejaculate anymore and stay horny "for ever" ha ha. And for the woman it is much more fun as well. The man basically (tries to) stays hard all the time, and is inside the woman for much of the time.

Whenever he gets too excited he calms things down. Then heats things up again. The sex can go on for hours.....
There are good books about it, and its also discussed on yt-channels. It was originally "invented" in the 18hundreds as a method to avoid pregnancy.

I wonder why this is not a lot more known and practiced, its so extremely much better, more spiritual, with much deeper connection, and much more exciting than conventional-orgasm-sex....

Its similar to Tantra, like an extremely exciting "sex-meditation", only the woman can have as many conventional orgasms as she wants.

I’m a man who has never heard of this, and now I think I’ll be reading about it!

 

[UtilityCurve]

Honestly, this doesn't appeal to me (despite the promise of spending double-digit hours naked with a woman), nor if I can assume everything my female lovers told me we true, would it have to them. The urgency (and resolution) of male desire was something they expressed getting great psychic pleasure from: To be crude, getting me in and off made them feel feminine. Extended (and nonejaculatory) play would have been, I think, uncomfortably different, requiring a new concept of being the female.

But I cannot say enough good things about couples who enjoy this: I am glad you found each other!

 

[12oclocktales]

I commented on this thread a while back, and since then, by sheer coincidence, in a book on Magellan’s circumnavigation of the globe (1519-22), I came across a sexual practice known as palang, performed by inhabitants on the island of Cebu in the South Pacific, that also prolonged orgasm to everyone’s satisfaction. The details are quite different, however, and probably not to most people’s taste. Magellan’s chronicler Antonio Pigafetta was fascinated by what he saw and wrote about it in detail in his diary. The men had their penises pierced near the tip by a bolt “as thick as a goose quill,” at both ends of which were attached spurs. The women had their vaginas stretched gradually from childhood to accommodate the men. Once the men were inside the women, the spurs discouraged sudden movements which intensified sensations for both sexes, but especially the women. Intercourse lasted as long as a whole day, even longer. Now that is some serious edging! (As an aside, the natives throughout this region also believed that virginity was a major liability and engaged “professional deflowerers” to remedy the situation. I wonder how one was chosen for that job?)

 

[tim33]

I commented on this thread a while back, and since then, by sheer coincidence, in a book on Magellan’s circumnavigation of the globe (1519-22), I came across a sexual practice known as palang, performed by inhabitants on the island of Cebu in the South Pacific, that also prolonged orgasm to everyone’s satisfaction. The details are quite different, however, and probably not to most people’s taste. Magellan’s chronicler Antonio Pigafetta was fascinated by what he saw and wrote about it in detail in his diary. The men had their penises pierced near the tip by a bolt “as thick as a goose quill,” at both ends of which were attached spurs. The women had their vaginas stretched gradually from childhood to accommodate the men. Once the men were inside the women, the spurs discouraged sudden movements which intensified sensations for both sexes, but especially the women. Intercourse lasted as long as a whole day, even longer. Now that is some serious edging! (As an aside, the natives throughout this region also believed that virginity was a major liability and engaged “professional deflowerers” to remedy the situation. I wonder how one was chosen for that job?)

Exciting!