Why don't I hear more dirty talk during sex? I love to talk dirty during sex. Tell the person what they are doing right and what else they could be doing. I tell them what is going through my head as far as fantasy. But All you hear in the movies is moaning. The movie "talk dirty to me " wasn't even that full of talk. They eventually got around to just moaning. I don't want to be demeaning but I like to say " yea suck that like that, flick it with your tongue. Massage my asshole. Let me rub your pussy ( or dick, if it's a tranny! ), lick my ear then bite it a little. What do people think?