Dirty talk - please help

[chame1eon]

I think it takes creativity and imagination and you can express things that you otherwise could n't, but I want to get better at it. Give me some inspiration.

 

[OpenMouth]

It's so difficult to find genuinely erotic dirty talk on the Internet.

It's all crap porn and 'ooh baby' when what we really want is a hot woman talking filth in her normal voice. My wife has the perfect voice for it but she's too self conscious...

 

[chame1eon]

It's so difficult to find genuinely erotic dirty talk on the Internet.

It's all crap porn and 'ooh baby' when what we really want is a hot woman talking filth in her normal voice. My wife has the perfect voice for it but she's too self conscious...

I'm trying to get over that. I thought some inspiration would help.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Well, if you can find a 'phone friend', you can practice your dirty talk with them.

My wife is very conservative in the bedroom. The little success I've had with pushing the envelope is getting her very hot and only then saying a few dirty words, sometime begging her to say a few.

Nothing is sexier than real dirty talk from the woman you are with.

 

[GD88]

My wife is good at the "Non-Vulgar" dirty talk. We'd both be lying down in bed, she'd be giving me a blowjob and she'll whisper things like "I'm going to make you feel so good" and "It feels so warm in my hands". Nothing vulgar but still very erotic.

EDIT: Sorry, I meant handjob not blowjob.

 

[chame1eon]

Well, if you can find a 'phone friend', you can practice your dirty talk with them.

My wife is very conservative in the bedroom. The little success I've had with pushing the envelope is getting her very hot and only then saying a few dirty words, sometime begging her to say a few.

Nothing is sexier than real dirty talk from the woman you are with.

I actually considered that but I had a bad experience with that once and I don't know if I want to try again right away.

 

[chame1eon]

My wife is good at the "Non-Vulgar" dirty talk. We'd both be lying down in bed, she'd be giving me a blowjob and she'll whisper things like "I'm going to make you feel so good" and "It feels so warm in my hands". Nothing vulgar but still very erotic.

That didn't occur to me. Now that you mention that I think my problem is that I rarely swear irl or say anything vulgar, but I really just want something more dirty and somewhat freaky. Also my boyfriend seems to be attracted to my natural sweetness and I'm not sure how he would take it if started swearing and coming up with weird ideas. Now know what the problem is at least.

 

[GD88]

That didn't occur to me. Now that you mention that I think my problem is that I rarely swear irl or say anything vulgar, but I really just want something more dirty and somewhat freaky. Also my boyfriend seems to be attracted to my natural sweetness and I'm not sure how he would take it if started swearing and coming up with weird ideas. Now know what the problem is at least.

Play to your strengths. If you're not the swearing type, then don't. With my wife, what's erotic is the contrast between what is said and what is done. I get shivers down my spine when she says "I'm going to take you in my mouth" that I probably won't get with a "I'm going to suck your cock".

 

[chame1eon]

Play to your strengths. If you're not the swearing type, then don't. With my wife, what's erotic is the contrast between what is said and what is done. I get shivers down my spine when she says "I'm going to take you in my mouth" that I probably won't get with a "I'm going to suck your cock".

Makes sense but I want swearing.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Well, speaking strictly for myself - I find it super charged when someone who normally doesn't swear or talk particularly dirty lets loose with a string of really profane expressions. You might want to just dive in and give it a try. Say what pops into your mind, no matter how dirty it is.

 

[crashD]

Just t ok him to tuck your tight pussy with his big Coco.

Sway it's the biggest you've ever seen.

Tell him you don't know if you can take it.

 

[roc23]

I think it takes creativity and imagination and you can express things that you otherwise could n't, but I want to get better at it. Give me some inspiration.

After you've gotten to know the person a little bit,say exactly what comes to mind.
If they don't like what you say,can't handle your creativity or don't realize you're just trying to be good at it,move on. Don't waste your time with someone who's not sexually compatible.

 

[Snugbug]

Talk about what you like during sex. Ex. I like it when you pull me tight against you and play with my nipples while we fuck standing up.

Like, just be straightforward and descriptive. Chances are he'll live it

 

[Mr_Neb]

There is a difference between "swearing" or "talking dirty" and "erotic talk." My wife has never said the words "cock" or "pussy" or "fuck" in bed but man, can that woman talk erotically.

At least for me, there are four types of things I just love to hear when we at having sex:
1. How good what I'm doing makes her feel.
2. How much she is enjoying whatever she is doing to me.
3. When she describes what she is doing to me or will be doing to me.
4. What she wants me to do to her.

All of that can be done without getting carried away with cruder words if that is not your thing. Trust me when I tell you that it is just as effective when she seductively whispers, "I really want to kiss you now." And she doesn't mean on my lips.

 

[hex2112]

My wife will use the "fuck my cunt" wording a lot. It turns me on when she does. Been awhile tho.